DatLBCGuy562
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Do you pull out all of the stops to try to get her back? Try to get some type of closure by asking her to at least explain what you did? Or do you show no emotion,I.e. weakness, let it burn until time heals you, and keep it pushing? Or other?
Going through this now. Met a woman on BLK.A flight attendant, own place, college educated, soft spoken, sweet. At least her representative was. We had seemingly great chemistry during the couple of weeks we were talking. And then I mentioned how my job hired this homosexual dude who made a couple of comments about me being handsome and how it made me extremely uncomfortable. She said I was overreacting. I told her that I didn’t think I was. That it was a respect thing and that a homosexual man shouldn’t be making flirtatious gestures or comments at a man who is clearly heterosexual.
The conversation between us never got heated or disrespectful on either end. We both firmly stated our positions. And then she started telling me how members of her family were gay or whatever. We talked a couple of more minutes and she abruptly ended the call. Haven’t heard from her since Wednesday. Complete radio silence. I think she wrote me off as a bigot. I don’t chase women. If they bounce, they bounce. Just means my turn is over and it’s time for the next mans to begin. Especially not gonna go after someone who could walk away from me over a seemingly minor misunderstanding. How does the Coli handle people who randomly ghost? Ladies? Fellas? Y’all just let em walk or try to convince em to stay? My pride is HUGE. When you have to try to convince someone you’re worthy of their affection and attention, shyt ain’t worth it. If you don’t want me on your own merit without me begging or guilting you into being around, then I don’t need or want you...
Going through this now. Met a woman on BLK.A flight attendant, own place, college educated, soft spoken, sweet. At least her representative was. We had seemingly great chemistry during the couple of weeks we were talking. And then I mentioned how my job hired this homosexual dude who made a couple of comments about me being handsome and how it made me extremely uncomfortable. She said I was overreacting. I told her that I didn’t think I was. That it was a respect thing and that a homosexual man shouldn’t be making flirtatious gestures or comments at a man who is clearly heterosexual.
The conversation between us never got heated or disrespectful on either end. We both firmly stated our positions. And then she started telling me how members of her family were gay or whatever. We talked a couple of more minutes and she abruptly ended the call. Haven’t heard from her since Wednesday. Complete radio silence. I think she wrote me off as a bigot. I don’t chase women. If they bounce, they bounce. Just means my turn is over and it’s time for the next mans to begin. Especially not gonna go after someone who could walk away from me over a seemingly minor misunderstanding. How does the Coli handle people who randomly ghost? Ladies? Fellas? Y’all just let em walk or try to convince em to stay? My pride is HUGE. When you have to try to convince someone you’re worthy of their affection and attention, shyt ain’t worth it. If you don’t want me on your own merit without me begging or guilting you into being around, then I don’t need or want you...
