According to a new study ..over 50% of men have not approached a women in the past year

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I know on the coli we're all extremely mentally strong or pretend to be but rejection whether direct or indirect is tough on the soul.

Speaking for myself it's not the actual rejection thats the bad part, it's moreso the introspective aspect afterwards where you have to sit with yourself and wonder what you did wrong or what's wrong with you. This can put you in a pretty dark headspace. I can admit that I'm personally not built for it, the mental decline and hit to my self esteem isn't worth it to me.
preciate you for being honest on here.

With that said, how do you go about taking literally any risk in life? Rejection isn’t exclusive to just women
 

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Dudes not trying to turn into a hash tag online.

MF go up to a woman to say "hi, my name is _____ how are you doing?" Then they get their photo taken or filmed.

If women are interested in men, they need to approach US. It's happened to me a few times already and I'm glad to see things going in that direction. Let them risk embarrassment, it will actually help them empathize with men and understand us better when they're put in the situations we are put in.
 
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Haven’t done this in so long
The worse that can happen is they say no, then snapshot it and laugh at you in group chat
They defenitel clown nikkas online frankly for that reason alone anything said to a woman should be said in person.

I know a guy who's dating a girl here who is a ran through several nikkas he know hit it and when they knew he was with her some of the nikkas DMéd her Hello and I guess they didn't think that she would show it to her Man.

I told the nikka I don't even want to know her number to send her on wierd texts.


My Girl told me that Artie Fuqua randomly DMéd her I had to look him up he's blue checked, The point is bytches get hit up on IG all the time.
 

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Haven’t done this in so long
The worse that can happen is they say no, then snapshot it and laugh at you in group chat
this. no revenge of the nerds shyt but this is why i make it a lifelong goal to shyt on them. they’ll take it to the grave before they admit they were wrong about a nikka.

i just pride myself on being more successful than the nikkas they think are/were soooo much better than me. when i cross paths with people again the looks are priceless

i may have some childhood/teenaged inflicted confidence issues and all. but on the flipside it gives me motivation to work hard and have the last laugh. women or no women i feel like my motivation is set for life and the “suffering” was meant to happen. i can’t relate to the people who are content in life because i never got it easy like they did. i was placed in the back burner as the lame tagalong nikka amongst folks of both genders
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preciate you for being honest on here.

With that said, how do you go about taking literally any risk in life? Rejection isn’t exclusive to just women
You have to try without a doubt and I do, but you have to be choosy and pick your battles wisely. Try to shoot high percentage shots that have a good chance of going in to build yourself up and get yourself going.

My point was mostly that I know I have self esteem issues that I’ve struggled with my whole life and I have to protect the lesser amount of it I do have because I can’t afford to lose it
 

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Dudes not trying to turn into a hash tag online.

MF go up to a woman to say "hi, my name is _____ how are you doing?" Then they get their photo taken or filmed.

If women are interested in men, they need to approach US. It's happened to me a few times already and I'm glad to see things going in their direction. Let them risk embarrassment, it will actually help them empathize with men and understand us better when they're put in the situations we are put in.
The funny think is hoes hate the patriachy and tradition only but When it benefits them they hushe.

nikkas need to embrace feminism and make these hoes work lol. Buuuuut the avg man of today would rather check out and complain than focus on himself and become the best version of himself.

hoes are desperate out here so the men who invest in self can feast, the true issue imo for men who get hoes is these bytches are crazy and drowning in debt due to all the freedoms frying their brain
 

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Dudes not trying to turn into a hash tag online.

MF go up to a woman to say "hi, my name is _____ how are you doing?" Then they get their photo taken or filmed.

If women are interested in men, they need to approach US. It's happened to me a few times already and I'm glad to see things going in their direction. Let them risk embarrassment, it will actually help them empathize with men and understand us better when they're put in the situations we are put in.
i been looked at sideways approaching enough young lightskin women in the past to know to completely put that shyt to rest nowadays lol. i don’t got it in me anymore for the free ego boosts, especially as i continue to become more successful. because when i was broke with no clout but had a good head on my shoulders you thought i was a joke.

ill stay in my lane as the ghostman “sigma male” (never using this word again).

the “what could’ve been” nikka.

im fine with that. it gives me a sick kind of pleasure of retribution tbh

but yeah im glad men are stopping the approaching and regaining their dignity back instead
 
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