According to a new study ..over 50% of men have not approached a women in the past year

[Mass]

 

[Shadow King]

the coli skews so whenever modern dating/sex dynamics pop up the discourse is off base

the term incel is going the way of pawg on here. the dating world just from 10 years ago is very different from today. No the reason men aren't dating as much isn't just down to the simple explanations most on here parrot. No I don't have all the answers for why there has been such a stark contrast compared to not that long ago, but it's definitely not the canned explanations most give whenever this topic comes up

"men are just after ig baddies now"
"getting p*ssy has never been easier"
"men take trash pictures on dating apps" pretty true actually

Been saying this... niqqas applying the G-Unit sneaker era to 2023...

- men are scarier and testosterone rates are dropping
- women less friendly and approachable
- too many fatties
- too many people trying to get over on u (foodie calls)
- social media leads to a smaller amount of men monopolizing the good looking women which only leaves mid women and fatties and men don't want to put in hella work just to get women that they are not really attracted to physically. it's not exactly 80/20 but definitely worse than 10 years ago
- overpopulation which leads to people feeling like they have infinite options. plus it leads to social breakdown so women can do grimy shyt like foodie calls without being called out on it or socially ostracized
- porn
- too much entertainment + internet so men can isolate themselves without getting bored
- social isolation
- lower wages for men without degrees which leads to men dropping out of the labor force entirely, then they don't approach cuz they got nothing to offer and can't afford to date (you got broke men who still approach and get women to trick on them but a lot of men aren't built like that)
- too much negativity on the internet/social media which leads to goofy narratives like "you can't even approach without being exposed on tikok". like cmon bruh thats not happening 99% of the time. women are legit less friendly and approachable tho

low key i'm going to add true crime docs which feeds into my last point. i've noticed women seem more paranoid and hyper vigilant compared to a decade ago. "i could get raped/killed" is the female version of "you can't even approach without being exposed on tikok". Obviously the former is more likely to happen but modern women are OD with it. it's weird that women are less paranoid in countries that have a much higher rate of femicide like Mexico

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

sexual assault on men isn't taken seriously? Since when?

go troll somewhere else

 

[Positive Poster]

They’re probably hideous.

 

[Pull Up the Roots]

I remember this video and the conversations around it when it dropped back then. And the admission that they cut out all of the white men.

Video Calls Out Catcallers, But Cuts Out White Men

 

[Spectre]

I remember that video

Cold approaching took a big hit after that

Good dudes became more self-conscious and creeps just kept creeping lol

Approaching in general nowadays is dead anyway unless it's in a very social setting which are becoming more rare

 

[TEH]

Make that 99.9% for The Booth posters

 

[RareAirBorne]

These studies are only as good as the population being tested and usually it’s shyt

Asking women who approached them makes this data inadmissible. If you were unappealing your approach likely "didn't count".

Ask the men...

There's a saying in the field of data: "Trash in, trash out"...but then that would negate 50% of these "studies"


Back to the topic though, I've found that non-BW are more likely to approach you, while BW will typically act is if you don't exist until you approach them (unless they fat - but that's another subject) and that disposition alone can be the difference between getting approached or not. I'm a data nerd and could go crazy with the metrics that could be generated from a good dataset on this but just like most social issues, it is extremely hard to measure/validate.

I truly envy PAWGset though and the ease of which you can just approach and talk with non BW. I watched (and dabbled a bit ) all throughout HS and college in almost disbelief. What makes it worse is knowing I'm over here dealing with extra shyt just cause I want to have a black family

But a black queen is unmatched in my book, word to my momma

 

[Kasgoinjail]

Erm, I get approached pretty much everytime I'm outside for more than hour

This will change now that winter is coming

 

[africngiant]

Erm, I get approached pretty much everytime I'm outside for more than hour

This will change now that winter is coming

are looks or personality your qualifier to let him get your number and date?

 

[Yaboysix]

Races of the gentlemen who polled?

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

We share

 

[Kasgoinjail]

are looks or personality your qualifier to let him get your number and date?

Combination
Mainly approach, a nice smile and polite conversation go a long way, especially if he smells good and has clean fingernails.

I have had great looking men call to me from across the road 'psst psst, yo miss'

I just walk straight past those ones.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Combination
Mainly approach, a nice smile and polite conversation go a long way, especially if he smells good and has clean fingernails.

I have had great looking men call to me from across the road 'psst psst, yo miss'

I just walk straight past those ones.

Arent you married or am i confusing you with another poster?

 

[Kasgoinjail]

Arent you married or am i confusing you with another poster?

I'm not married I'm single, have never been married.