Admitted to cheating on my GF, where do I go from here?

[ignorethis]

Between this thread and the thread about your relationship in the Salon... that relationship was bound to end in some type of ugly way.

Hell, you read r/deadbedrooms, couples in situations like y'all end ugly majority of the time.

 

[Abstract83]

Don't reach out to her at all? Wait for her to talk to me for how long?

And I thought this confession was gonna go a lot differently. Early in the relationship she cheated and I had to find out on my own, I didn't get angry I just charged it to the game and said it was proof that we weren't supposed to be in a relationship but we can still be friends.

We got past that and got back together, but I always told myself if I cheated I would admit to it because I would never want to have her find out on her own and feel the way I felt.

Ok I didn't know she cheated as well. Give her a week or 2. But honestly if u dont wanna get back with her u shouldn't do too much. If u confessed and apologised u did ur part by just telling her.

 

[Brolic Scholar]

You’re a jackass OP. fukked up 9 years because you felt guilty? Do you call the police every time you speed? Do you return all the change if a cashier gives you too much? You’re the biggest idiot of the day. Just let her move on. Even if she comes back a week later, she’ll never fully trust or respect you and her insecurity is going to cause you both to break up anyway.

You should’ve kept your mouth shut and learned not to cheat if you felt guilty.

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[Mr Rager]

Explain to her why you did it and take steps to assure her it won't happen again. That is, if the relationship is worth saving

 

[mortuus est]

RIP in advance breh, she coming for you

 

[DEAD7]

Did you cry when you told her?

 

[Deuterion]

I cheated on my ex and I just kept that shyt close to the chest and never did it again.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Why the fukk would u tell her. You're supposed to get caught by her and say you sorry swear to never do it again that's how u keep her. When u tell on yourself u never get to keep her

 

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[Actually6Foot3]

It's crazy reading threads like this cause every last one of my friends cheat with no remorse

nikkas getting engaged and still cheating
One is married and still cheating
One homie JUST got a new girl. Already cheating

Then I read remorseful shyt like this and it's weird cause I'm not use to seeing it. Good in you though but that relationship is dead in the dirt! Should've kept it to yourself and just stopped cheating if you felt that bad.

 

[Zandía]

He doesn’t want her back just wants to feel better bout the situation!

Time OP, it takes time. Leave her be.

Her cheating b4 makes me feel less bad for her tho lol.

Next time just leave, who wants to have the cheating stench on them?

 

[#1 pick]

Why you cheated breh?

 

[DLo]

Learn from it and move on. IF she takes you back she will hold it over your head for a long time. The trust is gone and may never be repaired

 

[Jamesmac91]

Did you cry when you told her?

Honestly yea
Seeing her break down made me cry.

and I know this is wrong but when she got angry I got angry because I thought "I didn't react like this when you cheated".

She then yelled "so that's what this was about", but no I honestly forgave her for that even though I could tell she never really believed that I did. That happened so early on in the relationship, years ago, I would have to be petty to use that as justification.

I'm just trying to register the fact that 9 years of doing everything right has been undone by a month.

 

[Karb]

Why you asking us? Handle this shyt on your own...

Never seen #HYON used in this context before