Yeah becuz telling her go to her room and think about her actions is gonna work on a 4 year old.
I have to spank my son. That talking and taking his toys doesn't work. I think he has some sort of attention deficit becuz he could do something and after you tell him it was bad he'd forget about it and probably do the same damn thing in 10 minutes. So I find myself looking at him like

most of the time.
And taking his toys is a joke becuz he's so damn creative. He'll find a way to have fun. He'll make his own little gadgets and shyt. Kinda how my brother was when we were younger.