Adult Woman: “Focusing on yourself and your growth is idiotic and boring.”

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I had no business getting p*ssy when I had $100 in the checking account

Women need to choose better.

An impoverished man is supposed to die alone.

Laws of nature and civilization.
I agree, a broke ass man should die alone. You wouldn’t believe how wet p*ssy gets when a bill is paid or anything of the sort. I can play with my own p*ssy. What the fukk are you in my face for?
 

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Men know. It's just hard to convey, understand, or accept if you haven't experienced it. It's also one of the main roots of society's ills

Because women have more choices and make more money than ever before, they get to be more open about their choices in men. And as I'm sure you know, when a woman is into a man, there is an invisible megaphone on the ways she expresses that interest. Men aren't used to the amount of female expression of male interest at the level that social media has presented. This is why make depression has risen the way it has. Because if you haven't experienced that type of energy seeing it go to a man you think doesn't "deserve" it will eat a nikkas soul

This is why the nikka with no job, car, etc but access to women is the most hated nikka on the planet:pachaha: It ain't just about the sex, it's the way women openly flaunt and revere the men they really like. The reason "just legalize prostitution" won't work here is because men want that desire and reverence they see other nikkas get. When you directly tie your value to money you become confused by all the women fukkin and flaunting nikkas broker than you
Thats why insecure(key word) tricks and insecure “Men who made it” will attempt to gatekeep vaginal access via calling other men broke, or lame, “why you fukkin with a broke nikka! A man with only XYZ yearly income doesn’t deserve a woman” because they feel as though they had to work hard to get who they wanted, why should a bum get what they coveted? It’s like they’re not secure in their tricking. Quite sad. So much of who they are and strived to be financially, was for the sole purpose of gaining women they couldn’t have previously. To see a bum pull the same caliber…yikes.
 

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Because when you got your shyt together, dumb ass chicks have nothing to leverage and can't control you. They have to resort to dumb ass shaming tactics on bird apps i.e. "9-5 dudes are afraid of thugs...." and so and so forth because they can't have you and they know you'd never put up with their b.s. Just sour grapes shyt to make themselves feel better.

With some of these dudes you're just a walking reminder that they're a bunch of losers who failed at life so it's nothing but jealousy and resentment towards other black men striving to make something of themselves.

The good thing is good women like Chez Charde, Chantelle Simon and others are exposing these chicks for their bullshyt.
Yep I can spot a bird pretty quickly.

They zero leverage, when they find out I have masters and know I work in tech.
:manny:


And don’t get me started on traveling. A lot birds really only travel state side. Probably on spirit airlines.

Meanwhile i move around internationally and stay in 5 star joints. :hubie:
 

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yea running around broke AF was so lit...once you get to a certain age thats when everything else like money starts to matter 2 much.....its just not the same :mjcry:

I had more dealing with way more women when I was broke Vs now I am paid. But it’s for obvious reasons as well.

I would spend money on stupid shyt like clothes to attract women. Bought everything on credit and got into debt.

I had horrible credit most of my 20s.

But hey I was getting buns.

At some point I realized sex was overrated and everything I’m doing for is hustling backwards if I ain’t truly living the way I want.

So I went to monk mode at times and drained out the distractions.

Now I’m at a point that I just won’t deal with certain things, because it’s not worth the headache.
The cold hard truth the majority of men will never ever reach 6 figures (unless inflation gets real crazy). And there is nothing wrong with that.
Most people in the US won’t make more 60k in a single year over their lifetime.


Some of us here make more than double that :sas2:
 

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Self improvement is boring. Which is why most people stay stagnant and don’t elevate. It is a very personal journey which should have nothing to do with any women. You can focus your mind solely on grinding for self achievement and still have time to have side dealings with women. All of the extra jibber jabber is just ghetto Twitter handlings by nonsensical unhinged egomaniacs :camby:
 
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