Adult Woman: “Focusing on yourself and your growth is idiotic and boring.”

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Society is teaching men that in order to get women we must lead w our wallet. That’s just simply not true, plenty of families are in poverty. Plenty of security guard nikkas running through hoes. For me making a lot money is for me, for my own security and lifestyle. I don’t tell women nor do I like to tell them how much I have it’s tasteless af and if a girl presses you about that then that’s not the one unless you like that trophy wife shyt
 

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Telling dudes to ignore women until their 30s is some unrealistic shyt. No reason you shouldn’t be able to balance your career, personal hobbies and relationships with women.

It’s true all I remember from most of my 20s relationship were me busting down chicks some of which I don’t actually remember. In the 30s the level amount and quality of women I had access to changed. Granted my experiences were different since I never experienced on college campus lifestyle.
 

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The cold hard truth the majority of men will never ever reach 6 figures (unless inflation gets real crazy). And there is nothing wrong with that.

even if you manage to make a high solid 5 figs that's a win...:manny: every man in here should strive to be the best version of themselves...
 

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Society is teaching men that in order to get women we must lead w our wallet. That’s just simply not true, plenty of families are in poverty. Plenty of security guard nikkas running through hoes. For me making a lot money is for me, for my own security and lifestyle. I don’t tell women nor do I like to tell them how much I have it’s tasteless af and if a girl presses you about that then that’s not the one unless you like that trophy wife shyt

This is perfectly normal men have always had to do this. The more resources the more women. Plenty of families are in poverty I agree but that comes from life choices/decisions.

You don’t need to tell women when you start making money it seems like they just put the picture together. What you posted is an example of you being a person that has those qualities and you are operating from a place of abundance due to your life choices. Aka you don’t have the same struggle most other guys have.

The facts are everyone isn’t going to be successful and those who aren’t successful deserve relationship. Trouble is the women who should be with those guys believe they should be with a more successful guy. It won’t work out at all. It will just end up in a lot of bitter older women who can’t actually mentor the younger women and a lot of out of wedlock kids who won’t be raised in a household with a logical male figure.

A generation of women who refuse to be told what to do by their love interest but undergo all kind of training for the work force. Once they start to get older it seems they wake up and take issue with everything. We have to start being honest about this topic. Women want the best guy they can get. Men generally just want a variety of women or someone who we are content with (basically checks as many blocks as possible).

You even notice it in the threads here us guys go out of our way to qualify a woman as attractive. Women do the total opposite.

Society is over coddling women and certain demographics to the detriment of society as a whole.
 
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Because money didn't always exist. Money don't mean anything outside of the value ascribed to it

Physical attraction is not arbitrary or something that can be held to modern logical standards. Our base human desires defy logic every day

Our minds and our bodies are in constant conflict over what's logical to each. Our lives are shaped by that constant internal battle


Money itself has no direct value. Money's job is to convey value. The value conveyed is connected to hardwired biological impulses. Physical attraction is connected to the same impulses

This is why broke nikkas get pu55y. It don't make sense to you but there was a time where the idea of money didn't make sense either

We have more toys now but we're not that much more evolved than we'd like to think we are. Our desire to fukk something that looks good to us surpasses the desire for money most times
You explained that better than I did. I was trying to tell the guys that being truly wanted and desired for you is a different beast.

Also why I factor in physical attraction and can’t ignore the lack of it for $.
 

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You explained that better than I did. I was trying to tell the guys that being truly wanted and desired for you is a different beast.

Also why I factor in physical attraction and can’t ignore the lack of it for $.

I attracted way better women when I was broke NGL...once I got on and started flexing thats when the real birds came in play...(and no I didn't change 2 much) :mjcry:
 

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I attracted way better women when I was broke NGL...once I got on and started flexing thats when the real birds came in play...(and no I didn't change 2 much) :mjcry:
You should’ve known this was gonna happen. If they put value on you based on your income, then..:manny:

Charge to the game, and just become a bird keeper. Take them as seriously as they take you.
 

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How I missed this?!!! Dayum! That dude is my spirit animal! Ain’t nothing like a good clap back b/c people need to mind their business. Original post was correct. That’s the real advice we SHOULD be giving both men AND women.

Not saying you have to completely isolate urself from the opposite sex but chasing tail ain’t worth a damn. Stay booked and busy and relationships and situationships will find you.
 

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You explained that better than I did. I was trying to tell the guys that being truly wanted and desired for you is a different beast.

Also why I factor in physical attraction and can’t ignore the lack of it for $.
Men know. It's just hard to convey, understand, or accept if you haven't experienced it. It's also one of the main roots of society's ills

Because women have more choices and make more money than ever before, they get to be more open about their choices in men. And as I'm sure you know, when a woman is into a man, there is an invisible megaphone on the ways she expresses that interest. Men aren't used to the amount of female expression of male interest at the level that social media has presented. This is why male depression has risen the way it has. Because if you haven't experienced that type of energy seeing it go to a man you think doesn't "deserve" it will eat a nikkas soul

This is why the nikka with no job, car, etc but access to women is the most hated nikka on the planet:pachaha: It ain't just about the sex, it's the way women openly flaunt and revere the men they really like. The reason "just legalize prostitution" won't work here is because men want that desire and reverence they see other nikkas get. When you directly tie your value to money you become confused by all the women fukkin and flaunting nikkas broker than you
 
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