Advice that you later learned was BS?

[TEH]

Damn straight, now let me go back to work lifting boxes for 8hr then spend another 12 watching internet personalities. Eventually I'll become a billionaire with a redbone wife with more curves than race track, if I just keep at it and belieeeeeeeve.

No one ever said to believe some unrealistic bullshyt

Believe S.M.A.R.T. Goals

And “Give Thanks”

 

[Givethanks]

Side note: some real shyt I've heard, a lawyer always told me to tell always tell the truth, even if that means not saying anything at all.

He's seen alot of guys get jammed because they didn't tell the exact same story they said 7 months ago.

 

[The Guru]

Just be patient and understanding with people. This will often times allow them to keep on behaving badly.

 

[Reptile]

"Two wrongs dont make a right" Um yes it does, revenge bytch.

 

[TEH]

"Study well and you'll be able to do what you want"

If you at actually get perfect grades this is good advice - but not everyone can do that …

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Share yoiur vulnerabilities with your girl

Do women fukk you over after you share vulnerability? Yes but on the flip side if you never learn how to share with your woman you will prob need a therapist at some point.

A lot of you still don't understand the release of speaking on things you hold close to your chest is no longer letting it control you. If you are sharing but still carrying fear or shame about shyt you aren't ready to get passed it just yet.

At best be very selective with who you share with but don't think not talking to your girl is a strength. It's not.

 

[Reptile]

Do women fukk you over after you share vulnerability? Yes but on the flip side if you never learn how to share with your woman you will prob need a therapist at some point.

A lot of you still don't understand the release of speaking on things you hold close to your chest is no longer letting it control you. If you are sharing but still carrying fear or shame about shyt you aren't ready to get passed it just yet.

At best be very selective with who you share with but don't think not talking to your girl is a strength. It's not.

- a girl

 

[Roid Jones]

Be a nice guy because that's what women like (said by women)

 

[TEH]

How is this bad advice?

Most people don’t have positive qualities naturally; they have to be developed. If you've ever wondered why so many people seem unbearable, rude, lazy, and sloppy these days, it’s because too many are just being themselves.

 

[mbewane]

If you at actually get perfect grades this is good advice - but not everyone can do that …

I was a top student basically from school all the way up to college. But that doesn't help at all in learning who you are, what you want, self-confidence, what your options are, etc. The usual trap is thinking that good grades actually mean something in real life.

 

[Givethanks]

No one ever said to believe some unrealistic bullshyt

Believe S.M.A.R.T. Goals

And “Give Thanks”

Let's be honest, we probably all know a handful of people who believe in some unrealistic shyt lol

Everyone I know who's goal orientated seems to follow the influencer playbook, but the ones who are just chilling seem to be fine. I deadass think, I only know one person personally who follows SMART goals and he's extremely successful.

 

[Roid Jones]

Share yoiur vulnerabilities with your girl

You just have to be careful with you are sharing things with, a lot of women say they want a man to be vulnerable but are ill equipped to actually handle it.

 

[horizon]

A lot of yall just aren’t shyt honestly which is why solid advice is lost on you. nikkas in here talking about lie and cheat. If that’s not fatherless behavior I don’t know what is

 

[TEH]

I was a top student basically from school all the way up to college. But that doesn't help at all in learning who you are, what you want, self-confidence, what your options are, etc. The usual trap is thinking that good grades actually mean something in real life.

If you didn’t leverage that opportunity to get into an Ivy League school or an equivalent and make a lot of money, then that’s on you.

 

[mbewane]

If you didn’t leverage that opportunity to get into an Ivy League school or an equivalent and make a lot of money, then that’s on you.

I'm not in the US. Not sure what opportunities you're talking about. You don't understand what I'm saying but that's cool.