After a first date you should delete her number

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Lol this doesn't work unless you're trying to get a girl who is pushy and is going to run things in the relationship. What happened to trying to win a girls heart over? I'm glad the current guy I'm dating is nothing like this. He calls me, checks up on me and says the sweetest things sometimes, makes sure I have a great time when we go out, he sent me some beautiful flowers. I was neutral about him in the beginning but I'm starting to really like him. That's how you court somebody.

If they don't put any effort and emotion into it, then they can't get their feelings hurt. That's what all these weak games and rules amount to.
 

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I'm 28, IRA funny you skip over my question because you would crack.

You date a guy has attractive your date is like 4 hourses a gentleman makes you laugh, many things in common. You don't hear from him, you will crack.




You guys are young and don't understand how grown folks date. I date for marriage so I'm really picky about who's date I accept, and how I carry myself. Once you get to the point when you're ready to settle down you'll start to look at things differently.

I'm happy to have met a good guy who's kind and mature and doesn't try to manipulate or pressure me into anything.
 

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You guys are young and don't understand how grown folks date. I date for marriage so I'm really picky about who's date I accept, and how I carry myself. Once you get to the point when you're ready to settle down you'll start to look at things differently.

I'm happy to have met a good guy who's kind and mature and doesn't try to manipulate or pressure me into anything.

now that ur ready to date for marriage
u gonna make him do all sort of triathlon just to sniff the cooch...but it wasnt like this 5yrs ago
 

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You guys are young and don't understand how grown folks date. I date for marriage so I'm really picky about who's date I accept, and how I carry myself. Once you get to the point when you're ready to settle down you'll start to look at things differently.

I'm happy to have met a good guy who's kind and mature and doesn't try to manipulate or pressure me into anything.

I'm pretty sure half the dudes on this site are not that young, I know I'm not . I've dated for marriage before I'm just not on that right now. I did what I wanted I never forced anything ever and shyt worked out fine. Obviously I'm going to act natural and not push myself to do things that seem overbearing just so someone can start to like me . We had a few dates and you still don't like me... that's fukking odd.
 
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I'm 28, IRA funny you skip over my question because you would crack.

You date a guy has attractive your date is like 4 hourses a gentleman makes you laugh, many things in common. You don't hear from him, you will crack.
I was responding to all of you. My guy is cute, and he's tall, and super smart and he's successful. But I don't sleep with anyone outside of a relationship. I think sex distracts from the getting to know you process.
 
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I'm pretty sure half the dudes on this site are not that young, I know I'm not . I've dated for marriage before I'm just not on that right now. I did what I wanted I never forced anything ever and shyt worked out fine. Obviously I'm going to act natural and not push myself to do things that seem overbearing just so someone can start to like me . We had a few dates and you still don't like me... that's fukking odd.
But like I said, I do like this guy. He's sweet and smart and makes me laugh. It takes time to get to know someone though.
 

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I don't. But he's working and I'm not, also he's the one who asked me out. I made him dinner one time though.


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How long y'all been seeing each other and whats y'all ages. I've had nothing but bad experiences with girls who didn't have a job. All they did was harass me about what I was doing when not around them.
 

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So two days after a great date with Mr tall, cute successful guy he doesn't contact you


You know your sending that text

I was responding to all of you. My guy is cute, and he's tall, and super smart and he's successful. But I don't sleep with anyone outside of a relationship. I think sex distracts from the getting to know you process.
 
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