After a first date you should delete her number

[Daenerys Targaryen]

How long y'all been seeing each other and whats y'all ages. I've had nothing but bad experiences with girls who didn't have a job. All they did was harass me about what I was doing when not around them.

Lol I'm a grad student, babe. I'm in my last year of school. I don't think I harass him since I never call him and I let him initiate most text convos. I'm busy with school and he with work so we give each other space.

So two days after a great date with Mr tall, cute successful guy he doesn't contact you


You know your sending that text

He contacted me immediately after to say thanks for a lovely evening so I guess we'll never know. Not everyone is about the game playing you know. Sometimes people really are just happy to meet and connect with someone they like.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Lol I'm a grad student, babe. I'm in my last year of school. I don't think I harass him since I never call him and I let him initiate most text convos. I'm busy with school and he with work so we give each other space.



He contacted me immediately after to say thanks for a lovely evening so I guess we'll never know. Everyone is about the game playing you know. Sometimes people really are just happy to meet and connect with someone they like.

how old are u?

 

[Kemyran]

The right girl will not need to be gamed into your life. Keep looking and settle down with that one instead of trying to scheme and play psychological warfare with attention seeking trollops. As you get older, this becomes much more easy to do.

I want a girl that when I express interest, if she is interested... expresses that back. If she doesn't, then move on. She isn't the one. You haven't lost anything if you know when to quit and it's pretty easy to figure that out early on w/o playing games with yourself (deleting the number) or her.

shyt like this just shows nikkas have no self restraint, no instincts about the opposite sex and are completely unaware of themselves and their roles in courting women.

 

[Daenerys Targaryen]

Oh and it's been about 1 month since I started seeing him. He's 30, I'm 25.

 

[MikelArteta]

How is this gaming?

I don't care if she gets back to me or not.

If she does , if she doesn't

 

[Slang]

Ummmm friend, what if you're interested in her? What sort of game are you playing here. Chemistry does not require these types of mind games, friend. When two people like one another they call when they feel like it and talk when they want to. Lets be more honest with our feelings as it relates to matters of the heart, friend. Its a better way to get to the meat of what we want to know *if the woman likes us* instead of manipulating the game to get a desired result.

Women that need to feel disinterest to feel interest are insane. Lets avoid them

Mind games affect brain chemistry in such a way, it's as if you're bending the will of others.

 

[Daenerys Targaryen]

How is this gaming?

I don't care if she gets back to me or not.

If she does , if she doesn't

Okay as long as your happy and doing what works for you.

 

[MikelArteta]

I view it as me test driving a Car, o had a good time with it showed my intent, its up to the sales person to contact me because I'm not sitting around thinking about it.

 

[Kemyran]

How is this gaming?

I don't care if she gets back to me or not.

If she does , if she doesn't

Then just leave the number in there, why bother to delete immediately rather than like weeks after the fact after no contact from her? You care enough that you're doing it to essentially stop yourself from doing something you ordinarily would do.... just let her number sit in the phone, there are gigs of memory available. You're treating 1kb like it's 1GB not only in your phone but your mind, breh.

 

[Kemyran]

I view it as me test driving a Car, o had a good time with it showed my intent, its up to the sales person to contact me because I'm not sitting around thinking about it.

This is kind of a terrible analogy, but okay.

 

[Mike Ock]

Oh and it's been about 1 month since I started seeing him. He's 30, I'm 25.

You're 25...it's been a month...and you haven't made an offer to chip in?

honey.

 

[Daenerys Targaryen]

You're 25...it's been a month...and you haven't made an offer to chip in?

honey.

Obviously he's fine with it, and that's who matters. I couldn't care less how you feel about it. I don't really think he's sweating the cost of a few dinners anyway, he's financially stable.

 

[Mike Ock]

Obviously he's fine with it, and that's who matters. I couldn't care less how you feel about it. I don't really think he's sweating the cost of a few dinners anyway, he's financially stable.

I'm 29 my girl's 30 and we both are financially stable. Making an offer just show's you're down more for him. It's up to him to take you up on it or not, and if you;re not working he probably won;t take you up on that offer. But the fact that you offer will make him appreciate you more.

Wait, has he smashed yet?

 

[Daenerys Targaryen]

I'm 29 my girl's 30 and we both are financially stable. Making an offer just show's you're down more for him. It's up to him to take you up on it or not, and if you;re not working he probably won;t take you up on that offer. But the fact that you offer will make him appreciate you more.

Wait, has he smashed yet?

Like I said to someone else here, I don't sleep with people I'm not in a committed relationship with, so no. I haven't slept with him yet. Either way, one month is way too early to have slept with someone. For me. But thank you for the advice, I'll keep it in mind.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

It should be required to state the last time you got some p*ssy when giving advice on women.