After a first date you should delete her number

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Well if you want to lose another opportunity of hanging with greatness due to your fear of bothering you don't deserve it

Greatness? I dunno about that, doesn't sound too great to me. I have a hard time believing a guy that was truly interested in me would delete my number.
 

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There are women who will text/call first, sure. But Im not seeing the logic here. If you ask her out, she clearly showed interest and yall had a nice time together why not contact again?
 

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the point is its not a game for me, i casual date, not looking for relationships etc. A date to me is doing something I love doing and having a chick tag along, whether its me going to a movie, or if i want to check out a new restaurant or just go down to the waterfront to take pictures. I have no need to see if she likes me, if she is interested in hanging out again then text me, if not shrugs, there will be another chick by my side next time i want to see a movie or take pictures down by the waterfront
but how do you meet women so frequently with your posting rate????!!!!!! :mindblown:
 

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here's what i do: i hug the female (depending on the vibe) and let her know i had a good time and i enjoyed her company. then i close out the convo with something along the lines of "well the next time i run across your mind hit a nikka up". simple. puts the ball in her court and at the same time lets her know that i WANT to hear from her again. if she never hits you up after that then move on.













































i always receive that call/text :lolbron:
 

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but how do you meet women so frequently with your posting rate????!!!!!! :mindblown:

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btw, I cannot cosign this thread really. It's not :cape: to call her a day or two after a date. that's just showing interest. I'm against things that cost extra time/money to do. but a simple call or text is essentially free. some of ya'll are too worried about what these broads think of you where you gotta plan such elaborate strategies to get women.

"yeah I really like her, lemme go head and delete her # tho even tho the date went well" :childplease:
 

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the point is its not a game for me, i casual date, not looking for relationships etc. A date to me is doing something I love doing and having a chick tag along, whether its me going to a movie, or if i want to check out a new restaurant or just go down to the waterfront to take pictures. I have no need to see if she likes me, if she is interested in hanging out again then text me, if not shrugs, there will be another chick by my side next time i want to see a movie or take pictures down by the waterfront

if you ain't tryin to fukk as the end result, whats the point of doing any of these activities with a woman in the first place? :what:

sounds like a colossal waste of time/money
 

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if you ain't tryin to fukk as the end result, whats the point of doing any of these activities with a woman in the first place? :what:

sounds like a colossal waste of time/money

Exactly, I personally don't need female friends. I already have my Mom and my sister and tons of female acquaintances, if a chick is going to take an important role in my life (non-professionally or related to education) you best believe I'm fukking :usure:
 

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yeah u will if u r already admittedly are deleting the #'s after the first encounter.

nope, there will always be a abundance of single women

btw, I cannot cosign this thread really. It's not :cape: to call her a day or two after a date. that's just showing interest. I'm against things that cost extra time/money to do. but a simple call or text is essentially free. some of ya'll are too worried about what these broads think of you where you gotta plan such elaborate strategies to get women.

"yeah I really like her, lemme go head and delete her # tho even tho the date went well" :childplease:


i never said its simping

like i said im not looking for a relationship, so i could care less if i never hear back from her whether the date went good or not.

if you ain't tryin to fukk as the end result, whats the point of doing any of these activities with a woman in the first place? :what:

sounds like a colossal waste of time/money

like i said again any date i go on its something i already planned on doing, example lsat date i went on i planned on going to the waterfront to take some pictures, a old acquaintance was in town and wanted to go out so i said sure ill be at the waterfront on friday, i met her there I spent no money, i was going there anyways.

another date i went on just for example i was going to the movies, was chatting with this broad and invited her to go with me if she said no or cancelled no biggie i was going to the movie anywys, she said yes I didn't pay a dime for a ticket and went out :obama:

if she had a good time she can hit me up, if not :manny: no stress on me i aint looking for a relationship:heh:, im going out and i';ll be happy to go alone but if a broad wants to tag along then so be it :obama:
 

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I actually agree with this..

but I'm at the point where I don't give a fukk anyways...

All that your going to be alone talk is for women to worry about...

Its way too much p*ssy out here...

If a female know your that nikka she is going to holler....

Introverted or not...
 
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