After being inspired by Phonzi's thread I've already been rejected twice.

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Do you know how awkward it is to be flirting smiling and cracking jokes with somebody only for them to turn you down?

Like how am I supposed to act after the rejection I just smiled and told them that their boyfriends were very lucky before walking away feeling mad uncomfortable.
 

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Do you know how awkward it is to be flirting smiling and cracking jokes with somebody only for them to turn you down?

Like how am I supposed to act after the rejection I just smiled and told them that their boyfriends were very lucky before walking away feeling mad uncomfortable.

Breh, you did good by even talking to them. I'm proud of you because I can't even work up the courage to talk to a girl on the cold.

Congrats, big dog.
 

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You think Kobe looks how many shots he missed at the end of the game? No he probably just looks at how many points he scored, and he's one of the greatest of all time.

Keep shooting breh :manny:

Me personally I take the Bron approach, I preach efficiency. I'm not randomly hitting women on the street whose probably last thought is getting hit on. I do my work at the club/bar/social settings etc.. Do I still take L's too? Yes, but my field goal percentage looking a lot better and seeing my field goal percentage rise, makes me more confident, which also makes me better when I take more difficult shots. :myman:

So do you want to be a Kobe nikka? A ruthless nikka who isn't bothered by rejection and keeps shooting whenever and too whoever (this nikka usually gets the most guts at the end of the day)

Or do you want to be a LeBron nikka? A nikka who picks and chooses his battles, but is easily rattled with any sort of oppression. He can get women too, maybe even higher quality every once in a while, but at the end of the day not as many as Kobe. :yeshrug:
 
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Yeah, I don't like to be stopped while I'm taking care of business..

...I don't think most women like that either....

It's all about setting or completely separate signs they'd give...
 

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Do you know how awkward it is to be flirting smiling and cracking jokes with somebody only for them to turn you down?

Like how am I supposed to act after the rejection I just smiled and told them that their boyfriends were very lucky before walking away feeling mad uncomfortable.

Don't see it as failure. You are stronger than you think. Just take a breather and try again. Trust me I've been here. The masculine spirit is very strong.
 

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Yeah, I don't like to be stopped while I'm taking care of business..

...I don't think most women like that either....

It's all about setting or completely separate signs they'd give...
Unfortunately for men we are the ones that approach so we have to take as many shots as we can. The goal is to build up an immunity to rejection.
 
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