After being inspired by Phonzi's thread I've already been rejected twice.

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Do you know how awkward it is to be flirting smiling and cracking jokes with somebody only for them to turn you down?

Like how am I supposed to act after the rejection I just smiled and told them that their boyfriends were very lucky before walking away feeling mad uncomfortable.

You say that to them? :dead:
 

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Dis sad. I kno I aint readin dis shyt rite. Grown men out here weepin and askin to be held cuz women turned em down :mjlol:

Its part of the game fam. Fact of the matter is not all hoes will be feelin u. Somedays ull be cold and feel like u couldnt bag a wheelchair bound chick wit one leg and 3rd degree burns all over her body, other days ull be in the zone and feel like u CANT get deze hoes off of u :wow:.
Whoever made an analogy usin Kobe earlier was rite on the money. Cuz dis shyt jus like basketball.

Heres the secret to "cold approachin" females or wuteva nerd ass terms yall use for jus doin man shyt: U gotta learn to feel comfortable wit rejection. shyt, u gotta fall in love wit that shyt. Like it shud get to the pt where that shyt is not even a factor in whether u approach a jawn or not. Realistically tho, u cant eradicate fear from ur mind and body. Altho u can diminish it, new unfamiliar and challenging or high stakes situations will always make u feel that fear feeling. The trick tho is to develop a habit of ignorin the fear and actin in spite of it. shytt man i hope yall listenin cuz im droppin jewels rite now. Dis shyt bigga than jus baggin hoes, dis shyt applies to life period.

99% of the time, fear is jus an illusion. Unless ur in a situation where u can actually get physically harmed, like facin a bear or some shyt, most of the time its more good than harm in ignorin fear. Its almost an archaic and "vestigial" feeling in a lot of ways. We live in such a safe society, that our mind applies that same mechanism of fear for self protection in situations that are really just banal.

Yall needa stop being pussies :ufdup:.
 
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both claim to have boyfriends, I just want to say thank you Coli for basically destroying my confidence for the next few years. :sadcam:
No u didn't take the advice... U are suppose to jeep trying until u finally get one
 

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both claim to have boyfriends, I just want to say thank you Coli for basically destroying my confidence for the next few years. :sadcam:
No u didn't take the advice... U are suppose to keep trying until u finally get one
 

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Dis sad. I kno I aint readin dis shyt rite. Grown men out here weepin and askin to be held cuz women turned em down :mjlol:

Its part of the game fam. Fact of the matter is not all hoes will be feelin u. Somedays ull be cold and feel like u couldnt bag a wheelchair bound chick wit one leg and 3rd degree burns all over her body, other days ull be in the zone and feel like u CANT get deze hoes off of u :wow:.
Whoever made an analogy usin Kobe earlier was rite on the money. Cuz dis shyt jus like basketball.

Heres the secret to "cold approachin" females or wuteva nerd ass terms yall use for jus doin man shyt: U gotta learn to feel comfortable wit rejection. shyt, u gotta fall in love wit that shyt. Like it shud get to the pt where that shyt is not even a factor in whether u approach a jawn or not. Realistically tho, u cant eradicate fear from ur mind and body. Altho u can diminish it, new unfamiliar and challenging or high stakes situations will always make u feel that fear feeling. The trick tho is to develop a habit of ignorin the fear and actin in spite of it. shytt man i hope yall listenin cuz im droppin jewels rite now. Dis shyt bigga than jus baggin hoes, dis shyt applies to life period.

99% of the time, fear is jus an illusion. Unless ur in a situation where u can actually get physically harmed, like facin a bear or some shyt, most of the time its more good than harm in ignorin fear. Its almost an archaic and "vestegial" feeling in a lot of ways. We live in such a safe society, that our mind applies that same mechanism of fear for self protection in situations that are really just banal.

Yall needa stop being pussies :ufdup:.

:wow:
 

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You think Kobe looks how many shots he missed at the end of the game? No he probably just looks at how many points he scored, and he's one of the greatest of all time.

Keep shooting breh :manny:

Me personally I take the Bron approach, I preach efficiency. I'm not randomly hitting women on the street whose probably last thought is getting hit on. I do my work at the club/bar/social settings etc.. Do I still take L's too? Yes, but my field goal percentage looking a lot better and seeing my field goal percentage rise, makes me more confident, which also makes me better when I take more difficult shots. :myman:

So do you want to be a Kobe nikka? A ruthless nikka who isn't bothered by rejection and keeps shooting whenever and too whoever (this nikka usually gets the most guts at the end of the day)

Or do you want to be a LeBron nikka? A nikka who picks and chooses his battles, but is easily rattled with any sort of oppression. He can get women too, maybe even higher quality every once in a while, but at the end of the day not as many as Kobe. :yeshrug:
Great post. :wow:
Wish I could rep breh
 

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true story :mjcry:
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