After how many months of dating should y'all start living together?

Darealtwo1

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In your situation it's coo cause y'all living in dorms. It still sucks for you cause it's kindof a cockblock.

I live on my own, she lives with her folks and is finishing school next year

I mean yeah kinda because I had 0 excuses for not being there by 9pm(where else can you be....cafeteria is closed and there are no classes at this time) It was chill though.

Hmmmm she still in school which mostly means no job :ohhh: you live close to the campus or something :ohhh:

If she has no job then :camby: I would let her know straight up. We gotta split this rent shyt :rudy:
 

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If the world ran according to me, never, so that way when one of us gets tired of the other, no harm, no foul in moving out.

But since it doesn't.... It really all depends.
 
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at least 3 years.........
it's gonna take time to find out
if she's trifflin.
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Sheiiiiidddd, I'd say 3 to 4 years.
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or if y'all have had the marriage talk or plan on putting the ring on her.
my old fashioned parents would say never, only time to live with a SO is after marriage, which i can't agree with. you see a person's true colors when living with them.
 
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It depends. If she's Japanese I'd say 2 years, sometimes even less. American probably 6 years. Eastern European 8+ years (they tend to reveal crazy hidden tendencies after the 7th year in my home boy's experience).

Chinese from countryside, uneducated and broke - Never.
Chinese and educated, with rich parents - ASAP Get dat money boy :russ:
Korean - Never
Any type of Arab/Indian/Muslim - Nope you trying to get blown up by Assad nikka :mjlol:
Latina - Varies, but never PR or Trini EVER
 
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I, personally, don't think two people should live together until they've gotten married. The type of mindset that allows one to live with someone they're not married to isn't indicative of a long lasting relationship which is something you should only want after marriage.

Most dudes not getting married period so it could be a moot point regardless :ld:
 
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