All I ended up getting for Christmas was my heart broken

winb83

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She came back. I did make her work for it but we back together and engaged. My son is happy. Things are going good.
Whatever you think you did you simply played into her plans. She outsmarted and manipulated you and made you feel as if you were in the drivers seat.

Basically you're her sucker. She planned to break it off for a bit likely so she could whore it up and in the grand scheme of things that's exactly what happened. She temporarily broke it off and now she's back. Ultimately you're probably just as dependent on her as you were when you made the initial post because if you weren't you would have moved on and she wouldn't have been able to come back.

Just know this shyt; if you're good to a woman even if yall break up at some point she will try to re-establish contact with you and pick it back up again. Women don't have as many valid options as men believe. There are plenty of guys to fukk and chill with but good fathers and good family men aren't all that common. If she recognizes those traits in you she might try to pocket you for later. The thing is when a woman shows her ass and tries to play you and stash you in her pocket for a rainy day you aren't supposed to let her do that to you. Either she acts right and prioritizes the relationship or she loses you permanently.

This woman is where she planned to be at the end. Right back with you like she planned to be when she broke it off. Make no mistake about it that's the greater story here.
 

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Whatever you think you did you simply played into her plans. She outsmarted and manipulated you and made you feel as if you were in the drivers seat.

Basically you're her sucker. She planned to break it off for a bit likely so she could whore it up and in the grand scheme of things that's exactly what happened. She temporarily broke it off and now she's back. Ultimately you're probably just as dependent on her as you were when you made the initial post because if you weren't you would have moved on and she wouldn't have been able to come back.

Just know this shyt; if you're good to a woman even if yall break up at some point she will try to re-establish contact with you and pick it back up again. Women don't have as many valid options as men believe. There are plenty of guys to fukk and chill with but good fathers and good family men aren't all that common. If she recognizes those traits in you she might try to pocket you for later. The thing is when a woman shows her ass and tries to play you and stash you in her pocket for a rainy day you aren't supposed to let her do that to you. Either she acts right and prioritizes the relationship or she loses you permanently.

This woman is where she planned to be at the end. Right back with you like she planned to be when she broke it off. Make no mistake about it that's the greater story here.
I wasnt waiting around. I was having dating and having sex with other broads.

She apologized also and explained where she was at. I wasnt tryna hear it but she humbled herself and was persistent and I decided to give her a chance. She is actually waay better then she was the first time around. Our relationship is better, she is being an excellent mom..Long story short we both are happy. She has changed and so have I.
 

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I wasnt waiting around. I was dating and having sex with other broads.

She apologized also and explained where she was at. I wasnt tryna hear it but she humbled herself and was persistent and I decided to give her a chance. She is actually waay better then she was the first time around. Our relationship is better, she is being an excellent mom..Long story short we both are happy. She has changed and so have I.

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I wasnt waiting around. I was having dating and having sex with other broads.

She apologized also and explained where she was at. I wasnt tryna hear it but she humbled herself and was persistent and I decided to give her a chance. She is actually waay better then she was the first time around. Our relationship is better, she is being an excellent mom..Long story short we both are happy. She has changed and so have I.
I didn't say you were waiting I said you ultimately played into the exact plan she laid out for you. You did what you were supposed to do. The call / contact you got after things fell apart is typical. If you're good to a woman she always comes back because in her mind she can always have you. Perhaps you are happy but in my experience when people plan to manipulate you like she did it almost never ends well. Maybe you'll be the one that has the happy ending but nobody goes into stuff like this not believing that of themselves.
 
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