All I ended up getting for Christmas was my heart broken

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Don't take this the wrong way, but its been a year. If this had happened recently I'd feel bad for you but an entire year? Move on already. shyt happens in relationships. Now its time to man up, stop feeling sorry for yourself and realize there's an entire world out there. If one chick can make your life miserable for an entire year...well then what does that say about you? That you don't have much of one.

Moral of the story is, don't base your life around a female. Build your own life that you can enjoy, and then you get a female to compliment it, not be the center of it.
 

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Real talk bruh, with a woman, when it's over, it's over... mentally, you just have to learn to let that go, even though it isn't easy. Even if you did get back together, the same thing that broke ya'll apart the first time is the same thing that will break you apart again.

Right now, you mentally want to hold on to something that won't be. What you have to do is embrace the reality of the situation and realize that just as you fell for her, there will be other women you will fall for... and the sooner you let go of her in your mind, the sooner you can really get the one that was right for you.
 

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yeah i think that's what i have. I always get nervous meeting new people and I have no idea why. I don't go out much because of this.

well breh then you really gotta work on fixing yourself first, women shouldn't be one of your priorities right now.

try working out, meditating is a big one, its been proven to reduce stress and anxiety. try slowly exposing yourself to more social situations, the key is slowly.

if you really think you have it you should see a shrink to be honest

a lot of people with social anxiety don't even get to the point where they can get into a relationship in the first place though because of fear of rejection, so if you were able to ask a girl out and be in a relationship i'm not sure if you actually have social anxiety :yeshrug:
 

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well breh then you really gotta work on fixing yourself first, women shouldn't be one of your priorities right now.

try working out, meditating is a big one, its been proven to reduce stress and anxiety. try slowly exposing yourself to more social situations, the key is slowly.

if you really think you have it you should see a shrink to be honest

a lot of people with social anxiety don't even get to the point where they can get into a relationship in the first place though because of fear of rejection, so if you were able to ask a girl out and be in a relationship i'm not sure if you actually have social anxiety :yeshrug:

I asked her out cause i knew 100% that she was into me.
 

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FiRst ofF,...
That bytch is an eic vampire.
She just basically set you up to play on traditionalism and emasculate you all in the process.
She just picked you because you could be the Vic better ending to the story.
As she will deflect her intentions upon trying to garner a check.
On to oh he is a good dad.
To lessen public perception.
into the, oh we shared a common bond.
he Is still a good dad, blah blah blah skippety whee whomp ass comments.

Do not Fall for that bullshyt for a second.

You have to understsnd,...every woman who fukks you raw.
Views you as a Vic, for a payday, period.
Stop falling for the bullshyt.
STop listening to your wack homies celebrating the fact they hit it raw.
shyt is not an accomplishment.
Dumb nikkas think hitting raw is some sacred hard to accomplish act.
it is not, at all.
it is not a rite of passage or some deeper connection.

If you want sex that simulates unprotected sex.
Get an unlubed condom.
The same work it takes to hit and get in some p*ssy raw.
is similar in an unlubed condom.
Stop falling for the okie doke and played out shyt .
women know and bout and Prey on in men's behavior.

Stop setting yourself up to be a Vic and take the L to these vampires .
Wear a condom all the time.


Art Barr
 

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Don't take this the wrong way, but its been a year. If this had happened recently I'd feel bad for you but an entire year? Move on already. shyt happens in relationships. Now its time to man up, stop feeling sorry for yourself and realize there's an entire world out there. If one chick can make your life miserable for an entire year...well then what does that say about you? That you don't have much of one.

Moral of the story is, don't base your life around a female. Build your own life that you can enjoy, and then you get a female to compliment it, not be the center of it.

this was the realest post in here. Honest and to the point.
 

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Happens to the best of us. Everyone gets their heart broken at least once..

Take some time to get your mind right, and hit the dating scene up. Don't dive in it head first, but slowly get out and meet some new women.

The only way to get over old p*ssy is getting new p*ssy.

Its true.
 

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She came back. I did make her work for it but we back together and engaged. My son is happy. Things are going good.
 
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