All I ended up getting for Christmas was my heart broken

[MikelArteta]

She not like that breh. She said it wasn't even me.. She said it was her. She just needed time to figure some shyt out.

:notimpressed:

were you raised by a single mom?

heres a rule breh 99.9% of the time a women breaks up with you she has her eyes set on someone else, women do not jst break up folks they emotionally detach months even years in advance, then they drop teh hammer on you but they string you along and give you hope ":i just need space", its me not you, who knows maybe in the future we will get back together

all bs breh she already moved on decided you are not the guy for her, why are you still pinning when theres billions of other women out there


but because shes not like that shes special , she bleeds once a month, takes a dump and piss.

look its the oldest trick in the world that women do dump a guy string him along because you were good and faithful to her if things dont work out with the new thug or thugs maybe she will have a change of heart

this is why i tell man once its over cease all convos remove all pictures, delete everything and move on with your life

i hope you got a dna test on that kid

 

[Chris.B]

Sex isn't everything believe it or not.

She has you that hoodwinked?

Another n!gga is blowing her back out time to move on

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

Here is REAL ADVICE


you must remember that it was her that fukked up and not YOU. SHE lost for not fukkin with you because YOU are the fukking man and SHE does not see that. YOU have your shyt together. YOU are a good father, and YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN A YEAR OF SORROW.

YOU must tough it out and live the life of a solo man until that situation changes for SOMEONE ELSE. YOU cannot be an item for her convenience ever.

• Hit the gym. [not to look good for women; that is simply a result...the journey is therapeutic and will give you purpose for 2013]
• Go on a vacation and see someone (a homie, a cousin) you havent seen in a while.
• Go shopping
• Get selfish again. You have been living a life of wishing someone else changes their mind which has stopped you from the life of a self centered male. You have been granted coupe years again. If you wonder what coupe years are, ask yourself, when in your life can you drive a coupe or roadster? Exactly. You're back.
• Live with no expectation of that happening again because YOU DONT WISH IT TO HAPPEN
• if opportunity arises for someone new, take it. If not, they lost.
  

It is time for you to work on yourself and being a good father which you may already be. Not on some "fukk that bytch" shyt, but on some "fukk that shyt" shyt. No man deserves sorrow for a year.

 

[FcKuPaYmE]

Yall got a nikka thinking now. Yall saying some good shyt. I was being naive as fukk.

Its just that we were so happy at one point. *sigh*

..but I hear yall loud and clear...I know what I gotta do. Appreciate it brehs and brehettes.

 

[MikelArteta]

Here is REAL ADVICE


you must remember that it was her that fukked up and not YOU. SHE lost for not fukkin with you because YOU are the fukking man and SHE does not see that. YOU have your shyt together. YOU are a good father, and YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN A YEAR OF SORROW.

YOU must tough it out and live the life of a solo man until that situation changes for SOMEONE ELSE. YOU cannot be an item for her convenience ever.

• Hit the gym. [not to look good for women; that is simply a result...the journey is therapeutic and will give you purpose for 2013]
• Go on a vacation and see someone (a homie, a cousin) you havent seen in a while.
• Go shopping
• Live with no expectation of that happening again because YOU DONT WISH IT TO HAPPEN
• if opportunity arises for someone new, take it. If not, they lost.

It is time for you to work on yourself and being a good father which you may already be. Not on some "fukk that bytch" shyt, but on some "fukk that shyt" shyt. No man deserves sorrow for a year.

some quality advice, going to the gym also releases endorphins, id also recommend picking up a hobby

hope dies last, the worse thing as a man you can be is having a chick thinking your available, i guarantee if @FcKuPaYmE worked on himself got some confidence and self esteem back, hell even started dating, then she'd come back around

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

Yall got a nikka thinking now.

I meant every word. I had a breakup and instead of getting sad (which, you will for a tume no matter what, its life) i got arrogant. There is no "what did i do wrong whats wrong with me " because the answer is nothing. She dropped the ball. And when she realizes this, and youve truly moved on...well that breaux

Is your reward :megalawd:

 

[AgentGrey]

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colicolicoli, Cumlover



I keep seein this nikka's username lurking everywhere.

 

[FcKuPaYmE]

I meant every word. I had a breakup and instead of getting sad (which, you will for a tume no matter what, its life) i got arrogant. There is no "what did i do wrong whats wrong with me " because the answer is nothing. She dropped the ball. And when she realizes this, and youve truly moved on...well that breaux

Is your reward :megalawd:

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

some quality advice, going to the gym also releases endorphins, id also recommend picking up a hobby

hope dies last, the worse thing as a man you can be is having a chick thinking your available, i guarantee if @FcKuPaYmE worked on himself got some confidence and self esteem back, hell even started dating, then she'd come back around

that might be the case but fypme's should NOT have a goal of getting her to come around. He did that for a year. If he becomes superman tomorrow he shouldnt take her back because the relationship is fractured and that year will never escape them menally.

The two of them being amicable is fine but he needs to move on socially so when he picks up his son and shes with a random dude it doesnt matter, because he's the fukking man and who shes with doesnt matter. (this is just a real situation you should be prepared for breh. When i hear about my ex with another dude i get the for a nanosecond than i think about how she dropped the ball, how ive bossed up since then, how she wasnt up to par to begin with and how we're better apart because the relationship was average at best)

 

[rlg]

My dude. Three things you have to do:
1. Live good
2. Eat good
3. fukk better

Move on and do those three things and everything else will fall in place.

 

[Fatboi1]

I can't speak from experiences of 7 years but I can tell you this: Stop making your self worth and happiness contingent on anything external.

The MINUTE you make something outside of you the sole provider of your peace of mind you are suffering.

You are making her out to be the end all be all of life that clearly doesn't give a fukk about you. It's harsh but the quicker you realize that she's playing you the faster you can forget about the shyt. Trust me in a few years or so you'll probably be somewhere chilling with your friends like This girl tried to tell me she gon be back lol she ain't coming back what the hell was I thinking??"

Never put yourself down for a woman no matter how much you think you like her or love her.
I'd say the same for anyone. At the end of the day it's only you that can save yourself or help yourself. Your the most responsible person in your life after all. Shifting the blame or putting the power onto someone else makes you seem helpless and powerless and that's nonsense. You was fine and dandy before you met her so obviously you was already whole.

This happens to MILLION of guys so your not special nor is she special. You learn from this and you move on. Damn I felt miserable when my first girl dumped me and we was only going out for a few months!! I was young and dumb and that shyt hit me hard back then .. Nowadays?? Lol I shake my head and be like wow what the fukk was wrong with me.

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

Nowadays?? Lol I shake my head and be like wow what the fukk was wrong with me.

Exactly. Now, i am not a father so there will be some differences there i imagine for baby mother, but this is 2013, you'll probably be a better father NOT being with a woman who doesnt desire to be with you.

Good luck @FcKuPaYmE, like fatboi1 said what youre going thru is far from unique and you have good days ahead of you.

 

[FcKuPaYmE]

I can't speak from experiences of 7 years but I can tell you this: Stop making your self worth and happiness contingent on anything external.

The MINUTE you make something outside of you the sole provider of your peace of mind you are suffering.

You are making her out to be the end all be all of life that clearly doesn't give a fukk about you. It's harsh but the quicker you realize that she's playing you the faster you can forget about the shyt. Trust me in a few years or so you'll probably be somewhere chilling with your friends like This girl tried to tell me she gon be back lol she ain't coming back what the hell was I thinking??"

Never put yourself down for a woman no matter how much you think you like her or love her.

This happens to MILLION of guys so your not special nor is she special. You learn from this and you move on. Damn I felt miserable when my first girl dumped me and we was only going out for a few months!! I was young and dumb and that shyt hit me hard back then .. Nowadays?? Lol I shake my head and be like wow what the fukk was wrong with me.

Thanks. Good shyt man

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

You have oneitis

move on

You might think she is the perfect woman...she isn't...there's no perfect woman out there

she's just another woman...she's not your blood relative...your child is

if you were to ever get back into a relationship with her...you're gonna realize all the things you loathed about her in the first place and be like "i went back to this sh1t?" move on

Better women out there...literally...better personalities better looks...you're limiting yourself being caught up on her

you might think you're the only person going through this right now...well reality is you're not...and they all are moving on too

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[Danie84]

Keep Ya Head Up

Life's a bytch