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Silkk

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Honestly, I never thought I was anything special. I always saw myself as ok, but there were always a good amount of girls who thought I looked good. I'd get some nice attention while out, but never thought much of it. Anyway, I guess you could say the opportunity to do things was there. Real talk tho: being a shy lil bytch is far worse than anything else. All of those so-called opportunities I had to make a good impression went down the drain because I usually never did anything. I'd usually be the nikka sitting in the corner watching everyone else have fun--and that led to me going home with my dikk in my hand when all was said and done.

Meanwhile, I'd see so many other dudes I guess you could consider "ugly" eating like it was nothing. Why? Because those nikkas knew how to be normal and didn't give a shyt about whether women considered them good looking or not. Once that mouthpiece got to work, those women would be calling the nikkas sexy and gorgeous because they already brought the girl into their world. It was a wrap after that. Me? The girl could think I'm sexy, but once I exposed myself by being a shy lame, I quickly changed into the "ugly" nikka.

So really, stop overthinking this stuff. This ugly gang or team ugly nonsense? Get rid of that shyt. It's stupid. Most of you nikkas probably aren't anywhere near as bad as you think you are. We're often our own toughest critics, so just be more at ease with yourself and focus on building from there. You put way too much time and thought into this stuff. Seriously.
1,000,000 percent :wow:
 

Shadow King

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I just want money so I can kick off my YouTube account breh... I'm naturally an outgoing person but since 11th grade I've turned into an loner who only speaks to people I know since way back.
I thought I responded to this but just stack your money and do it. And don't cut yourself off from everyone but keep your circle small. 2 or 3 people who think/move at least somewhat similar to you. I'd know because I don't have that anymore.
I was ugly growing up. All throughout elementary, middle school, highschool, and even some of college.

Now I say 'was' why? Well to this day I still believe I'm ugly, but after working retail, it seems I might have some potential. I've had some good looking girls like me. On top of that I've had a few random customers compliment me. None of these women were ugly.

Now am I still ugly? Idk. I know My confidence is still low at times. And I REALLY need to start hitting the gym, because I'm fat as hell. Undecided if I should post a picture since I don't like my face on the internet....

Besides that, being good looking has no benefits besides attracting the opposite sex
This is not quite true. You have a greater chance of being given "passes" for fukkups, or second chances, or opportunities to prove yourself because people intrinsically associate good looks with good character.
 

Big Jo

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I think I'm on the handsome side of the spectrum but I'm not a stud either

People smile at me and strike up random conversation a lot. Some women flirt and touch me and act interested. But I've never been seduced or anything

I have boyish looks and I think it makes me approachable. It's funny, I go out with my buddy and people (cashiers, strangers, etc) will just randomly start talking to me and kinda ignore him. I think it's because I'm attractive. Not necessarily the hottest guy in the room, but I look good and attract people
 

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i fukked up. i was a young handsome dude and relied on that for alot of shyt. now Im an older handsome dude and not getting the response i used to has definitely affected my self confidence. im def happy and at a good point but the thought of possibly having to pay for the kinds of women im used to and like sucks. i means im in my high 30's and had a beautiful 20 y/o mexican girl and most of the women i dat are 27-29 but i feel like im not knocking like i used to. i think it as to dues with moving from la to oakland tho. i always had to put in effort in the bay area.

rule number one: get money
 
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I thought I responded to this but just stack your money and do it. And don't cut yourself off from everyone but keep your circle small. 2 or 3 people who think/move at least somewhat similar to you. I'd know because I don't have that anymore.

This is not quite true. You have a greater chance of being given "passes" for fukkups, or second chances, or opportunities to prove yourself because people intrinsically associate good looks with good character.


You sound 1 of those ***** cac retards:birdman:

Regardless of how you look, I treat everybody the same.:smugdraper:
 

notPsychosiz

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If you are a handsome man with long hair, and you have to visit the dmv or post office, do not go to any window with a bald head bytch. They will try everything in their power to bring you into their world of balfheaded misery. Ask to speak to someone with some hair.

If your teller has to use handfuls of grease to yank her hair super tight to her skull to get that 1/2 inch of hangtime into the extra tight scrunchie... then you show up looking like a young DJ Quik... its about to go bad for you.

 

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You truly need to kill yourself if you believe this. You can have kids and not accomplish shyt, but burdening the next generation

I'm talking about on an evolutionary level.Nature doesn't care about your imaginary dreams.
 

1-8-7-Skillz

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Its cool but without Game & confidence/Charisma you still Wont get no play.
There was this one dude in my school who all the girls said "he Looks like a Model etc" but dude was totally Shy & had no game so he didn't get no play :yeshrug:
 
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