Almost had a Marvins Room moment :wow:

[Taadow]

why you tell me some shyt like that

Just to let you it's really real in the field. You either get her or you don't...

 

[ltheghost]

shyt hurt brehs but she wants something that I couldnt give her at this time so she found someone that could. We been in and out each other lives for almost 4 years. We met back in 08 during a rough time in our lives and we connected. Seriously it was like finding a piece of yourself that you lost in another life that you wasnt even looking for. She lived in PA and we would visit each other for the weekend whenever we could. shyt was perfect brehs, we wasnt together but we shared something wonderful every time we would meet.

She's a wonderful woman, my mom and dad loves her, she even gave the kid some dough when i wasnt working until my unemployment kicked in and told me I could live with her and start over in PA. We knew each other for 4 years but yet I couldnt bring myself to say yes. I told her I couldnt and she laughed. Saying this must be pay back for last time when she should have said yes and I told her no, its just I have a lot on my plate and I wanna clean my plate. Back in 09 I asked her to be my girlfriend and she explained to me why she couldnt and I understood the reason, she was still recovering from the last relationship. Unfortunately now its the same thing with me

This happen month and some change ago and now I just seen her pic on facebook with another dude saying in a relationship . I was gonna call on some drake shyt but...I couldnt. I'm just gonna let this burn for Allah only knows how long. Seems I just been taking L all this fall

You have two choices. You either go for it. Or you cut off all ties to her. Block her on facebook, delete her number, get rid of pictures. You are in a bad spot and by seeing her with that other nig is going to mess you up. Make the move or delete her from memory. I had some shyt like this happen to me 9 years ago. I still haven't spoke to the chick. Her friends try to hit me up saying I should at least speak to her. Naw. I'm not about to open up that cycle of destruction again.

 

[Just like bruddas]

Its either or you're that bad a catch. Either way you lost breh :idgaf:

would you want to be in a relationship with someone within months after a 5 year relationship?

 

[diverselikebeats]

shyt hurt brehs but she wants something that I couldnt give her at this time so she found someone that could. We been in and out each other lives for almost 4 years. We met back in 08 during a rough time in our lives and we connected. Seriously it was like finding a piece of yourself that you lost in another life that you wasnt even looking for. She lived in PA and we would visit each other for the weekend whenever we could. shyt was perfect brehs, we wasnt together but we shared something wonderful every time we would meet.

She's a wonderful woman, my mom and dad loves her, she even gave the kid some dough when i wasnt working until my unemployment kicked in and told me I could live with her and start over in PA. We knew each other for 4 years but yet I couldnt bring myself to say yes. I told her I couldnt and she laughed. Saying this must be pay back for last time when she should have said yes and I told her no, its just I have a lot on my plate and I wanna clean my plate. Back in 09 I asked her to be my girlfriend and she explained to me why she couldnt and I understood the reason, she was still recovering from the last relationship. Unfortunately now its the same thing with me

This happen month and some change ago and now I just seen her pic on facebook with another dude saying in a relationship . I was gonna call on some drake shyt but...I couldnt. I'm just gonna let this burn for Allah only knows how long. Seems I just been taking L all this fall

I respect you for being real, i wouldnt be mad at you if you called her breh

 

[Taadow]

You have two choices. You either go for it. Or you cut off all ties to her. Block her on facebook, delete her number, get rid of pictures. You are in a bad spot and by seeing her with that other nig is going to mess you up. Make the move or delete her from memory. I had some shyt like this happen to me 9 years ago. I still haven't spoke to the chick. Her friends try to hit me up saying I should at least speak to her. Naw. I'm not about to open up that cycle of destruction again.

Same thing, mayne...I have almost no connects to her, but I still have my memories. Cold thang is, I know her Mother In-Law and see her all the time. She's a very pleasant lady - has no idea I wanna body bag her son...

 

[Morethan1]

Why did you guys break up? Was it a mutual break up? Did one of you do something bad to the other one? If there are no hard feelings about the break up then I would go for it. However, I wouldn't necessarily jump head first and tell her you wanted to get back with her and be committed. You might need to spend time with her again to actually see if you truly still like her as a gf. I would try to kick with her and if you guys do become inseparable again (you are always around each other) then I would tell that I want to make it official again. Take it slow so that you don't have to renege on your feelings.

I gotta be honest with you. I hit her. I didn't beat her but I did put my hands on her
I tried apologizing. But she said it would take some time. She starting to warm up to seeing me but I can tell she still scared. I want to get a suite in downtown Seattle and spend the weekend with her. Just do the fun things we use to do. I'm not the best looking nikka in the world but I've always found a way to have and fukk and be with really decent chicks. The chick I'm dealing with now is beautiful. And Friday went out with a Denist. But I don't want them I want my ex.

 

[jfkennedy]

I already had the text ready saying


Hello beloved, just wanted to congratulate you on your new found happiness. I wont front though... It hurts me to see you with someone else, but it would have hurt me more if I couldnt be the man I needed to be and let you down. Also it would be very selfish of me not wanting you to be happy with anyone else. Im always gonna cherish our memories and use them as a reminder that friendship does blossom into something much more wonderful, if we allow it too and this perhaps maybe this is largest the our friendship could grow. Regardless I'll never stop being your friend. Take care


but im not sending it, I wont interfere with her happiness just cause i cant get my shyt together

Breh, don't send her that Nicholas Sparks shyt.

I was in/am in a similar situation, you just gotta chill on her. Chances are she'll hit you up in a few weeks - a month or so on some, "I just wanted to hear your voice" type shyt.

If not, . Stay busy and when you get to that place where when you can talk to her w/o getting on your knees like Eddie Ruffin, hit her up on some friendly shyt.

 

[So UnThotful]

came into this thread like

ended up leaving like

that ether when you first see them with someone else, man fukk that shyt

 

[SouthernBelle]

I gotta be honest with you. I hit her. I didn't beat her but I did put my hands on her
I tried apologizing. But she said it would take some time. She starting to warm up to seeing me but I can tell she still scared. I want to get a suite in downtown Seattle and spend the weekend with her. Just do the fun things we use to do. I'm not the best looking nikka in the world but I've always found a way to have and fukk and be with really decent chicks. The chick I'm dealing with now is beautiful. And Friday went out with a Denist. But I don't want them I want my ex.

Yeah you are going to have to take that real so. Have you taken anger management or anything. In that type of situation you have to show her that you aren't going to do anything like that again. Start hanging out as friends and take it slow. Work on yourself and be able to explain how and why you wouldn't do something like that again.

 

[1thouwow]

U send that text thats another pending L.
Give it time and work on yaself

 

[Jesus]

Been in the same situation...waited unitl her current man and her broke up...tried to slide in and ask for a chance again and she stood me up.

 

[thegreatest]

Hello beloved

damn breh

I can tell you hurt but did you really have to say it like that

 

[Amy Traphouse]

@Willstyles

 

[iamstr8fire]

 

[cleanface coney]

shyt hurt brehs but she wants something that I couldnt give her at this time so she found someone that could. We been in and out each other lives for almost 4 years. We met back in 08 during a rough time in our lives and we connected. Seriously it was like finding a piece of yourself that you lost in another life that you wasnt even looking for. She lived in PA and we would visit each other for the weekend whenever we could. shyt was perfect brehs, we wasnt together but we shared something wonderful every time we would meet.

She's a wonderful woman, my mom and dad loves her, she even gave the kid some dough when i wasnt working until my unemployment kicked in and told me I could live with her and start over in PA. We knew each other for 4 years but yet I couldnt bring myself to say yes. I told her I couldnt and she laughed. Saying this must be pay back for last time when she should have said yes and I told her no, its just I have a lot on my plate and I wanna clean my plate. Back in 09 I asked her to be my girlfriend and she explained to me why she couldnt and I understood the reason, she was still recovering from the last relationship. Unfortunately now its the same thing with me

This happen month and some change ago and now I just seen her pic on facebook with another dude saying in a relationship . I was gonna call on some drake shyt but...I couldnt. I'm just gonna let this burn for Allah only knows how long. Seems I just been taking L all this fall

do it my nikka