Almost had a Marvins Room moment :wow:

[Why-Fi]

youre gonna regret this one for years to come.

the regret could come either way...the breh said hes not ready. do you know how valuable it is to KNOW that you arent ready. some people dont realize that shyt until much too late

 

[Huellz Santana]

I already had the text ready saying


Hello beloved, just wanted to congratulate you on your new found happiness. I wont front though... It hurts me to see you with someone else, but it would have hurt me more if I couldnt be the man I needed to be and let you down. Also it would be very selfish of me not wanting you to be happy with anyone else. Im always gonna cherish our memories and use them as a reminder that friendship does blossom into something much more wonderful, if we allow it too and this perhaps maybe this is largest the our friendship could grow. Regardless I'll never stop being your friend. Take care


but im not sending it, I wont interfere with her happiness just cause i cant get my shyt together

just keep it moving man. if its meant to be... well you know the rest


be strong brother. we all been there​

 

[thegreatest]

are you gonna commit that or what?

 

[Brandon M.]

nah dont fukk her shyt up, just send her a "hey" text lol thats it

 

[Born2BKing]

Been there before breh, shyt was fukked up.

 

[ltheghost]

Same thing, mayne...I have almost no connects to her, but I still have my memories. Cold thang is, I know her Mother In-Law and see her all the time. She's a very pleasant lady - has no idea I wanna body bag her son...

Keep those feeling to yourself. Its just the way things are. You can't be a damn simp out here and you can't change the way things are. If it is going to happen it will happen. Until then she doesn't exist. Be selfish about yourself. At the end of the day don't drive yourself crazy about a female or her feelings.

 

[Huellz Santana]

@WillStyles you're in your feelings right now breh. like i said before, just CHILL. you know you're not ready so you're just being selfish. let that other man

i'll give you props for not doing like most nikkas would tho and snatching her up just to sell her dreams (or worse get her pregnant)

being a man and getting caught up in feelings is the WORST. its foreign territory to us. women can go thru this shyt all the time, cry on their friend's shoulders, and be okay. i man will be fukked up for years if he lets it get to him.

i wouldn't pursue. you're not ready. how old are you? if you're in your 20's i promise you'll look back in 10 years and laugh at all this​

damn breh

I can tell you hurt but did you really have to say it like that

nikka on his loaded lux tip​

 

[Taadow]

Keep those feeling to yourself. Its just the way things are. You can't be a damn simp out here and you can't change the way things are. If it is going to happen it will happen. Until then she doesn't exist. Be selfish about yourself. At the end of the day don't drive yourself crazy about a female or her feelings.

I know all of this, and it doesn't "drive me crazy"...but it's just one of those corners in my mind. I posted to let Will know that it's some chit that doesn't go away fast, so he better make sure he 'bout it 'bout it...

 

[Mike Ock]

You have two choices. You either go for it. Or you cut off all ties to her. Block her on facebook, delete her number, get rid of pictures. You are in a bad spot and by seeing her with that other nig is going to mess you up. Make the move or delete her from memory. I had some shyt like this happen to me 9 years ago. I still haven't spoke to the chick. Her friends try to hit me up saying I should at least speak to her. Naw. I'm not about to open up that cycle of destruction again.

Real talk...I broke up with an ex in late July..she lived with me, but then went back home because her father got a little sick, and then she got a job offer back home so she stayed...and we both didn't wanna go back to doing the long distance thing...shyt still stung a lot though..as time went by we both started dating, unfortunately I saw a pic of dude on fb with her...dynamics totally changed after that for me...we would still chat thru email or IM...eventhough, I was dating also, I couldn't front anymore of seeing that pic of dude...it was fuking my head up for a minute and I blocked all her status and feed updates after that...i found myself having unwarranted anger towards her for really no reason...thats when I knew I couldn't play buddies with her anymore. I even told her all of this, but for some reason she still thought we could be cool. After like a month of no communication, she sends me a random email about how she'll forever love me and if I was there, I'd be the one she was with..and I got the email while I was on a date with the girl im currently with. I never responded to that email, deep down I wanted to, but I didn't need to go thru the emotion game with her anymore. She emailed me recently again because the knicks were playing Toronto(thats where she's lives)...and again, I didn't respond. That last email I sent to her of me not being to be buddies with her was such a relief man. I got it all off my chest and felt like a new man. I say OP do that. Just get it all off your chest in a respectful manner. And see her response, but its best you don't fall for the buddy role unless you are truly ready to be just that. I say after you send that relief email, just back off. You said all you wanted to in it. You don;t owe her anything and she doesn't owe you anything. But out of sight out of mind is the best medicine imo.

 

[Just like bruddas]

@WillStyles you're in your feelings right now breh. like i said before, just CHILL. you know you're not ready so you're just being selfish. let that other man

i'll give you props for not doing like most nikkas would tho and snatching her up just to sell her dreams (or worse get her pregnant)

being a man and getting caught up in feelings is the WORST. its foreign territory to us. women can go thru this shyt all the time, cry on their friend's shoulders, and be okay. i man will be fukked up for years if he lets it get to him.

i wouldn't pursue. you're not ready. how old are you? if you're in your 20's i promise you'll look back in 10 years and laugh at all this


nikka on his loaded lux tip​

this post on here was so on point man. Any person could be selfish and lie. I just refuse to sell her a pipe dream and if homie can give her that 100% commitment then why so I stop him from doing something that I couldnt...which is make her happy. We know each other like the back of our hands, so I know she wouldnt let no bum ass nikka get in her zone.

Nothing worries me more then not being able to live up to the exceptions that she has of me. Im not talking bout money or social status cause she seen me at my lowest and still gave me the time of day and she seen me at my best and didnt ask for anything but Im not gonna wake up in the morning and tell her i wanna be single again cause I refuse to cheat on any women. So I'll just move on and look back. maybe this is as far as we can grow...

 

[A.V.]

she wasnt a ex though, she was something more...she was























my other virgo half

Ah. A virgo?




Damn, breh



















But seriously, a lot of people that inopportune times fall upon, meet someone and just because this person can aid in company, finances, or opportunity, they confuse that with a sense of love, and it actually speeds up whatever emotions you may or may not have had for her. These can become deep rooted feelings and give you the sense of "I'll never find another like her,"...but you will.

There's too many people on this planet, and mathematically, it's too many chances to find "the one" than to think that just because you lost one, you won't find another. It's gonna burn, for a long time, but you'll find her reincarnate later in life, if you're open/receptive to it and act in a timely fashion when you do find her. She'll be even BETTER than shorty.

 

[Just like bruddas]

Ah. A virgo?




Damn, breh























But seriously, a lot of people that inopportune times fall upon, meet someone and just because this person can aid in company, finances, or opportunity, they confuse that with a sense of love, and it actually speeds up whatever emotions you may or may not have had for her. These can become deep rooted feelings and give you the sense of "I'll never find another like her,"...but you will.

There's too many people on this planet, and mathematically, it's too many chances to find "the one" than to think that just because you lost one, you won't find another. It's gonna burn, for a long time, but you'll find her reincarnate later in life, if you're open/receptive to it and act in a timely fashion when you do find her. She'll be even BETTER than shorty.

my nikka you came through with this post.

 

[A.V.]

my nikka you came through with this post.

Real nikka shyt, man. I just be speaking from experience and observation. So I understand exactly where you coming from. But it's even all the more confusing when you not tryina settle down, but you got broads holding you down and competing for your love while you locked up.

It's a constant fight between feelin like you owe these hoes something for having some semblance of loyalty at your lowest point, feeling like you in love, and feeling fukked up because you still ain't trying to commit completely when you come home, cuz you've wasted so much time and have so much of life you still want to live first. But the future is a beautiful thing. Never know what might happen, just don't settle too quick.

All these bytches got reincarnates, I'm convinced. My current shorty is like a mixture of all the GOOD qualities from every ex or jumpoff I've ever had...even the one or two I thought I'd never get over. And on some G shyt, I still ain't 100% committed, but I'm a little farther removed from my heydays.

 

[Binary]

Cups of that XO.

 

[Sugar]

This thread is too sad

Yall nikkas aint shyt