HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
(My long replies fukking up the flow of the thread 
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Absolutely. Thats why i started looking so early. But as a man, you can be more leisurely.
I will say this tho. Indulging your passions might lead you to overlook her. We only met bc i was physically distant from my roster. What i found was, the kind of person you want to marry is not the same type of person you like to fukk. If they were, you woulda found her by now. So you have to be mindful that youre not putting 'fun girl' standards on potential wives. Im not talking about basic physical attraction, i mean other stuff.
For example, the guys i dealt with before were very alpha, well known, social types. The one i ended up was barely known... mysterious. It could have very well turned me off, but surprisingly, was kinda hot tbh, and as i learned, a base characteristic that opened the door to other very sexy, very husbandly qualities. Like, bc he wasnt always socializing, he had time for other shyt, ie a double major in difficult shyt. Now, the other guys werent dumb or UNserious, we were all at top schools, the difference was a matter of degree. Extremely impressive, and it showed me that he took his committments seriously. That ability to focus continues to impress me to this day. It even shows up in our sex life.
So, for you, it might be a caring woman. Not that you've been dealing with selfish bytches, it's a matter of degree. No, you might not NEED smiley face notes on your bathroom mirror, but its nice. Through the door to more impactful things, a caring woman would empathize with your needs, incl the sexual ones. She might actually feel bad about playing games with the p*ssy or saying no too many nights in a row, thereby avoiding the problems that naturally arise from those conditions. Etc.
)Absolutely. Thats why i started looking so early. But as a man, you can be more leisurely.
I will say this tho. Indulging your passions might lead you to overlook her. We only met bc i was physically distant from my roster. What i found was, the kind of person you want to marry is not the same type of person you like to fukk. If they were, you woulda found her by now. So you have to be mindful that youre not putting 'fun girl' standards on potential wives. Im not talking about basic physical attraction, i mean other stuff.
For example, the guys i dealt with before were very alpha, well known, social types. The one i ended up was barely known... mysterious. It could have very well turned me off, but surprisingly, was kinda hot tbh, and as i learned, a base characteristic that opened the door to other very sexy, very husbandly qualities. Like, bc he wasnt always socializing, he had time for other shyt, ie a double major in difficult shyt. Now, the other guys werent dumb or UNserious, we were all at top schools, the difference was a matter of degree. Extremely impressive, and it showed me that he took his committments seriously. That ability to focus continues to impress me to this day. It even shows up in our sex life.
So, for you, it might be a caring woman. Not that you've been dealing with selfish bytches, it's a matter of degree. No, you might not NEED smiley face notes on your bathroom mirror, but its nice. Through the door to more impactful things, a caring woman would empathize with your needs, incl the sexual ones. She might actually feel bad about playing games with the p*ssy or saying no too many nights in a row, thereby avoiding the problems that naturally arise from those conditions. Etc.
Ofc, men and women are different.
I was in fashion, i dont have to imagine. I let my little kid license expire and got into the money side of the business.
