Always wanting new p*ssy is the cruelest joke

[J.E.T.S]

If you’re not able to get p*ssy… something is wrong with you.

It’s gotta be how you smell, your body, teeth, or how you dress.

You might be shooting out your league. Go fukk some ugly bytches. The way the world is now, an ugly bytch has been gassed up by so many nikkas to where they’ll tell you what’s wrong with YOU. Especially when they get mad…

Fix those issues as women tell you without being offended. Go fukk cuter bytches…

 

[Diyhai]

I never even said anyone had to hang out. And isn’t it equally as selfish to be close to someone and then be upset YOU have to adjust to their happiness? If they are happy with their girlfriends and the girlfriends are happy, why would you be worried about yourself and the 60 mins at dinner?

Then you go and judge again. A person with one woman is more stable…. How you know? How you know what fukkery those people are doing? How you know they ain’t going through the motions? How you know he ain’t beating her ass every night?

But again, you see them at dinner a few times and it’s better for YOU so you deem him, her and their relationship as more stable. As if unstable relationships don’t exist.


I mean forget opinions. 50% of marriages end in divorce. How exactly is that stable?

stable in the sense of less change and more permanence

 

[HarlemHottie]

I wish I was normal sometimes and could settle down with one chick…

I dont think its normal for a man with options. Thats why faithful men with options are exceptional, bc it proves they have self control.

This may sound backwards, but I've fukked alot of women. been with 30+ atleast before ever getting into a relationship ever.

The manosphere has a theory that promiscuous women, over time, lose the ability to pair bond. Maybe that's whats going on with you.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Never compared being with multiple woman to food
I said "pleasure doesn't make something the best decision" and used food as an example
you are arguing a point I didn't make

you are arguing points I never made
plenty of people don't have to FORCE themselves not to cheat because they want to be monogamous
people can have whatever standards they want
you are insecure if you are looking for validation of your actions from those people

You all over the place. “its pleasant to eat a lot of unhealthly food but it will make you fat”

And I said multiple women (pleasure) isn’t that. It’s not making you anything. It’s not unhealthy food which is bad for you. It’s simply different ”food”


Then you said “you are trying to convivence yourself its okay
plenty of people have no desire to be with someone other than their partner
having one partner there is a level of intimacy you can't get being with multiple partners”

So if I’m trying to convince myself it’s ok, aren’t you assuming it’s not ok? Do you get married and turn gay? No you still see a beautiful woman and nature takes over then you say “no I’m good with my wife”. That’s you forcing yourself to not do something you naturally want to do. Now it’s easier to do for some than others. But I’d love to meet the married man who never once had the thought of sex with another woman cross his mind.

My problem is not what I think about it. I think it’s natural and not an issue. My issue is judgementap people pretending one is better when it’s like you said a lifestyle choice. Not a better choice

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

stable in the sense of less change and more permanence

How when half get divorced?

I got three bosses. One is married, the other was married up until 3 months ago, one is divorced before he got there.

Without knowing shyt about them, you’d say the first two are more stable if I asked last year, now you’d say 1 is and the other 2 ain’t stable? That’s retarded thinking not based in any facts

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Most people get divorced because they live an American lifestyle, which means you have to basically kill your soul to never stop consuming.


I just wanted to make that point, don’t care for the rest.

Your point wasn’t based in facts

Top 13 Countries with the Highest Divorce Rates (annually, per 1000 people)*

*Data is most recent available per country. 2018-China; 2019-Cuba; all others 2020-21

Maldives - 5.52
Kazakhstan - 4.6
Russia - 3.9
Belarus (tie) - 3.7
Belgium (tie) - 3.7
Moldova - 3.3
China - 3.2
Cuba - 2.9
Ukraine - 2.88
Denmark (tie) - 2.7
Latvia (tie) - 2.7
Lithuania (tie) - 2.7
United States (tie) - 2.7


Those might be the most non American living countries above us

 

[HarlemHottie]

From a sociological perspective, if yall black and this 'issue' is as ubiquitous as the thread is making it seem, it explains a lot about the current state of the community and raises a new line of inquiry.

1. Why we have no "community" as such: bc the building block of a functional modern community is the family. If men cant just pick a mate and sit down somewhere, a good portion of what could be constructive time/ energy/ money is dissipated into the ether.

2. How do other groups of men manage their urges? How do they reduce the deleterious effects on community building? Are they constrained by law, a value system, social shaming, etc?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

From a sociological perspective, if yall black and this 'issue' is as ubiquitous as the thread is making it seem, it explains a lot about the current state of the community and raises a new line of inquiry.

1. Why we have no "community" as such: bc the building block of a functional modern community is the family. If men cant just pick a mate and sit down somewhere, a good portion of what could be constructive time/ energy/ money is dissipated into the ether.

2. How do other groups of men manage their urges? How do they reduce the deleterious effects on community building? Are they constrained by law, a value system, social shaming, etc?

The number one reason for divorce is infidelity. In all races. Half divorce. All races. That doesn’t even cover cheating that doesn’t result in divorce. Or cheating in regular relationships. Or dudes just fukking.

The black man problem is not being around for his kids. Which doesn’t go hand and hand with multiple women. You can be with 100 women and be a single dad. You can be with 0 and be a deadbeat.

p*ssy isn’t a black issue.

 

[HarlemHottie]

The number one reason for divorce is infidelity. In all races. Half divorce. All races. That doesn’t even cover cheating that doesn’t result in divorce. Or cheating in regular relationships. Or dudes just fukking.

In the US, or everywhere? Edit: I thought it was finances.

The black man problem is not being around for his kids. Which doesn’t go hand and hand with multiple women. You can be with 100 women and be a single dad. You can be with 0 and be a deadbeat.

I agree but not for the same reasons. Part of being around for your kids is community building, bc you want to make sure the community is safe, has parks, etc, and more importantly, institution building which includes schools, places of worship/ community centers, etc.

You cant accomplish that when your children and resources are scattered across the city, state, region, country, or continent. There's simply not enough time in the day. Further, i think we sometimes forget about thie small but invaluable intangibles that come with having a father in the house fulltime, actually watching him embody manhood (this goes for girls too).

p*ssy isn’t a black issue.

I dont think i said it was. I think how we handle it is irregular.

 

[Diyhai]

You all over the place. “its pleasant to eat a lot of unhealthly food but it will make you fat”

And I said multiple women (pleasure) isn’t that. It’s not making you anything. It’s not unhealthy food which is bad for you. It’s simply different ”food”

"pleasure doesn't make something the best decision"
something being pleasurable is not a good reasoning to do something is the point
if u can't separate those distinctions there is nothing i can do for you

Then you said “you are trying to convivence yourself its okay
plenty of people have no desire to be with someone other than their partner
having one partner there is a level of intimacy you can't get being with multiple partners”

So if I’m trying to convince myself it’s ok, aren’t you assuming it’s not ok? Do you get married and turn gay? No you still see a beautiful woman and nature takes over then you say “no I’m good with my wife”. That’s you forcing yourself to not do something you naturally want to do. Now it’s easier to do for some than others. But I’d love to meet the married man who never once had the thought of sex with another woman cross his mind.

My problem is not what I think about it. I think it’s natural and not an issue. My issue is judgementap people pretending one is better when it’s like you said a lifestyle choice. Not a better choice

You choose something because you feel that it is better, pleasurable to you or more beneficial
Me saying its a lifestyle is not a fact, its my opinion
plenty of people think being with multiple partners is a sin or means you are undisciplined
someone can think it is better choice which is why they choose monogamy
you are judging people saying they really want to have sex with other people
but even if they do want to have sex the sacrifice of not having sex with other people benefits their relationships and families
you saying u have to turn gay to not see a beautiful woman her and not sexualize her and saying its natural says alot about your view on the topic

false consensus effect/ consensus bias is a pervasive cognitive bias that causes people to “see their own behavioral choices and judgments as relatively common and appropriate to existing circumstances”. In other words, they assume that their personal qualities, characteristics, beliefs, and actions are relatively widespread through the general population.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

"pleasure doesn't make something the best decision"
something being pleasurable is not a good reasoning to do something is the point
if u can't separate those distinctions there is nothing i can do for you


You choose something because you feel that it is better, pleasurable to you or more beneficial
Me saying its a lifestyle is not a fact, its my opinion
plenty of people think being with multiple partners is a sin or means you are undisciplined
someone can think it is better choice which is why they choose monogamy
you are judging people saying they really want to have sex with other people
but even if they do want to have sex the sacrifice of not having sex with other people benefits their relationships and families
you saying u have to turn gay to not see a beautiful woman her and not sexualize her and saying its natural says alot about your view on the topic

false consensus effect/ consensus bias is a pervasive cognitive bias that causes people to “see their own behavioral choices and judgments as relatively common and appropriate to existing circumstances”. In other words, they assume that their personal qualities, characteristics, beliefs, and actions are relatively widespread through the general population.

So it's your opinion that monogamous men don't think of sex with other people? Never even crosses their mind? No fantasies or nothing? They watch porn but never even think "If I wasn't married........."

Yes.. I'm 1000% sure that if you don't think of having sex with women, you're gay.. I mean what the hell man. What you are doing is exactly what I said, sacrificing your attractions for the sake of your lifestyle... Sacrificing, forcing, is the same thing. You are fighting against your human nature to procreate.

And ALL I am saying is, that doesn't make your sacrifice better than someone who isn't.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

In the US, or everywhere? Edit: I thought it was finances.


I agree but not for the same reasons. Part of being around for your kids is community building, bc you want to make sure the community is safe, has parks, etc, and more importantly, institution building which includes schools, places of worship/ community centers, etc.

You cant accomplish that when your children and resources are scattered across the city, state, region, country, or continent. There's simply not enough time in the day. Further, i think we sometimes forget about thie small but invaluable intangibles that come with having a father in the house fulltime, actually watching him embody manhood (this goes for girls too).


I dont think i said it was. I think how we handle it is irregular.

I agree with a lot of this..

1. It's number 1 here and in the world. Again. You have people fighting against their human nature to procreate.. Now even if you wear a condom, use birth control of some sort, etc... Your human brain and body still craves sex and not just from 1 person out of billions.. You can simply say no and not do it.. But the numbers show that's not really what's going on

2. I agree that someone could be involved in the fukkery and that's why he ain't around. But relationships don't work out sometimes and then separation happens.. Sometimes the dude just doesn't care about the kid.. I think an extremely rare amount of times, does the man say "fukk the kid BECAUSE I want more women." As I point out above, most will cheat WHILE in the home with the kids. They want multiples but also want the woman they married and their kids.. But they can't be truthful, so they got to lie and cheat. THAT is what is wrong. Dishonesty. And that's why 70% of women file for divorce and take the kids.

3. I agree with everything you said about fathers being around. And I looked it up.. Black men admit to cheating more than any other race.. So you're absolutely right

 

[Diyhai]

So it's your opinion that monogamous men don't think of sex with other people? Never even crosses their mind? No fantasies or nothing? They watch porn but never even think "If I wasn't married........."

"but even if they do want to have sex the sacrifice of not having sex with other people benefits their relationships and families"

Yes.. I'm 1000% sure that if you don't think of having sex with women, you're gay.. I mean what the hell man. What you are doing is exactly what I said, sacrificing your attractions for the sake of your lifestyle... Sacrificing, forcing, is the same thing. You are fighting against your human nature to procreate.

If you have a wife how are you gay? You are showing why people wouldn't want to be around you. So imagine I have a beautiful wife you sexualizing my wifeI have a beautiful 18 yr old daughter you sexualizing her too I have a daughter 16 yr old with a developed body you looking at her too Cuz its natural and you not gonna have discipline. Its a slippery slope bruh

And ALL I am saying is, that doesn't make your sacrifice better than someone who isn't.

you just arguing to argue at this point
I engaged with you because I thought you might have a viewpoint I never thought about

 

[O.Red]

I wish I was normal sometimes and could settle down with one chick…

This is not biologically normal tho

Monogamy is a social construct

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

"but even if they do want to have sex the sacrifice of not having sex with other people benefits their relationships and families"

If you have a wife how are you gay? You are showing why people wouldn't want to be around you. So imagine I have a beautiful wife you sexualizing my wifeI have a beautiful 18 yr old daughter you sexualizing her too I have a daughter 16 yr old with a developed body you looking at her too Cuz its natural and you not gonna have discipline. Its a slippery slope bruh

you just arguing to argue at this point
I engaged with you because I thought you might have a viewpoint I never thought about

So gay nikkas don't have wives now? Where you think DL comes from?

Let me ask you simply... Have you ever thought of having sex with another woman since marriage?

Let me answer for you... Yes



And I've been talking in general.. I'm on vacation with 10 other people, 7 single women... I'm good baby.. Again, just seeing y'all on some "I'm making better choices cause I'm sacrificing my desires" is weird and not factual