Always wanting new p*ssy is the cruelest joke

[Dave24]

Monogamy is a myth, just like religion.

I thought you believed in God and/or religion. What happened? Maybe it was another poster. I remember an illuminati thread regarding celebrities you posted I think.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I thought you believed in God and/or religion. What happened? Maybe it was another poster. I remember an illuminati thread regarding celebrities you posted I think.

I believe in God, just not the institution of religion as we know it today.

 

[Diyhai]

Monogamy is a myth, just like religion.

a myth?
Monogamy is a choice, I think there are benefits and disadvantages to both sides of the game.
I would only be monogamous if I wanted a family.
I don't get why people think fukking random woman really adds to your life
Where you raised in a stable to parent home?
I feel like most people who have never seen an example of a solid marriage don't believe in it.

 

[Diyhai]

Eventually, you’ll appreciate the peace from not pursuing something new, and all the potential drama.

Thats more laziness and complacency
If you are approaching relationships honestly and dealing with quality woman there is no drama.
Most people talking about drama are lying to the woman they are dealing with and don't even know how have a genuine relationship with a woman.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

she wouldn't be lol and hell even I don't see the point in that to a degree. I'm not personally into a chick that's supposedly "Mine" but fukking other dudes, i'd get turned off. Rather just do my own thing at that point lol

However there was a time when she brought her friend over and I swear her friend was down for somethin' 3 ways. But my girl lowkey made sure that didn't happen smh lol

deep down, I worry that relationships aren't for me, and that they are for dudes of...lower caliber or ignorant to their power, or tired. Or i worry that i'd have to be with a the baddest chick ever in order to be satisfied. idk man

You only feel bad because society has shamed you into thinking a natural thing that ALL men feel, is somehow wrong. And the right thing is to force yourself to be with one person forever

That’s not how humans work. Hell, most women don’t even want that if they admit it.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

a myth?
Monogamy is a choice, I think there are benefits and disadvantages to both sides of the game.
I would only be monogamous if I wanted a family.
I don't get why people think fukking random woman really adds to your life
Where you raised in a stable to parent home?
I feel like most people who have never seen an example of a solid marriage don't believe in it.

You said it, monogamy is a choice, it’s not natural but a man made concept.

My parents have been married for over 30 years. As far as I know, neither has cheated but who knows? Some secrets get taken to the grave.

I’m not naive enough to think my parents’ marriage has been blemish free.

I’ve been with my lady for over 3 years. Never once cheated but I’d be lying if I said it doesn’t get harder each year. It’s one of the main reasons I haven’t jumped the broom yet.

Unless we come to an understanding at some point, it’ll be hard not to succumb to the temptations.

 

[Marco Zen]

It's a fear thing


The inability to control that primal instinct is rooted in being afraid deep down.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

a myth?
Monogamy is a choice, I think there are benefits and disadvantages to both sides of the game.
I would only be monogamous if I wanted a family.
I don't get why people think fukking random woman really adds to your life
Where you raised in a stable to parent home?
I feel like most people who have never seen an example of a solid marriage don't believe in it.

It adds to your pleasure. Which is a major part of life. And not just sexual pleasure. Only women will try and convince you that having sex with multiple attractive women is somehow a bad thing

 

[AngryBaby]

Now we’re talking

TLDR: it’s not easy being committed when you got options. The grass always looks greener on the other side.


Sometimes I close my eyes and think of other women when I need a spark if she was annoying before we got in bed. Then afterwards the guilt pops up why do I still think like this? I’m supposed to be settling down and be mature and intentional

I always looked down on cheaters but always had short situationships

Now that I’m in a more official relationship, it feels like I’m stuck in it. Since she met the fam and her fam knows me and her friends met me, it’s like I can’t break up. She moved her extra stuff in my place already. I’m thinking how did we get here so fast? It’s only been a few months and if I don’t do something, time will fly by and people will ask when are y’all gonna tie the knot already?

like others said I try to remind myself of what dating is like nowadays. The interview questions. The expectations of having to Wine and dine with no certainty. The texts that sometimes go nowhere. The mental state of the prettiest women. The need to go out and do something all the time. The amount of money that just evaporates because we gotta try new things.

Then there’s the judging and societal pressure. The fam thinks you’re just a playboy who’s picky. The way people look when u say you’re single especially christians. Your friends joke about being the eternal bachelor or going overseas to get yours

I want to be settled down. I want to be committed. It’s obviously so much easier to focus on one woman and pour yourself into her. But every time I wonder if this is the one because my mind wanders a lot and evolving is what got me to where I’m at today


Someone told men a lie one day and we all fell for it


Damn this turned into a therapy session lol

Luckily most of my friends are single or definitely "get it" but my best friend who just proposed to his...unattractive chick. Always had some weird underhanded comments he would make. He tried between a break up(with an unattractive chick) to fukk around on tinder, and ended up proposing to a chick he met on there (who was also unnattractive)

But he would always say things like "oh I know I can fukk girls so I don't need to do all that" lol okay...then why is the chick you proposed to busted? But I digress.

Anyway there was always this air of, the "relationship" being superior to being single. But if you REALLY were out here doing it right then...not exactly lol and ne saying this someone would try to rationalize it as "oh you just don't like your girl" nah man, she's great...it's just the concept is questionable

 

[Diyhai]

It adds to your pleasure. Which is a major part of life. And not just sexual pleasure. Only women will try and convince you that having sex with multiple attractive women is somehow a bad thing

the same way men try to convince women having sex with multiple men makes them a hoe
pleasure doesn't make something the best decision
its pleasant to eat a lot of unhealthly food but it will make you fat
Having sex with multiple attractive woman has diminishing returns
it just a lifestyle decision
if a woman wants you to be monogamous you can simply say no and fukk with other chicks

 

[ajnapoleon]

God is evil

 

[Diyhai]

You said it, monogamy is a choice, it’s not natural but a man made concept.

My parents have been married for over 30 years. As far as I know, neither has cheated but who knows? Some secrets get taken to the grave.

I’m not naive enough to think my parents’ marriage has been blemish free.

I’ve been with my lady for over 3 years. Never once cheated but I’d be lying if I said it doesn’t get harder each year. It’s one of the main reasons I haven’t jumped the broom yet.

Unless we come to an understanding at some point, it’ll be hard to succumb to the temptations.

everything is a man made concept
Why are you faithful if you want to be with other woman?
Why stay in the relationship if you want to be with other women?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

the same way men try to convince women having sex with multiple men makes them a hoe
pleasure doesn't make something the best decision
its pleasant to eat a lot of unhealthly food but it will make you fat
Having sex with multiple attractive woman has diminishing returns
it just a lifestyle decision
if a woman wants you to be monogamous you can simply say no and fukk with other chicks

It has diminishing returns FOR YOU.. Or for someone not living right. Nobody said cheat. Nobody said fukk every humpback whale raw. Or don't get tested.

But having sex with multiple women isn't a bad, wrong, or less than type of decision. Hell, you can be in an open relationship... Then who's being hurt if everyone is honest? Your lady could be bi and bringing home select women. Y'all could be swingers. You could be single.

But society has deemed 1 to 1 forever as good and everything else as less than. Not nature. Not instinct. Just pick one person and no matter what the fukk goes wrong, don't get divorced. Cause that'll be looked down on too.. So will having more than 1 marriage.

It's all clown shyt. A rating system of personal relationships. As long as everyone is open, honest and nobody is getting hurt, they all on the same level

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

everything is a man made concept
Why are you faithful if you want to be with other woman?
Why stay in the relationship if you want to be with other women?

The shame of society.. Even at work, they'll look at a married man as more stable and invite him to the dinner vs the better working single guy. Single guys can't be President of the US. Divorced women are looked at as broken. Dudes on their 3rd marriage are considered suckers. Men and women who sleep around are immature. If you're not married with a family by 35, something is wrong with you.


I just saw that asian actress come out and say she's getting a divorce and her mom begged her to wait until she died. Like people would rather you fake your way through a marriage than be divorced and happy

 

[ItsPeople]

I can’t cheat on my empress

She done sacrificed so much plus I would feel bad.