Ive seen a lot of people I know struggling during these Covid 19 times.
Seen death, Seen grown men beggin on their knees, Seen grown men cry.
Its real out here.
I been giving out my own stimulus checks since our government aint shyt.
Theres a couple other people, but these are the main money totals and they are women, so I figure we can get some good jokes and gifs off even if you agree with what I did.
#GMB gotta eat.
I personally dont give a fukk about this, but a couple of my day 1 nikkaz say Im wildin.
So I need some impartial opinions.
I have a fukk buddy thats bascially a gf, but not declared official. Thats it. I dont do the side girl thing.
0% chance I tell her about this.
I dont need this money.
Im not a 6 series, 6 figures, 6 accounts guy, but my finances are very comfortable.
1) Woman I used to smash. Hit something like 7-10 times. Been friends off and on. Not extremely close. She put on weight after having 2 kids in the past few years. Its always there if I want it, but I wouldnt hit even if she got back in shape. Would be too much drama.
Her cousin died of Covid and left behind 1 kid and a baby father that was never there. Highly religious family. We are talking Hispanic Catholic. The family is broke and was struggling to put together money for a funeral. They were considering cremating due to lack of funds. Grandparents of the deceased were very forceful that that cant happen due to the soul being destroyed or something. Whole family was arguing 24/7 about what to do. Grandma even had a stroke during this time.
Gave her 3k towards the funeral. A boyfriend of somebody else in the family also threw in some money. They ended up having the funeral.
2) Woman I used to smash. Hit probably like 150-ish times. Pretty consistent thing throughout college and the summer after I graduated. Very fukked up background. Molested, dirt poor family, low self esteem, to be honest...a lot of traits that made her a perfect fukk buddy.
1 kid. Filed paperwork for child support but courts are unavailable due to Covid. Broke ass family is constantly asking her for money since she is the only member really doing something with her life. 5 other siblings, one of which is just got arrested a couple days ago on a drug charge.
Its always there. Ive had it enough and would be another drama situation. She tries to make something serious happen with us, but Im not interested in that.
Gave her 3.5k to clear credit card debt, get groceries for her and the daughter as well as the fam, and put a lil bit away in savings for a rainy day. Had $60 in her account before this.
I would do the same for a guy I know, and I have in the past. But this is now.
Whats the verdict?
