Am I dealing with a Bisexual? I need some advice

[King Karim]

Because he’s assuming that she’s bi (and attractive). She’s a flight attendant and goes on girl trips with her bestie. The stereotype of that description is hot sex in exotic locations. But we don’t actually know what they do on their trips.

You’ve known her for almost a decade, refuse to make a move, and don’t even know her sexuality. Maybe you should move on.

maybe I should Breh.......we started off as just friends tho......and I've had other relationships with Women and she's had other relationships with Men.....it's just now we are both actually single....so the energy between us both is much stronger now

 

[King Karim]

Facts….. but I didn’t even wanna dig into the career and what sometime comes with flight attending

shiiid we here now...explain please

 

[Edub]

shiiid we here now...explain please

Flight attending can be an exotic lifestyle…. Always jetsetting here and there… meeting all types of professionals everywhere…. Always in intimate quarters (hotels with lobby bars) with pilots and other beautiful female coworkers ….. not to mention most of the male population equates a stewardess to being a fly sexy chick…..

Of course this doesn’t mean anything …. Lot of good women who are devoted wives and mothers make a good living flight attending, but it is one of those female dominated professions that has a “rep” if you will

 

[SheWantTheD]

A lot of women have kissed and made out with their girl friends.

You don't see how they grope each other openly? You don't think that goes further when alcohol and hormones are added into the mixture?

And try and commit to a flight attendant brehs.. they are always away.. in airplanes and hotels... no stability.

GOOD LUCK!

 

[TheOptimisticCynikal]

now here is an idea....no, i have not....I've met him before but don't really know him like that

Go out for drinks with dude and try dig for information on some offhand shyt. Grimace out loud how she doesn't wanna go to the strip club with you or something and from his response, go from there

 

[Vodun]

Op in the end your just scared to be hurt like a lot of us is. But let me tell you something all relationships are a risk.

Let's just say she isn't doing nothing with her friend or bi shyt. Who's to say when yall get serious she ends up doing something? See there is a risk either way. By what your telling me go go ahead be her man and a real women will check her friend because you will be her top priority. Also once you start having sex with her she will pair bond with you and her friend will be a distant memory.

Don't let people fool you about women can connect easier romantically with each other. As a man we the ability to penetrate and connect with a women physically and emotionally something a women can't do.

 

[SheWantTheD]

You simping a chick that you've been in the friendzone with for 7-8 years

If she was so special she'd have been cuffed and married by now.

She's a woman just like all the other women out here.. she ain't special or different.

If you really wanna go for it then go for it, and stop being scurred

 

[King Karim]

Op in the end your just scared to be hurt like a lot of us is. But let me tell you something all relationships are a risk.

Let's just say she isn't doing nothing with her friend or bi shyt. Who's to say when yall get serious she ends up doing something? See there is a risk either way. By what your telling me go go ahead be her man and a real women will check her friend because you will be her top priority. Also once you start having sex with her she will pair bond with you and her friend will be a distant memory.

Don't let people fool you about women can connect easier romantically with each other. As a man we the ability to penetrate and connect with a women physically and emotionally something a women can't do.

that's real

 

[HabitualChiller]

Is she actually feeling you?

 

[King Karim]

Is she actually feeling you?

yes

 

[Mowgli]

Don't take a confused woman seriously brother. U'll def regret it.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

@King Karim

My guess with modern women is they most likely experimented. If they experimented, they likely had a 3some with her bestie’s ex-husband. However, this does not mean she is doing anything now. Women can genuinely be in a sexual euphoric place with a woman or women and then get with the right man and don’t want to be involved with women anymore. Western society has afforded women that luxury.

Why she hangs with the other woman so much?
Because there are conversations you and other people for that matter can’t have or properly understand.

Why not just talk over phone?
In-person is always better if you can plus homegirl stupidly drove 50 miles.

Ultimately, as other brehs have said, she’s not your woman. Like you’ve admitted, you’ve made it so. If you were to knock it down, and lock it down; she drop homegirl in a heartbeat.

 

[Pedro Negro]

Just ask her, breh.

The girl I'm seeing is poly and told me first date she wants a steady BF and GF.

Know what you're getting into before you're already into it.

 

[Chris Cool]

not but valid points here Breh....that's suspicious activity to me also,....the distant they drive to see one another....it just strikes me as ODD!! And yeah...Strokers still around..

50 minutes ain't shyt.

I don't mean any disrespect, but I'ma be blunt.

Stop acting like a little bytch. Man up, breh. You ignoring texts and shyt, getting mad. Even if she is bi, she's not your girl.

You either tell her how you fell or stay in the friendzone.

 

[WaveGang]

Has OP fukked?

Either way sounds like breh need options, set tripping bout nutn. Lay your game down flat