Am I dealing with a Bisexual? I need some advice

[Crayola Coyote]

Stay away from them. They cheat a lot, have many STDs and mental health problems

 

[TheOptimisticCynikal]

Dikk is eternal, OP. These bi gals know this. I know a lot of women fool around in that on the low bi stuff cause they jaded about straight relationships but deep down they know ain't no future in it, but have become accustomed to the ease of being with another woman (sex with no pregnancy scares, being emotionally intune cause it's another woman etc) but ultimately a lot of those women want a real man. I have a lesbian friend that strictly doesn't date bi women cause of this.

I'd say just check her on where her true values lie and see if they align with yours. You ever tried talking to the best friend ex-husband?

 

[Lamar Givens]

A text she sent me not too long ago when I was ignoring her for a few days after she ended our outing to go keep her friend company at the restaurant.


When we talked about it, she apologized and said she assumed I'd be cool with all 3 of us hanging out at the spot but ultimately I wasn't , so I cut her off for a few days

This is passive aggressive behavior.

Act like a man, be direct about what you will not tolerate, and finally just ask her if she likes women sexually.

For this close relationship you claim y’all have you sound real scared to ask her a simple question.

 

[King Karim]

Based on said info a threesome has taken place and these girls are “closer than close “……….. but she ain’t gay

what makes you say that?

 

[King Karim]

So are you going to shoot your shot?

I'm not sure....if she is Bisexual, we will probably just remain homies....if she isn't, she could become Wifey

 

[King Karim]

so you could potentially fukk 2 bytches at once and this is a problem how?

I've done that before several times....and I've learned for my own peace of mind that 3somes are not to be done with my Main Lady that I truly have feelings for.

 

[King Karim]

Dikk is eternal, OP. These bi gals know this. I know a lot of women fool around in that on the low bi stuff cause they jaded about straight relationships but deep down they know ain't no future in it, but have become accustomed to the ease of being with another woman (sex with no pregnancy scares, being emotionally intune cause it's another woman etc) but ultimately a lot of those women want a real man. I have a lesbian friend that strictly doesn't date bi women cause of this.

I'd say just check her on where her true values lie and see if they align with yours. You ever tried talking to the best friend ex-husband?

now here is an idea....no, i have not....I've met him before but don't really know him like that

 

[King Karim]

This is passive aggressive behavior.

Act like a man, be direct about what you will not tolerate, and finally just ask her if she likes women sexually.

For this close relationship you claim y’all have you sound real scared to ask her a simple question.

you right...and once we spoke again....I was very firm with her that was some foul shyt and how it went down, and it's unacceptable for me...She apologized multiple times and told me she understood why I was upset and had every reason to be upset with her.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

what makes you say that?

Because he’s assuming that she’s bi (and attractive). She’s a flight attendant and goes on girl trips with her bestie. The stereotype of that description is hot sex in exotic locations. But we don’t actually know what they do on their trips.

I'm not sure....if she is Bisexual, we will probably just remain homies....if she isn't, she could become Wifey

You’ve known her for almost a decade, refuse to make a move, and don’t even know her sexuality. Maybe you should move on.

 

[Edub]

what makes you say that?

She lived with her and her ex husband…. They always wit each other but drivin an hour each way…. it’s clear something has them bonded close than close…. Every female I’ve dealt wit in the last damn near 8 years has had some sort of lesbi experience…. how could I put it past these two you dealin wit….



but she doesn’t like girls and she don’t even like her friend like that… maybe just something they did off too much wine…she won’t even go to strokers wit you (they still around?)…….also meaning she serious about you cuz she won’t do potentially relationship damaging activities with you…. but ask her…. You might get a threesome out of it (but I doubt it, she like you)

 

[Edub]

Because he’s assuming that she’s bi (and attractive). She’s a flight attendant and goes on girl trips with her bestie. The stereotype of that description is hot sex in exotic locations. But we don’t actually know what they do on their trips.

Facts….. but I didn’t even wanna dig into the career and what sometime comes with flight attending

 

[Alvin]

I have known this girl for about 6 or 7 years. We hang out sometimes and we have incredible chemistry. I mean incredible chemistry. We joke with each other, like similar things, and can almost finish each other sentences.

She's the type of girl that I have always seen myself settling down with. She doesn't smoke, drink, doesn't cuss that much, carries herself like a Lady should, career driven, smart and responsible....and she's a great cook. We obviously both like each other a lot and would like to extend the relationship to the next step,


but here's the problem, or rather, here is my problem. She has a female best friend that raises red flags for me. They seem to spend far too much time together. They use to live together at one point...my Lady friend, her best friend, and the best friend's ex-husband. She was living with them when she was in between jobs.

She's a flight attendant so her and the best friends are constantly going on trips together, spending their off days with one another, they starting growing dredlocks at the same time. They live about 50 mins from one another but hang out like they live 5 mins from one another. On her facebook, her best friend does nothing but tag her in their outings. Her Facebook timeline is filled with her best friend.

Like one time we were going to hang out and her friend called and she told her friend she was out with me.....The friend eventually drove up to the city she lives and and texted her......She then asked me to please take her back so her best friend wouldn't be alone.(Hookah restuarant)...So in other words, she cut our outing short to go hang with her Bestie.

Now I gotta be honest.....I'm starting to think they maybe they are bisexual.....I know they both have bisexual friends but the thing that threw me off from her being Bi is that I've often asked her to come to strip clubs with me in Atlanta and she always refuses....that's like the one place I can never talk her into going with me, anywhere else and she is always down....she always would say "I don't wanna see no naked women walking around, that doesn't appeal to me"

and from my experiences, mostly all the gay or Bi women that i've encountered LOVE strip clubs as much as dudes


What gives? Is she Bisexual and her best friend is also her "girl friend"/// Or am I overthinking this?

Hmm not sure, BUT I will say I have seen men and women go great lengths to spend time with each and not be sexual or romantic, just as friends. I mean I'm talking like grown ass men and women, having to be around their circle 24/7. It sounds like these two have a strong relationship regardless of sex, it probably will be an issue (whether they fukking or just friends) if you don't ask her about it.

 

[King Karim]

She lived with her and her ex husband…. They always wit each other but drivin an hour each way…. it’s clear something has them bonded close than close…. Every female I’ve dealt wit in the last damn near 8 years has had some sort of lesbi experience…. how could I put it past these two you dealin wit….



but she doesn’t like girls and she don’t even like her friend like that… maybe just something they did off too much wine…she won’t even go to strokers wit you (they still around?)…….also meaning she serious about you cuz she won’t do potentially relationship damaging activities with you…. but ask her…. You might get a threesome out of it (but I doubt it, she like you)

not but valid points here Breh....that's suspicious activity to me also,....the distant they drive to see one another....it just strikes me as ODD!! And yeah...Strokers still around..

 

[2manyFCKNrappers]

Don't marry/wife a flight attendant under the age of 35. She's probably bicurious.

 

[Renegade47]

I've done that before several times....and I've learned for my own peace of mind that 3somes are not to be done with my Main Lady that I truly have feelings for.

aw i got you. you right about threesomes with the main.