Am I the only one who doesn't want a "traditional" life?

InDePickWest

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The lies yall tell:wow:

All women wanna get married
Why? Back then all women got married because they couldn't work and needed someone to support them. I'm graduating with a Master's, bruh. I got a man but I'm not too sold on actual marriage even tho I was raised in a 2 parent. I do want a daughter, tho.
 

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Why? Back then all women got married because they couldn't work and needed someone to support them. I'm graduating with a Master's, bruh. I got a man but I'm not too sold on actual marriage even tho I was raised in a 2 parent. I do want a daughter, tho.

Your man hasn't proposed to you yet. When he does, you'll wanna get married.
 

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Guess what? Nobody wants to go to school and have a career. We do it because it's better than the alternative. The rest of us do it because we don't want to be out in the streets bullshytting everyone about our plans to make an album, start a restaurant, write a book, start a "business" or whatever bullshyt "dream" career you had in mind.

Your life feels like a trap when you pick the wrong job and the wrong woman.
 

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This is one of the few reasons why I don't want to "settle down" anytime soon. I like living the life I have now. I do whatever I want whenever I want.

Being in your early 30s, no kids, own place, single, :blessed: (still my luck with women is trash:beli:)
 

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:mjlol:at 20 years old wanting to not have kids, not have a wife, and just have "bandz" and "ratchets" is not unexpected.

But what are you planning/plotting? Are you throwing your degree in the bushes or are you just bored with studying engineering but you are still going to purse it as a career? Don't answer with:dame:

Anyways to the op, no I want that traditional life but it hasn't come to pass yet so I'm moving to plan b, flighty semiretired hippie chick. I had a target date of semiretired by 35 but I'm going to miss it by about 5 months

#GMB :ahh:

I'm freeeee. No kids, good credit, good career, young, and fit. Praise God. :blessed:. I'm going to travel the world. :win:
 

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Your life feels like a trap when you pick the wrong job and the wrong woman.

The chances are likely most dudes are gonna have a job they hate, marry a woman who isnt their dream woman, who is gonnna get fatter n fatter and will only have sex once a month etc.:mjcry:
 

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My dream life is, live in a nice house, drive exotic cars, have a job I love, be able to travel the world. Have 3 women. Is that too much to ask?:sadcam:

I had a taste of my dream last summer. Got my first lil apartment, had 3 women all summer, got to travel overseas on holiday once.:ahh:

But mid-30s I want a beautiful wife and children tho, current gf got potential to be a good wife, only time will tell
 
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Your man hasn't proposed to you yet. When he does, you'll wanna get married.
You're stupid. He proposed to me officially on the night of the day we both graduated high school. I've been with him since middle school. Y'all swear y'all know all women but don't even talk to them in real life. Shame.
 

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I make over 150K a year, drive a Benz, live in a highrise condo in ATL and smash fly chicks all around the world. Why would I want to get married to a chick I'll get bored with in 2 years, have 2.5 kids and a house in the burbs. Thats for lames.
 
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