Am I Wrong and/or an @$$hole for This?: Had to curb some old friends from high school...

[Malik1time]

Their was a girl from my high school I knew her since 7th grade
After high school finish I never heard her I was always the one to check up on her so I stopped
After 5 months of no talking she comes outta nowhere text me this
"Hey I remember you got a friend that works in that club Bryson tiller is going to perform"
bytch do I look like ticket master to you

OP u did nothing wrong

 

[SheWantTheD]

Breh, you didn't have to blow up on ol' dude talking about he's a racist and stuff even if it were true.

If they hit you up to hang out just say your busy and keep it moving breh.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Y'all always get hurt having these white friends. Y'all don't get it blood.

I only have two now.

Damn breh, where did you go in Baltimore that you felt uncomfortable?

And I hear you breh, had to cut off like a whole clique of cacs because anytime we'd hang out I'd be the only black person. Hell in any situation where I'm the only minority I just excuse myself.

He would take us to all these irish pubs and cop sports bars....where there would be two black people MAX in their.

I was hanging out with him and his co-workers...all lame white people.

I had a snapback, t-shirt, and jeans on, they were all dressed up in button ups and khakis not even hiding their around my presence.

I can't and refuse to chill with people like that.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Breh, you didn't have to blow up on ol' dude talking about he's a racist and stuff even if it were true.

I don't give a fukk, I've known this dude for almost 20 years and he's been saying alot of slick and not so slick racist anti-black bullshyt...and claims he isn't racist cause he fukks a bunch of bedwench ass black women (some of them I met say he was racist too) with low self-esteem and low self-esteem asian women who use him for his money

He was always the cat in thew crew that got clowned on, women didn't like him...lowkey back then he would get mad at me for taking his women that didn't want to be around him. He's been a fukking hater.

 

[ridedolo]

Breh, you didn't have to blow up on ol' dude talking about he's a racist and stuff even if it were true.

If they hit you up to hang out just say your busy and keep it moving breh.

ya'll always wanna make white ppl comfortable.

 

[Unknown Poster]

I hang around mostly hood nikkas now.I can finally be myself.

My current crowd and them don't mix, so they gone.

Never felt happier. I made the right choice. Lowkey when I was hanging out with them back then there were times we would go out to these clubs that had dress codes cause they wanted to go and be seen and bullshyt. One night back in 2010 in Pittsburgh got turned away from 4 clubs in less than an hour while they all got in those places...I was fukking heated that night.

I don't have mostly good memories with these people...and now that I think about it....they don't and never did see me on their level...they were never on mine.

 

[Unknown Poster]

ya'll always wanna make white ppl comfortable.

Why hang out with someone who made jokes about Trayvon martin?

I remember I was driving around with this cat in my car in 2012. I was listening to a Clams Casino mix...there was a song on there by this hyphy rapper chick that had "skittles and juice" in the chorus and this guy had the fukking nerve to say "oh, they made a song about Trayvon MArtin" and laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world.



I seriously wanted to punch this guy in the face numerous times...I knew it would eventually come to this moment where I stopped taking this dude's shyt and stopped fukking with him completely.

Dude was a fukking hardcore republican and shyt too...always wanted to smoke my weed...never bought any.

Always bragged for no reason cause he's short and bald and was a loser back in the days...started poppin big shyt when he got money...dude pissed me off for a while...

Thanks to this board I finally just told the fuccboi off....

I don't want no goddamn lames in my circle!

 

[DrX]

Breh, you didn't have to blow up on ol' dude talking about he's a racist and stuff even if it were true.

If they hit you up to hang out just say your busy and keep it moving breh.

fukk that passive aggressive shyt, he did the right thing....

 

[DrX]

I don't give a fukk, I've known this dude for almost 20 years and he's been saying alot of slick and not so slick racist anti-black bullshyt...and claims he isn't racist cause he fukks a bunch of bedwench ass black women (some of them I met say he was racist too) with low self-esteem and low self-esteem asian women who use him for his money

He was always the cat in thew crew that got clowned on, women didn't like him...lowkey back then he would get mad at me for taking his women that didn't want to be around him. He's been a fukking hater.

u shouldn't, dont listen to these docile ass nikkas, cut him off...fukk him and fukk anybody thats not help building u up......anybody that take and dont give gotta go .....

because the avg person out in these streets are peons man...they dont know what the fukk is going on....u can always find new "friends" bytches, jobs, opportunities..
i promised myself id never attach myself to nothing in this society, for what? itll only cause pain

oh and this is for brothers in general...yo stay away from these bedwenches man...im telling u...esp on the job........because that guy probably be having all types of racist sex with them and theyll take the abuse just to be with their master...and then do their bidding and tear u down...youll see a cute BW with some fat bummy cac up here....i dont even acknowledge a BW presence that date out, unless some money is involve...for what? man fukk that

 

[SheWantTheD]

ya'll always wanna make white ppl comfortable.

Has nothing to do with what race the person is. If he wanted to truly get out what he was feeling he would have a full phone conversation or meet them up in person and express how he feels.

What he did was out of emotion, not clarity and for him to heal from the past and move forward with his life.

 

[DrX]

Has nothing to do with what race the person is. If he wanted to truly get out what he was feeling he would have a full phone conversation or meet them up in person and express how he feels.

What he did was out of emotion, not clarity and for him to heal from the past and move forward with his life.

ok dr drew

 

[Heafcliffe]

Holy shyt breh....you're like a twin brotha from another mother.

My wife and I are in the same position and that's the exact same mess I have with my pops side. They do everything for the lazy dumbasses in the family that ain't doing shyt with themselves.
Check this...
My pop had the nerve to BUY my cousin a damn fixer-upper home in Baltimore...all he had to do was make the 350 a month payment. Pops lined him up with tenants to give him over $2000 a month in rent in the house.

The fool couldn't even handle that! Running around buying expensive worthless crap and riding everywhere trying to impress other people, lettin his tenants stay for free.
Lost the house.


Meanwhile, my wife and I bought our home and vehicles on our own with our money we saved and the good credit we earned. My pops hasnt bought me anything substantial, but gave my cousin a damn house, my siblings cars and housing and they ain't gotta work. Aunts and uncles constantly bailing out cousins and siblings and sending em money and checkin up on em.

Its like this pathetic little circle of ineptitude or something.


I know it ain't right, but I'm anxiously waiting on the day when my pops and aunts and uncles all die off and my shiftless cousins and siblings get put out on the streets. Them fukks better not call my phone or ring my doorbell or I'm answering back with my axe.

Lazy fukks have had everything given to them their whole lives and they STILL manage to fukk it up.
My mom gave me a small boost back in 2001 and I took that shyt and FLEW with it to become the successful stable man that I am today (With Gods help and support).

People try to tell me that my pops side of the family don't follow up on me because I don't need it while the others do.

Man please...that don't mean I don't need love, concern, care, communication, family and being a part of things. So I say again...fukk YOU to all them punks.
I'll see em at the next family funeral.

Breh, you right! We are essentially the same.

I too was at a point where their demise would make me feel but, now, I hope they continue to live but, to add that additional ether, I find it cathartic seeing them. Looking at them shows what I don't want to be like. My wife and I are low-profile and doing well. While they are out here trying to floss with $0 in the bank, my wife and I don't show our wealth (actual wealth) and revel in it. To walk in a store and make a substantial purchase on whatever is a possibility but do we do it? NO!

Funny thing is there is a funeral coming up and I may see. They will get nothing but well-wishes and cordial behavior from me. Not the time nor the place. The anger has subsided as I deal with them moving forward for the most part.

 

[Y2Dre]

I was in a similar situation. Except my main circle of friends from HS is entirely Black, they're still my friends today.

Problem is, the white people we went to school with are trying to be our friends still. They wasn't racist or anything like that, but in 2016 having white friends is a dub.

Closest thing I have to white friends is the people I know from my gym. Give a pound when I see them in the gym, we spot each other. Aside from that I don't fukk with no cacs socially.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I don't give a fukk, I've known this dude for almost 20 years and he's been saying alot of slick and not so slick racist anti-black bullshyt...and claims he isn't racist cause he fukks a bunch of bedwench ass black women (some of them I met say he was racist too) with low self-esteem and low self-esteem asian women who use him for his money

He was always the cat in thew crew that got clowned on, women didn't like him...lowkey back then he would get mad at me for taking his women that didn't want to be around him. He's been a fukking hater.

Why did you deal with him all this time and not call him out on his BS? When I had friends do shyt I wasn't cool with, I straight up told them that shyt right then and there.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Has nothing to do with what race the person is. If he wanted to truly get out what he was feeling he would have a full phone conversation or meet them up in person and express how he feels.

What he did was out of emotion, not clarity and for him to heal from the past and move forward with his life.

You don't know me breh.

Why did you deal with him all this time and not call him out on his BS? When I had friends do shyt I wasn't cool with, I straight up told them that shyt right then and there.

I did and gave him chances....I haven't seen this dude since new year's last year...

I asked this guy for help with money...even though he had bank, didn't do shyt,

He ain't a fukking homie...I got all my nikkas with cash and extra help when they needed it.