Am I Wrong and/or an @$$hole for This?: Had to curb some old friends from high school...

[SheWantTheD]

You don't know me breh.

I did and gave him chances....I haven't seen this dude since new year's last year...

I asked this guy for help with money...even though he had bank, didn't do shyt,

He ain't a fukking homie...I got all my nikkas with cash and extra help when they needed it.

Ight breh you asked if you were wrong in this situation and I gave my opinion.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Ight breh you asked if you were wrong in this situation and I gave my opinion.

And now for the worst part since I piqued your interest.

Back in fall of 2007 me and him were walking up to a college party at this rugby house at Pitt....5 dudes walk up towards us and ask us where's the party. I tell them. They ask us where the weed at? I offered a bag of shake to them for ten. Dude grabs it and walks away. I run up to him cause I want my cash, I tap him on the shoulder. Dude gets at me with a fukking right. I grab him by the collar of his shirt and smash his jaw with a right hook. Next thing I know I'm getting beat up by five people.

What does this dude do?

RUN TWO fukkING BLOCKS TO A TEX MEX JOINT!!!!

BAsically left me there to almost die...if it wasn't for me running into that party covered in blood (best thing to do is get away from an isolated area into a crowd)...the cacs saw me and started screaming and were asking me to leave. Cops came three hours afterwards while I was in the hospital and didnt do shyt.

I got my eyebrow split open and I still have the scar.

WE wasn't cool for months after that.

Thanks to this thread, I'm all pissed off again...I should of stopped fukking with this loser sooner...


Dude did not have my back in a fight...and was a coward and RAN....to a bar.

 

[Cave Savage]

Thy sound like a$$holes, nothing wrong with leaving them behind. Hang out only with people you actually like.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Breh, you right! We are essentially the same.

I too was at a point where their demise would make me feel but, now, I hope they continue to live but, to add that additional ether, I find it cathartic seeing them. Looking at them shows what I don't want to be like. My wife and I are low-profile and doing well. While they are out here trying to floss with $0 in the bank, my wife and I don't show our wealth (actual wealth) and revel in it. To walk in a store and make a substantial purchase on whatever is a possibility but do we do it? NO!

Funny thing is there is a funeral coming up and I may see. They will get nothing but well-wishes and cordial behavior from me. Not the time nor the place. The anger has subsided as I deal with them moving forward for the most part.

That's whats up breh.

I feel like I should help my siblings because I'm in a position of being able to. But my principles won't let me prop up a lazy person.
Sorry.
I just...can't...do it.

I skipped going to both my grandparents funerals because I didn't feel like dealing with the drama. That's the one thing I regret. I shouldn't have let my disdain for my family keep me from participating.

My wife and I are like that too. Once my wife finishes her masters she'll be making way more than me and we're already doing well. But looking at us you'd never know it. We're more than happy with our reliable Honda vehicles and our unassuming single family home.
There's no need to buy crap we don't need to impress people we don't know or care about.
That's the path to financial destruction and I see so many idiots in my family go down it....ugh.

 

[John Hull]

Had to purge my Facebook a few years ago of some latino and white "friends" of mine from college. They basically started spamming my news feed with all this subtle anti-Obama shyt. Not like I love the nikka either , but I know what their intent was and that's why they

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Nah you ain't wrong.
I don't drink...lost a gang of brehs.
I'm not in the streets anymore...I moved to a different country...
I don't have the plugs I used to...nikkas on some different shyt.
As far as white dudes I used to go to school with? They were back then and I left Texas in 2001.
They know not to check for me or look my name up. I fought for mine back then...got set up and suspended because of cactics.
Starting something with a breh, making light racial jokes...then when I get hype, tell. I learned that in SEVENTH GRADE, MY nikka.
shyt, even before then.

 

[ridedolo]

I was in a similar situation. Except my main circle of friends from HS is entirely Black, they're still my friends today.

Problem is, the white people we went to school with are trying to be our friends still. They wasn't racist or anything like that, but in 2016 having white friends is a dub.

Closest thing I have to white friends is the people I know from my gym. Give a pound when I see them in the gym, we spot each other. Aside from that I don't fukk with no cacs socially.

facts. i stopped fukking w white ppl like that years ago when i put hands on one of my "boys". the other white friends i had eventually got the hint cuz i fell all the way back.

any socializing i do with white s now involves money. much better that way imo.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

Not wrong OP. I'm slowly doing the same thing.

 

[cam>]

you're only wrong for even feeling conflicted about this.

bigotry, even polite bigotry, should never get a pass. friendship with people like that should be beneath you.

woulda told them fukk OFF straight like that

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

And now for the worst part since I piqued your interest.

Back in fall of 2007 me and him were walking up to a college party at this rugby house at Pitt....5 dudes walk up towards us and ask us where's the party. I tell them. They ask us where the weed at? I offered a bag of shake to them for ten. Dude grabs it and walks away. I run up to him cause I want my cash, I tap him on the shoulder. Dude gets at me with a fukking right. I grab him by the collar of his shirt and smash his jaw with a right hook. Next thing I know I'm getting beat up by five people.

What does this dude do?

RUN TWO fukkING BLOCKS TO A TEX MEX JOINT!!!!

BAsically left me there to almost die...if it wasn't for me running into that party covered in blood (best thing to do is get away from an isolated area into a crowd)...the cacs saw me and started screaming and were asking me to leave. Cops came three hours afterwards while I was in the hospital and didnt do shyt.

I got my eyebrow split open and I still have the scar.

WE wasn't cool for months after that.

Thanks to this thread, I'm all pissed off again...I should of stopped fukking with this loser sooner...


Dude did not have my back in a fight...and was a coward and RAN....to a bar.

Wooooooow....now that's some shady shyt!!
No way could that fool have said a damn word to me after that without spittin out teeth in the process.

I can at least say that the one cac I do fukk with stood back to back with me in a huge barfight.
We got out by the skin of our teeth and got the hell outta upstate Ny quick fast that night.

 

[Unknown Poster]

you're only wrong for even feeling conflicted about this.

bigotry, even polite bigotry, should never get a pass. friendship with people like that should be beneath you.

woulda told them fukk OFF straight like that

I'm too nice and forgiving at times.

Living in NYC has made me kind of cold now....I don't even care about my past anymore cause my present is lovely.

 

[DAlbert]

fukk high school

fake ass artificial environment that stunts growth rather than enhances

you owe no one anything OP tell them to fukk off

 

[ridedolo]

Has nothing to do with what race the person is. If he wanted to truly get out what he was feeling he would have a full phone conversation or meet them up in person and express how he feels.

What he did was out of emotion, not clarity and for him to heal from the past and move forward with his life.

its 2016. fukk outta here w this passive c00n shyt.

 

[Cat piss martini]

 

[FreedMind]

Ok...if you been following my posts...you know I grew up in a predominantly white neighborhood and went to predominantly white schools until graduation and moved to NYC.

Used to have a circle of friends where I was the token black guy around mostly white guys. And honestly since the past 8 years....I just can't fukk with them anymore on any sort of level. All of my new friends I've made in NYC (mostly black and spanish) I connect to alot more and can talk about things I couldn't talk with them. As cruel as it sounds...I have been making a concentrated effort to erase my past & focus on my present and that includes people I once knew. I can't relate to them or their lives. We have nothing in common anymore. Just based off my current circle of friends they don't fit in anywhere in the equation.

I hang around mostly hood nikkas now.I can finally be myself.

My current crowd and them don't mix, so they gone.

Never felt happier. I made the right choice. Lowkey when I was hanging out with them back then there were times we would go out to these clubs that had dress codes cause they wanted to go and be seen and bullshyt. One night back in 2010 in Pittsburgh got turned away from 4 clubs in less than an hour while they all got in those places...I was fukking heated that night.

I don't have mostly good memories with these people...and now that I think about it....they don't and never did see me on their level...they were never on mine.

Why hang out with someone who made jokes about Trayvon martin?

I remember I was driving around with this cat in my car in 2012. I was listening to a Clams Casino mix...there was a song on there by this hyphy rapper chick that had "skittles and juice" in the chorus and this guy had the fukking nerve to say "oh, they made a song about Trayvon MArtin" and laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world.



I seriously wanted to punch this guy in the face numerous times...I knew it would eventually come to this moment where I stopped taking this dude's shyt and stopped fukking with him completely.

Dude was a fukking hardcore republican and shyt too...always wanted to smoke my weed...never bought any.

Always bragged for no reason cause he's short and bald and was a loser back in the days...started poppin big shyt when he got money...dude pissed me off for a while...

@1984 I usually stay out your threads but goddamn breh you really seem to be overcompensating.

I've made a similar observation in the past and you hit me with the "you don't know me" response exactly like how you did earlier in this thread, but reading through the stories you shared in here and it's all making more sense.