AMS Says He's Done Calling Women First After Exchanging Numbers

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This kind of thing is not only unhealthy, but not productive. These guys prey on people with low self esteem and low self image.

Dating is too varied and too covered in (peoples' belief in) gender roles, people's individual biases, and beliefs, there is no way to take a hard line stance like this, and have any sort of reasonable belief you have made the right decision.

If you are interested, and someone has given you a reasonable idea that they are too, express that interest, and ask them out. Expecting people to behave in some sort of normative "logical" way, when it comes to something as emotionally charged as dating is outlandish.
 
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thats partially true but i dont think it considers that there are a lot of women that have their shyt together. not just financially and physically but also mentally so they dont find themselves fighting over a guy that thinks he's all that just because he goes gym and makes 60k, and follows dating rules set by the internet.
Scarcity creates value. Far less men that have finance and fitness together than women which means the marketplace should favor the men...simple economics.
 

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This kind of thing is not only unhealthy, but not productive. These guys prey on people with low self esteem and low self image.

Dating is too varied and too covered in gender roles, people's individual biases, and beliefs, there is no way to take a hard line stance like this, and have any sort of reasonable belief you have made the right decision.

If you are interested, and someone has given you a reasonable idea that they are too, express that interest, and ask them out. Expecting people to behave in some sort of normative "logical" way, when it comes to something as emotionally charged as dating is outlandish.

I agree..Just go after what you want..

If she call, cool. If not :yeshrug:

If you a descent nikka with a mouthpiece, she'll call..
 

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This kind of thing is not only unhealthy, but not productive. These guys prey on people with low self esteem and low self image.

Dating is too varied and too covered in gender roles, people's individual biases, and beliefs, there is no way to take a hard line stance like this, and have any sort of reasonable belief you have made the right decision.

If you are interested, and someone has given you a reasonable idea that they are too, express that interest, and ask them out. Expecting people to behave in some sort of normative "logical" way, when it comes to something as emotionally charged as dating is outlandish.
I used to think this way. I'm currently in the best relationship of my life and it's because she pursued me after I made the initial approach. Every woman I chased ended up thinking she had the power in the situation simply because she had a vagina.
 

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This kind of thing is not only unhealthy, but not productive. These guys prey on people with low self esteem and low self image.

Dating is too varied and too covered in gender roles, people's individual biases, and beliefs, there is no way to take a hard line stance like this, and have any sort of reasonable belief you have made the right decision.

If you are interested, and someone has given you a reasonable idea that they are too, express that interest, and ask them out. Expecting people to behave in some sort of normative "logical" way, when it comes to something as emotionally charged as dating is outlandish.
A girl gives you her number.

Do you call?

How many times in your life has a woman asked you for your number?

Not trying to discount what you're saying, but this advice works for people based on their specific experiences. I've never had a woman ask me for my number, but when I provide it I've been contacted. When I've asked for it, she either doesnt respond or doesnt respond with genuine interest.
 

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I'm personally not with the over thinking shyt.
Theres too many females in the world.

I go get it...
Whether it's me approaching her or hitting her up, or letting my attentions known as tactfully as possible.

I have no times for guessing games and wondering.

U with the shyts or nah?
 

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No grown man should abide by this.
I abided by it before I ever heard of dude. I'm the prize at this point. I seen the other nikkas out there...especially out here in the Bay...the fact that I have a whip and don't need money from them or a place to stay puts me in the top 5%...add in my six pack, education and business and I'm top 2%....I'm ashamed I chased bishes that worked at front desks :hhh:
 
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Scarcity creates value. Far less men that have finance and fitness together than women which means the marketplace should favor the men...simple economics.

cool, if it makes sense to you. i dont get it, im always thinking "why would you ask (and its usually not just asking...its convincing) if you didnt want to call"
 
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