AN ESSAY: WHY REAL MEN AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS

[714562]

It's 2016, breh. We off that gender wars bullshyt.

Poster 1: I disagree.

Poster 2: CURRENT YEAR.

Poster 1: Wow, that's an unimpeachable argument.

 

[Serious]

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[Goat poster]

How nice. Didnt read. Would be far more interested in a piece that attempted to examine why "real men" avoid being fathers to the children they create.

Agreed.

This is one thing about the Coli i just don't get. People always talking about how to strengthen the community, How we should support Black business. Constantly calling people c00ns and bedwenches for dating white or Non Black people.

But one of the biggest issues facing our community, One that would undoubtablty strengthen it if a change was made. Is COMPLETLY overlooked and given excuses for.

Not only that but the women are damn near 100% blamed for the situation.

IT'S COMPLETELY IRONIC HOW THE COLI BLAMES FATHERLESSNESS FOR EVERYTHING BUT NEVER BLAMES FATHERS

 

[wickedsm]

The article had some fair enough points even though I feel his brush was too broad,
It also had some bullshyt.
And I wonder what kind of baby mama specialist dater he was since he seems
Soooo angry and an expert on baby mammas


That being said most people with kids that I know of date other people with kids,
Myself included. Back when I was single I dated childless guys too though.

Really just depends on the people involved.

 

[Yo Mama]

I'm a mother.
Didn't realise I had so much bagggae?

ALL THE OP SAID ALSO APPLIES TO CHILDLESS MEN OR WOMEN.

That being said I'd never want to deal with someone who has kids unless the babies mother/father has passed on.

 

[wickedsm]

Agreed.

This is one thing about the Coli i just don't get. People always talking about how to strengthen the community, How we should support Black business. Constantly calling people c00ns and bedwenches for dating white or Non Black people.

But one of the biggest issues facing our community, One that would undoubtablty strengthen it if a change was mad. Is COMPLETLY overlooked and given excuses for.

Not only that but the women are damn near 100% blamed for the situation.

IT'S COMPLETELY IRONIC HOW THE COLI BLAMES FATHERLESSNESS FOR EVERYTHING BUT NEVER BLAMES FATHERS

Oh lordt. Don't get them started. This will just devolve into some "Big government daddy" and "you can have an abortion when *I* want you to" type of conversation where it's still always and only the woman's fault.

 

[Everythingg]

I'm a mother.
Didn't realise I had so much bagggae?

ALL THE OP SAID ALSO APPLIES TO CHILDLESS MEN OR WOMEN.

That being said I'd never want to deal with someone who has kids unless the babies mother/father has passed on.

Cac alert?

 

[Reginald Noble]

that rapid fire form.....

Just ethereal from all the got damn angles!!!!

 

[Slystallion]

haha I was definitely that kid that was working against my stepdad...he ended up being a great dude who gave me more brothers and sisters and I was an idiot as a kid to be against someone who wanted to help provide for a family but it's probably just nature

 

[Yo Mama]

Cac alert?

No

 

[New Username]

Single mothers maybe the solution to the brehs who are struggling to get women. Single mothers will give you a chance before other women.

In reality I agree, if you are childless dont date single mothers, its a headache, but the writer of the article is very bitter lol. Single mothers are still people too, its unfortunate they ended in those circumastances but they aint bad people

/thread

 

[mcellas]

 

[twan83]

I've dated more single moms then non single moms and found it better for me imo

Never really ran into those issues that most did and this was before I had kids too

 

[ezrathegreat]

All these points are really just common sense but people will always try to go against the grain.

 

[Canon]

date women who have shown horrible decision making skills brehs