AN ESSAY: WHY REAL MEN AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS

[Diyhai]

Writer of this article is in his feelings
he sound like he got played
only reason I cant fukk with them on a serious level is cuz to me they have nothing left to give there husband
Its like damn cant I at least be the dude to give u ur 1st child
Even hoes like Amber Rose n Kim K never had a baby till they were married
shyt just comes off as irresponsible to me

 

[Diyhai]

The white man wants the black woman to believe that blaming poor quality no good black men for their probs (and instead focus on their own accountability in choosing these men) is somehow helping.

My Unc on my mother's side a deadbeat and always will be. He stay making excuses

My pops talk to him at least once a year about forming a relationship with his daughter (my cuz i rarely seen ) and getting his life together.

I think Black Women and the media expect the productive good BM to somehow "fix" these Men but the fact is the White man continues the cycle and makes it comfortable for the various hoes he leeches off of to maintain their lifestyle and be romantically involved with deadbeat males thanks to welfare, SNAP, section 8, etc. all funded by the tax payer.

How is this the white man fault
the white man is telling black woman to deal with these dudes?
the white man is telling black people not to get married?
so section 8 and other programs should stop so these women can be in even worst poverty
stop it B
I will always blame a man before I will blame a female
Its both there fault equally but I feel men are suppose to lead

 

[MalikReloaded]

Lol at your wife already having had a baby (spiritual connection reserved for husband and wife) with another guy. Demonic times we live in. Imagine this convo 200 years ago

 

[daboywonder2002]

It's cool to date/marry a single mother if..

Baby daddy is totally out the pic.

If the mom is a hard worker.

If the mom is faithful.

If the mom has a great job with benifits and doesn't need you for your income.

If she is a great mother, and can cook.

If she's fine, with a really nice azz

if the baby daddy is out of the picture, that means you pick up the slack. You dont want that. Now shes asking you to buy her son a hoverboard scooter or some Jordans.

 

[MalikReloaded]

I don't know how yall nikkas do it Just the thought got my blood pressure rising Some little ungrateful b*stard talking about you ain't his daddy eventhough he in your house, eating your food, laying up, wanting you to take care of them like you they daddy, find your real daddy then nikka your chick acting like you out of line for checking those disrespectful kids cuz they not yours even though they living up in your house. NEVER. NEVER!!!!

 

[pickles]

Not sure why some people think the author is bitter.

Wifing a single mom is the biggest L one can take especially in recent times.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I bet cats would change their mind if the woman was making 6 figures and was a sugar mama to them.

 

[Quiet Magician]

Easy p*ssy but terrible long term relationship material. Author is on point.

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

This.


Two parent households for 2016!
Having kids when your married for 2016!

Not to negate single parents and those who's fathers left them either if they passed or they ran...but its timw to being traditional values back to the black community but there needs to be a focus on building strong family units either with single parent households or two parent households. period.

And that means both men and women need to stand up. It takes two to tango and it takes a village to raise a child.

(In Bryant Gumble voice).

What's with you nikkas and trying to get everyone to get married? It ain't just a black thing, this new generation all together has decided marriage isn't necessary anymore.

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

I bet cats would change their mind if the woman was making 6 figures and was a sugar mama to them.

Duhhh. I would be getting something out of it and i don't have to provide for shyt!

 

[ultraflexed]

if the baby daddy is out of the picture, that means you pick up the slack. You dont want that. Now shes asking you to buy her son a hoverboard scooter or some Jordans.

Wrong, before we got married, she never asked me to but anything for her daughter, not even once.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

For me single moms are only for sex...

I had one hit me up online but

Broad talking about relationship and shyt. Mentally i'm too fukked up to barely be ina relationship with a women...add a kid that ISN'T mine into the mix?

Shame because she fine as fukk

The emotions for the nikka who first bust in her rawdog and gave her a baby will always be there unless he straight up dogged her or in jail...and even then I still wouldn't trust it. Being a single mom tells me she made a shytty ass decision to have a kid with a nikka she ain't even know probably more than 6 months

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Duhhh. I would be getting something out of it and i don't have to provide for shyt!

See

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Damn the vitriol for single mothers on this thread . Single mothers are still women to bruh. Would I marry one? Probably not; unless she's too good to pass up on. But yah Nikkas going in.

Shoutout to all you single mothers and fathers. good luck to you man!

 

[ZoeGod]

I wouldnt date a single mom. Maybe smash but that is about it.