AN ESSAY: WHY REAL MEN AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS

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I got into a shootout with an ex's baby daddy back in the early 00's when I drove her to pick up her kid from her ex's place.

She goes in the house, you can hear them arguing... and then all of the sudden this dude comes out on the porch flashing a pistol, waving it around and shyt..talking about "you ain't taking my kid!"..this nikka is beyond hysterical.:cosbysmoke:

Back then, before I mellowed out, I kept a 38. revolver on my person at all times and a 9mm tucked in the glovebox...as soon as he came out flashin and threatening, it really pretty much went all downhill from there.:snoop:
Have shootouts over thots, brehs :snoop:
 
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How is this the white man fault :jbhmm:
the white man is telling black woman to deal with these dudes?
the white man is telling black people not to get married?
so section 8 and other programs should stop so these women can be in even worst poverty
stop it B
I will always blame a man before I will blame a female
Its both there fault equally but I feel men are suppose to lead

The white man is in charge of government. Look at most state senators. What are they? White.

Congress = White

Congress = In charge of Welfare benefits

Who owns the media? Whites and Jews (definitely not Blacks)

The subliminal messaging tells young teenage girls to go for swag and not stability.

You have a lot to learn brother. Men can't lead if they aren't chosen by followers. People choose to follow at the end of the day and the Black woman has chosen not to follow the Black Man.

There are 10 Women lined up to give my deadbeat Uncle food, clothing and housing everything he needs.

My Father is single but because they cannot control him they are not interested in him long term. They need a baby boy nikka that won't take accountability for his life or actions. My Uncle is damn near 50 years old and has never held a stable job in his life.

They need a weak deadbeat nikka to pay them attention all day long because he doesn't have a career or life journey.

You are lost in the wilderness and need to open your eyes to the system around you. Good luck if you think our current predicament is 100% due to the Black Man still.
 

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The white man is in charge of government. Look at most state senators. What are they? White.

Congress = White

Congress = In charge of Welfare benefits

Who owns the media? Whites and Jews (definitely not Blacks)

The subliminal messaging tells young teenage girls to go for swag and not stability.

You have a lot to learn brother. Men can't lead if they aren't chosen by followers. People choose to follow at the end of the day and the Black woman has chosen not to follow the Black Man.

There are 10 Women lined up to give my deadbeat Uncle food, clothing and housing everything he needs.

My Father is single but because they cannot control him they are not interested in him long term. They need a baby boy nikka that won't take accountability for his life or actions. My Uncle is damn near 50 years old and has never held a stable job in his life.

They need a weak deadbeat nikka to pay them attention all day long because he doesn't have a career or life journey.

You are lost in the wilderness and need to open your eyes to the system around you. Good luck if you think our current predicament is 100% due to the Black Man still.
stop I feel sorry for you
Nyggas gotta stop blaming the government for this shyt
Some issues stem from past institutional racism
But the government is not actively tryna create this
Few black men are leading most nyggas just complain
Any nygga talking bout women don't wanna follow ain't a leader
The problem is them bum bytches will follow any nygga
 

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I don't agree all single mothers are like this. I dated a few and it was ok. But I avoid them because of the drama with the kids or baby daddy. Now that I'm older I would only entertain it if the kid is like almost out of high school and definitely going to college away from home.

But do agree in current days that I can see what dude is talking about with the entitlement. Some single mothers are delusional. You can't call the shots when you have baggage. :yeshrug:
 

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Be a grown man over 35 and go about meeting women with this in the back of your head,this is all kinds of nonsense and as a child of a single mother disrespectful to mothers doing their best to raise kids and pursue some sort of happiness:stopitslime:.Dude has been on the greased side of a pole,thats obvious..of course there are women that fit his description but that says more about what a man will put up with for some ass and his people skills than the single mothers he chooses to date.If you dictate where your involvement stops when dealing with her kid(s) and/or BD i dont see how she can cause drama in your life.You annoy me with the bullshyt in any way shape or form and it's back to single mommy status.:camby:.
 
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stop I feel sorry for you
Nyggas gotta stop blaming the government for this shyt
Some issues stem from past institutional racism
But the government is not actively tryna create this
Few black men are leading most nyggas just complain
Any nygga talking bout women don't wanna follow ain't a leader
The problem is them bum bytches will follow any nygga

Right and the prison system is not actively trying to grow and work hand-in-hand with the judicial system to imprison young black boys (and the baby nikka ass men they become because they had no daddy) and continue the cycle of dysfunction and poverty. :rudy:

I probably lean more towards the right in terms of politics and I still think there is an active agenda against us - So you're living in a dream world. Again good luck to you. :mjpls:
 
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I always see these women on online dating sites saying the same "I have a son/daughter. He/she is my world. You have to handle that to be with me"

My response :camby:

"There are no Men available"

WHO SINGLE BABY MOMMAS WANT:

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Who will accept them (as-is):

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if the baby daddy is out of the picture, that means you pick up the slack. You dont want that. Now shes asking you to buy her son a hoverboard scooter or some Jordans.
I guess you missed the point where he said she has a good job and does not need you for income. There are some out there. Of course there are more bum ones of course
 

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I just got out of a relationship with a single mom, I can definitely see some of the points on the OP lists. A lot of it can wear on you overtime, especially having to deal with the ex/kids father and the problems they create that can affect your relationship. Going forward better decisions will be made from lessons learned.
 
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