Thurgood Thurston III
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This is all facts.
And They Say Men Don't Chase No More
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This is all facts.
Give us the pitch line by line. School us, man.
Are you asking me?
Thurgood Thurston III
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Nah I was asking the guy I quoted but if you got some game to share I'm all ears.
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
15 years ago you didn't have women pulling out their phones to record you tryna talk to them.Most women don't let you know they're choosing, especially "dimes."
They won't put themselves out there, but they notice you and are waiting for you to approach them so they can see what you're about.
I'm old school.
When I was coming up, my OGs constantly preached "a closed mouth don't get fed."
I've never been the cat calling type, but if I was in a bar, book store, grocery store, whatever, and I saw something I liked, I would most definitely strike up a convo, because I know if I didn't, I would beat myself up on some "what if?" shyt..
I've been off the scene for 15 years though..
I don't know what y'all youngins is on.
But I still constantly run across women daily, that I know are choosing, and are waiting to see if and how I approach them.
I just give a smile, might even compliment their shoes/bag/accessory and give light conversation if they're bad enough, then I kick myself for being a square ass lame, and go home to my wife.
I'm not even gunna rule out him doing too much with his approach, he very well could have, but this type of shyt is just one example of why alot of dudes today don't approach.
Women today live to pull out their phone and create a moment.
Most women don't let you know they're choosing, especially "dimes."
They won't put themselves out there, but they notice you and are waiting for you to approach them so they can see what you're about.
I'm old school.
When I was coming up, my OGs constantly preached "a closed mouth don't get fed."
I've never been the cat calling type, but if I was in a bar, book store, grocery store, whatever, and I saw something I liked, I would most definitely strike up a convo, because I know if I didn't, I would beat myself up on some "what if?" shyt..
I've been off the scene for 15 years though..
I don't know what y'all youngins is on.
But I still constantly run across women daily, that I know are choosing, and are waiting to see if and how I approach them.
I just give a smile, might even compliment their shoes/bag/accessory and give light conversation if they're bad enough, then I kick myself for being a square ass lame, and go home to my wife.
This is patently false
Women definitely choose
When did I say women don't choose?
They're choosing 24/7.
What I said was, when women are choosing, it's not as obvious as when a nikka is on the hunt, and you might not know unless you take a chance.
You can wait to be obviously chose, which won't happen when dealing with "dimes", or any woman close to being a "dime."
Or you can shoot your shot, and let shyt play how it's gone to play.
Either way, you won't be stuck with that "what if" feeling, you get over that scared feeling of rejection, and you just might talk yourself into some shyt that you might have passed over if you're p*ssy.
Amor fati
Superstar
Yep they still chase, there are still men that have a set inbetween their legs in the western world usally it's the old school type of cats or American, West African, West indies and south America brehs. Though this an example of how not to chase, she said "no" or shows no interest then fukking bounce and go somewhere and have some self respect dammit.
Amor fati
Superstar
I guess Duke is the online dating type or dates women from work. I keep hearing dudes say get choose but average Joe ain't getting chosen regardless if he hits the gym or is receiving good pay.
UpAndComing
Veteran
I'm a cold approach type of dude 
The key to success is to have a distinct style. If you don't, a woman is gonna see right through that and think you a buster. My style is charming/adorable and it works well for me
The letting her "choose you" as an excuse to not cold approach makes no sense to me. She doesn't even stop "choosing you". She is constantly choosing and questioning if she wants to fukk you or be with you in a relationship. It just doesn't end the first moment you see her. You didn't win anything that first encounter, the games has just begun
The key to success is to have a distinct style. If you don't, a woman is gonna see right through that and think you a buster. My style is charming/adorable and it works well for me
The letting her "choose you" as an excuse to not cold approach makes no sense to me. She doesn't even stop "choosing you". She is constantly choosing and questioning if she wants to fukk you or be with you in a relationship. It just doesn't end the first moment you see her. You didn't win anything that first encounter, the games has just begun
Hit the gym, stay clean cut, get money and let the bytches choose. All that cold approaching shyt is done
All that "Yo fam she just looked at me, lemme go talk to her"
it's a wrap for that in 2020 cause this video in the OP is the result
A bunch of gassed up bytches who using you for validation.
If a bytch want you she's gonna choose you.
Facts
I agree with you except if you implying that looks is the only thing that makes the product good
Looks is important no doubt but there's emotions too, I approach and give this women emotions without even getting sexual or looking good and they want me everytime
The looks thing is cool but some man use it as a defense mechanism, once the product is good you shouldn't be scared to approach
In sales go like this, just apliy it to womenGive us the pitch line by line. School us, man.
1-presentation where you say hi and how are you
2- short story you say why you talking to her what you want
3-product in hand in sales you put the product in the person hand and make her see it in seduction you do this with something that you dressing or with a light joke, basically give a lil sample of what you good at
4- invite her to go to some place with you right now, make her make a decision right now and quickly
5- if she gives a decisive no don't waste your time, bounce imidiatly and find another one
This mixed with a smile eye contact good communication skills body language and a good image is a killer in sales and in the seduction game
With practice you understand that is a number games and within 10 seconds of approaching you know if the women is feeling you or nah
Kenny West
Veteran
Basement dweller advice
Let me throw my 2 cents in.
Cold approaching worked in the 90's and early 00's because fine ass Tanesha from the block wasn't getting dm'd by nikkaz from the four corners of the planet.
That means if she wanted attention she had to go to the mall and choose from one of the guys brave enough to holla. It meant Derrick from the block actually had a chance to get her attention and possibly a date.
Women want the best of the best and now with endless options from endless thirsty internet men she's gonna "wait it out# and see what better comes along. In the meantime she's gonna take your holla as an ego boost and continue to inflate her self worth while she waits for mr perfect. How does it feel to be nothing more than an ego boost?
Cold approaching worked in the 90's and early 00's because fine ass Tanesha from the block wasn't getting dm'd by nikkaz from the four corners of the planet.
That means if she wanted attention she had to go to the mall and choose from one of the guys brave enough to holla. It meant Derrick from the block actually had a chance to get her attention and possibly a date.
Women want the best of the best and now with endless options from endless thirsty internet men she's gonna "wait it out# and see what better comes along. In the meantime she's gonna take your holla as an ego boost and continue to inflate her self worth while she waits for mr perfect. How does it feel to be nothing more than an ego boost?