And They Say Men Don't Chase No More

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Where are the coli cold approach advocates?
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I'm no cold approach advocate but stalking is not cold approaching.
 

SnowflakesByTheOZ

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Again this is not true

I give the example of my uncle he's a tall version of unkasa looks wise and he always with bad youg girls cause he's loud and funny(emotions)

I will never agree with you looks obsessed dudes cause I have seen different with my own eyes
:snoop: I swear his topic is getting played out. Breh Just because YOU think a male is unattractive doesn't mean he is to other people. Attractiveness is subjective okay. That means everyone will have their own unique view. The women obviously are physically attracted to your uncle whether you think he looks like Unkasa or not. He's not pulling them because he's loud and funny, just think about how ridiculous that sounds. If that was the case every nikka would be loud and funny and fukking bad bytches and live happily ever after.
Dre from Power looks weird as fukk to me but go take a look in that nikkas's IG comments and you'll see women thirsting over him. So dead that shyt b.
 

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15 years ago you didn't have women pulling out their phones to record you tryna talk to them.

I'm not even gunna rule out him doing too much with his approach, he very well could have, but this type of shyt is just one example of why alot of dudes today don't approach.

Women today live to pull out their phone and create a moment.

I think y'all got this overblown. They only pulling out their phones on thirsty simps who don't know how to take no for an answer. Cold approach brehs from what I see are all about clean appearance, being respectful, and taking rejection well.

A woman wouldn't have a reason to pull her phone out on me because I'm not some thirsty simp
 

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I do this thing where I mind my business and let them come to me :ohhh:. I'm not some 18 year old kid in the mall/club hounding every bytch that I see.

This doesn't work for average looking and below average looking guys though, so what is you saying? Make an online account and hope you get some matches from broads who will either delete you or flake on the 1st date?

I'm just thinking about becoming a Monk at this point:mjlol: or I can not give a fukk and cold approach:mjlit:
 

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This doesn't work for average looking and below average looking guys though, so what is you saying? Make an online account and hope you get some matches from broads who will either delete you or flake on the 1st date?

I'm just thinking about becoming a Monk at this point:mjlol: or I can not give a fukk and cold approach:mjlit:
Or you can make yourself above average by hitting the gym, taking care of your skin, getting your haircut and introducing other frequent hygeninc practices :gucci:

But nikkas don't wanna hear that. They don't want that truth, cause truth is majority of males don't wanna put the effort in. Make yourself a prize and eat, its that simple.
 

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Most women don't let you know they're choosing, especially "dimes."

They won't put themselves out there, but they notice you and are waiting for you to approach them so they can see what you're about.

I'm old school.

When I was coming up, my OGs constantly preached "a closed mouth don't get fed."

I've never been the cat calling type, but if I was in a bar, book store, grocery store, whatever, and I saw something I liked, I would most definitely strike up a convo, because I know if I didn't, I would beat myself up on some "what if?" shyt..

I've been off the scene for 15 years though..

I don't know what y'all youngins is on.

But I still constantly run across women daily, that I know are choosing, and are waiting to see if and how I approach them.

I just give a smile, might even compliment their shoes/bag/accessory and give light conversation if they're bad enough, then I kick myself for being a square ass lame, and go home to my wife. :francis::mjlol:

:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol: @ these ducktales. Pusha T fukked yo bytch back in the day and you been bitter at him about it ever since :russ:
 

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I'm a cold approach type of dude :yeshrug:


The key to success is to have a distinct style. If you don't, a woman is gonna see right through that and think you a buster. My style is charming/adorable and it works well for me

The letting her "choose you" as an excuse to not cold approach makes no sense to me. She doesn't even stop "choosing you". She is constantly choosing and questioning if she wants to fukk you or be with you in a relationship. It just doesn't end the first moment you see her. You didn't win anything that first encounter, the games has just begun :mjlol:

100% facts once you get the number the games begin, even getting the number doesn't mean you sealed the deal:russ:

Dudes with the lack of social skills, that wait for her to choose will struggle with this.
 

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I'm a cold approach type of dude :yeshrug:


The key to success is to have a distinct style. If you don't, a woman is gonna see right through that and think you a buster. My style is charming/adorable and it works well for me

The letting her "choose you" as an excuse to not cold approach makes no sense to me. She doesn't even stop "choosing you". She is constantly choosing and questioning if she wants to fukk you or be with you in a relationship. It just doesn't end the first moment you see her. You didn't win anything that first encounter, the games has just begun :mjlol:
And a little humor. Them guards they have up come right down...
 

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I think y'all got this overblown. They only pulling out their phones on thirsty simps who don't know how to take no for an answer. Cold approach brehs from what I see are all about clean appearance, being respectful, and taking rejection well.

A woman wouldn't have a reason to pull her phone out on me because I'm not some thirsty simp

Exactly that shyt ain't ever happend to me I only had one bytch act childish with me I complimented her which she liked but then when I asked for her name she was like "You DON'T NEED TO KNOW MY NAME" in an aggressive tone, I gave her a sarcastic response and went my own way.
 

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The shyt you have to "accomplish" just to get that "dime" in America, especially for a black man is fukking ridiculous. Straight bush status.

Good on that nonsense.
 
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