International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Do you switch things up when dating shy women? Do you take things a bit more slow?
Any advice on dealing with shy women?
- Thread starter International Playa
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Take things slower 
Dude, the shy ones be the biggest freaks
Dude, the shy ones be the biggest freaks
Smash em right 
BmoreGorilla
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Klaus Schwab
Technocrat AKA Dr. Cocteau
Leave them alone you creep.
Bunchy Carter
I'll Take The Money Over The Honey
Just put a molly in her drink...she ain't even know it
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Take it slow. Also means you’d have to lead more for her to come out of her shell. Any minuscule thing she does to come out her shell, gas her up for it. Makes her feel safe with you.
Analyze if this is truly a woman you want to work with, as “shy” to me could also mean no matter what you do, it’s simply you as a whole she’s shy with. Could be bold with another man she wants to be bold with.
Analyze if this is truly a woman you want to work with, as “shy” to me could also mean no matter what you do, it’s simply you as a whole she’s shy with. Could be bold with another man she wants to be bold with.
Be aggressive. Not creepy or rapey. Like when you pick her up, have ur dikk out before she gets in the car, n don't say anything about it. Or when ur talking to her, without saying anything sexual, just randomly reach out n pinch her nipple.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
You start off firm but slow.
Been seeing this Japanese chick since last summer who was really shy. I was content to move slowly with her at first, as I had other women on the roster but then you gotta take the lead. Respectfully.
Now she's a bit more open, she'll initiate hugging and kissing me and being affectionate. She doesn't like PDA except for holding hands and sexually she still never initiates it or vocally says she's horny, but once we get started then she really warms up.
Been seeing this Japanese chick since last summer who was really shy. I was content to move slowly with her at first, as I had other women on the roster but then you gotta take the lead. Respectfully.
Now she's a bit more open, she'll initiate hugging and kissing me and being affectionate. She doesn't like PDA except for holding hands and sexually she still never initiates it or vocally says she's horny, but once we get started then she really warms up.
Do what you want...don't seek her approval.
"How would you feel about Chinese for dinner?
None of that
You have a plan so execute.
Don't ask her favorite sex position..PUT her in YOUR favorite position...
"How would you feel about Chinese for dinner?
None of that
You have a plan so execute.
Don't ask her favorite sex position..PUT her in YOUR favorite position...
Eh. The only danger here is that making something she does that's generally out of her nature 'notable' could scare her back into her shell, making her reticent to do it again.
The best advice I can give is to give her time and space to open up on her own. Patience is key.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
I understand that perspective. She could doubt if what you’re hyping her up is really even her.
Where I was coming from was positive re-enforcement. She thinks she looks bad in hats but wearing the hat you bought her? “I see you popped out with the Braves cap I got you. Love how it matches your outfit” — she feels good/confident in stepping out because the compliment. Ignoring or brushing it off may lead to doubt or her insecurities growing inside.
All depends on the woman, so I should of considered your point.