Take it slow. Also means you’d have to lead more for her to come out of her shell. Any minuscule thing she does to come out her shell, gas her up for it. Makes her feel safe with you.
Analyze if this is truly a woman you want to work with, as “shy” to me could also mean no matter what you do, it’s simply you as a whole she’s shy with. Could be bold with another man she wants to be bold with.
This is it....I agree with everything but the taking it slow part (if she's 22 and older....typically after underg ain't no such thing as taking it SLOW)