The Holidays are overrated. Nothing but false doctrines, europeanized, paganistic, ritualistic, and corporate influenced. I don't "celebrate" any of it, once I started learning the true origins. Loneliness is a state of mind. We don't need whitewashed mass produced traditions to be family-oriented. If I'm not on speaking terms with family, there's a reason for it.
If you're letting "holidays" affect your emotional state, I don't know what to tell you. Not letting 2 days out the year affect the 363 other days, especially when there's no relevant significance bc it's not historically or spiritually accurate.