Any dude that says he is happy in a relationship a straight liar

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Relationships are like business cycles, they are up and they are down. What you have to consider for yourself is whether the good outweighs the bad. For me, it does. That being the case, over the aggregate time we have been married I have found myself happy about my marriage far more than being unhappy. So if asked, I would state that I am happy in my relationship even if at the time I may be on one of those down turns.

So really, I judge my relationship based on how it has been going overall instead of how it is going at the moment. Only a few things can change that manner of judgement for me, and those things are actions that cross a line that I am unwilling to accept (like infidelity).
 

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Women will never admit it but they like nikkas who can flip a bunch of hoes. It gets their pheromones goin.
thats complete bullchit and I've lost some good fukkin women because of this nonsense

women have an ick for men with high body counts same way us men have for them
 

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Women lowkey dont even respect nikkas who are too relationship prone. This is coming from a nikka who has been in half a decade long relationship.


My ex was cool she kept it real with a nikka. But it gets boring for both parties over time. Especially if yo chick feel you cant go out in the field and hunt and get it poppin again.

Women will never admit it but they like nikkas who can flip a bunch of hoes. It gets their pheromones goin.

This clip been going viral today





Literally what I was talking about. I think imma make this a whole other thread.
 
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I’d rather be in a relationship and build with a woman I trust and that has my back.

I’m all for having fun and getting certain shyt out of your system, but I’m not 25 years old anymore and casual sex doesn’t make me walk away feeling fulfilled like that so I found something more meaningful.

Busting down randoms loses its appeal as you get older. You might occasionally get that urge here and there, but you start wanting something more lasting than a busted nut passing in the night.
It’s really that simple
Then you start seeing all of the benefits of having a partner and you never want to go back to that old life

I can admit marriage isn’t for everyone but why can’t those people just admit they are selfish loners that don’t want or like to be around people all the time? I’ve been around “good girls” and I’ve been around strippers and “hoes”. Even the freakiest women want stability.

I also don’t think people should be having kids with someone they don’t live with. Raising kids solo is not in the best interest of the child.
 
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Acting like he's lying is why dudes like him become angry. Cuz y'all straight up act like everything he says has no ounce of truth
Instead of hiding in the reps talking shyt like the bytch you are say that shyt with your whole chest in public you fukking loser.
 

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I’d rather be in a relationship and build with a woman I trust and that has my back.

I’m all for having fun and getting certain shyt out of your system, but I’m not 25 years old anymore and casual sex doesn’t make me walk away feeling fulfilled like that so I found something more meaningful.

Busting down randoms loses its appeal as you get older. You might occasionally get that urge here and there, but you start wanting something more lasting than a busted nut passing in the night.

Careful, some lonely weirdo might call you gay or a pandering simp for wanting a relationship or craving monogamy and mutual intimacy
 
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