Any tips on how to deal with a lazy woman?

[the artist known az]

You said she went to school right, did she finish? what was her degree in?

I know you said you are not the arguing type, I'm the same way but you need to sit her down and straight up tell her she damn near 30 & we in bad economic times so aint no time for her to "wait for the right job" and she needs to pull her own weight or you can put it as we are supposed to be a team & need to work together. Does she have any aspirations?

Encourage her to look for work from home jobs at least. If you want her to cook maybe you should try to watch food network with her & be like "we should try to make some of these dishes" on some bonding shyt. That way you BOTH learn how to cook and maybe she'll learn to like cooking.

The cleaning you can ask her to help you out. The key is by both of you participating maybe that help y'all grow closer and maybe she'll grow up.

I know you don't wanna hear this part but dog, you in your mid 20s no kids...you gotta ask yourself do you really wanna hang around this type of situation & you add kids in the mix then you start to hate her guts when you turn ?

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

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[Soundbwoy]

baby steps get her interested in finding a field she can have a career in, start watching those gordon ramsey cooking show,split the chores if its still not working then go your separate ways while you aint got kids

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

lazy in general means your not ambitious and I cannot build with you while you watching on the sidelines. We have to be able to build together. I couldn't tolerate a lazy woman. Sorry homie.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Only advice I can give you is just go head and take that L breh. Get a divorce and move on with your life. She don't got kids by you and you're only 26. Worst comes to worst she'll get a couple dollars outta you, but you'll have your freedom and happiness.

And why the fukk would you marry a lazy broad? My gf has appendicitis right now, and she still cooking and cleaning

You answered your own question. Everything is sweet when you're dating, but women (and men) get comfortable when the rings go on so they'll hit you with stuff they didn't used to during the dating days. No disrespect, but you can't really understand the perspective of the OP if he's been married and living with his chick for 5 years and you're just dating your chick. I do agree with your advice though.

It took me some bumps in the road but I learned you gotta pimp even harder after you get married. Once she thinks she "figured you out" she'll try you and tack on more bullshyt. And one of two things will happen. Either she'll take your balls, or you'll stay fly and dictate the course of the relationship, all the while remaining sexy in her eyes and keeping things fresh and her in her place.

 

[#1 pick]

You didn't create it but you definitely harbored it.

 

[andre patton]

would you ever consider laying hands on her?

 

[True Blue Moon]

You didn't create it but you definitely harbored it.

This.

Women naturally follow or will take advantage when given the chance. It's your fault. As sexist as it might sound, it's like when a parent doesn't raise their kid right or instill discipline.

Go on YouTube and search "The Black Phillip Show" and listen to all the episodes so you can

 

[patscorpio]

subs to read this later

 

[Strapped]

Delete

 

[Steve Piffler]

why would I do that, we was young and in love, fukk a counselor, but maybe now its not a bad idea, I wish I was born in the 60's or 70's when black women knew how to act...their evolution has been wack

WHEN YOU'RE YOUNG AND IN LOVE / RALPH CARTER - YouTube

ol michael evans lookin ass....

 

[HookersandIceCream]

at all these people telling him to get marriage counseling

 

[PrnzHakeem]

People telling you to leave because you're letting her waste the only thing you can't get back: your time.

You probably gonna get her pregnant, and realize you have a wife who won't cook for her children, clean up after her children, and is unwilling to stick with a job. One day you will come home to a dirty ass house, dirty kids crying their eyes out cuz they hungry and it will dawn on you that you are stuck. You will warm up some hot pockets and chicken nuggets for your kids for dinner and realize cholesterol, hypertension, high blood pressure, and diabetes are the legacy you gonna leave for them.

Good job, good effort.

I'm married by the way, and I never would've married that broad if she didnt know how to cook or clean. Jokes on you buddy.

 

[Rawtid]

People telling you to leave because you're letting her waste the only thing you can't get back: your time.

You probably gonna get her pregnant, and realize you have a wife who won't cook for her children, clean up after her children, and is unwilling to stick with a job. One day you will come home to a dirty ass house, dirty kids crying their eyes out cuz they hungry and it will dawn on you that you are stuck. You will warm up some hot pockets and chicken nuggets for your kids for dinner and realize cholesterol, hypertension, high blood pressure, and diabetes are the legacy you gonna leave for them.

Good job, good effort.

I'm married by the way, and I never would've married that broad if she didnt know how to cook or clean. Jokes on you buddy.

You should tell him how you REALLY feel.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

You should tell him how you REALLY feel.

He's all up in here like "Hey guys, it's not that serious. I feel like I just need to talk to her and things will get better."


Well why didn't you try that first before coming here?

This always happens, niccaz always think they gonna beat the odds. Like when we told Ammo to stop raw dogging that underage blackplanet chick.