Anybody accepted that their future wife will be a whore yet? I have a solution

[RandomDudeOnColi]

What the hell happened to u during your childhood?

 

[bennyfein]

Facebook/social media makes it is easy to tell whether a girl is a hoe or not......

 

[Phitz]

You guys can't have it both ways. You CAN NOT expect a virgin to have the experience you want then get upset at the woman with experience has been in the dirt. You gotta sacrifice some things.

Anyway OP speak for yourself. I have no problem dating grown women who live with their parents at 27 and have to sneak out to meet me for coffee or chat on the phone. Their culture has kept them limited and homebodies. Yeah I can't hit it after 1 week or 1 year, but I'm not complaining. I can appreciate the company and potential wife characteristics. YOu can't have it all. Deal with it.

 

[Crakface]

Me personally, I like to condition my mind to accept the worst case scenario before it happens. So I don't feel pressure to try to control the uncontrollable.

Alright, so woman run amok and look out for self....we know that. Woman fukk whomever, whenever...we know that. Woman upgrade constantly...We know that...

Which is fine, instead of getting mad at them, maybe there's a compromise somewhere...U gotta accept u can't control them. There's no mystical unicorn female out there so , so what's the solution? Besides becoming a monk?

Most of us men that are unmarried are probably going to end up with women with very dark past. Aka a whore or ex whore. I train my mind to understand that she might've been involved in the darkest scenarios possible.

Alot of our woman lived through the 'turn up' era, so yes she probably did some sick shyt like for getting trains ran on her, fukking other bytches, eating p*ssy, eating men a$$holes for bag money, fukking old men with money, fukking and sucking 30 plus men, drinking cum, taking facials, getting creampies, having multiple abortions. Just real porno shyt

That's a very real possibility, so I try to make peace with it now and preemptively forgive her so that why I don't snap and kill her before I find out unexpectedly, after falling in love with a person whom I thought was this pure snowflake.

The solution is to find one that's honest and y'all can have a relationship based upon exchange, meaning... y'all can trade for the things that you're looking for.

Instead of lying about loving each other, which doesn't exist btw. If u think women love men then you're a fukking idiot. But instead of pretending to do the love thing, why not be honest draw up a agreement of the things you both bring to the table and make a contract for a relationship both parties can agree with?And outside of the contract y'all can just be friends. Because pressure will be gone.

Let me explain it better. Y'all have the contract so both parties can get the superficial shyt that they're looking for. Once that's out the way, y'all won't have to pretend...and y'all just can be friends now... because now that the contract is in place...there's not reason to hate each other, everybody is getting what they what. y'all won't have to live a lie and worry about heartbreak.

Last week you said you arent attracted to women


Now youre wasting valuable time writing essays about whores you havnt even met.

 

[DrX]

I don't get whats so crazy about this

all I'm saying is....y'all be honest and agree upon all the things that y'all want. then after their wont be any surprises, nobody get hurt

and now it opens up the door for a happy relationship....

whats crazy about that? I get i have the "crazy" stigma attached to me, and rightfully so....that's what being honest gets u in our society.....

but just hear me out...this thing can really work


All grounds are covered, it cant fail, because all the shyt that y'all both worry about is covered in the contract

 

[Gold]

IG has truly confused some of ya'll.
Women are empirically having less sex now than ever but ya'll think everyone is a whore
They literally fukkin robots in Japan

 

[DrX]

Last week you said you arent attracted to women


Now youre wasting valuable time writing essays about whores you havnt even met.

no i didnt, i said I wanted a relationship not based on sex...and said i wasnt looking for sex

u didnt even read

and thats why the contract idea makes sense....

because both parties can structure it to fit their unique needs

its just the ego that men have to drop

 

[DrX]

IG has truly confused some of ya'll.
Women are empirically having less sex now than ever but ya'll think everyone is a whore
They literally fukkin robots in Japan

bro its beyond just sex....it could be anything...maybe she believes in something that u hate....

thats why u be honest and make a contract...just lay it all out on the table...now yall can be happy and live in peace. travel together and live happily instead of trying to make something work thats clearly an illusion

we all going to be dead in another 40 -60 years so we might as well all be happy, so we need to come up with creative ways to have relationships with each other...and that old school shyt that our grandparents did is over with

really it makes sense, think about it

 

[outordinary]

You guys can't have it both ways. You CAN NOT expect a virgin to have the experience you want then get upset at the woman with experience has been in the dirt. You gotta sacrifice some things.

Anyway OP speak for yourself. I have no problem dating grown women who live with their parents at 27 and have to sneak out to meet me for coffee or chat on the phone. Their culture has kept them limited and homebodies. Yeah I can't hit it after 1 week or 1 year, but I'm not complaining. I can appreciate the company and potential wife characteristics. YOu can't have it all. Deal with it.

A few ladies in other countries I'm friends with are like this, its natural for them to live with their parents.

bro its beyond just sex....it could be anything...maybe she believes in something that u hate....

thats why u be honest and make a contract...just lay it all out on the table...now yall can be happy and live in peace. travel together and live happily instead of trying to make something work thats clearly an illusion

we all going to be dead in another 40 -60 years so we might as well all be happy, so we need to come up with creative ways to have relationships with each other...and that old school shyt that our grandparents did is over with

really it makes sense, think about it

Its always possible to find someone who doesn't care about your faults man. I mean, they may care a little but it might not bother them to the point that they will hate you because of it.

 

[DrX]

You guys can't have it both ways. You CAN NOT expect a virgin to have the experience you want then get upset at the woman with experience has been in the dirt. You gotta sacrifice some things.

Anyway OP speak for yourself. I have no problem dating grown women who live with their parents at 27 and have to sneak out to meet me for coffee or chat on the phone. Their culture has kept them limited and homebodies. Yeah I can't hit it after 1 week or 1 year, but I'm not complaining. I can appreciate the company and potential wife characteristics. YOu can't have it all. Deal with it.

huh? I didnt say she got to be a whore bro....im just saying, I think of the worst case scenario, because thats just me...I always accept the worst, that way Ill never get hurt

even with a homebody, youre still going to need the contract..

what if shes anxious to go through her ho phase once she figure a way out her parents house?

so instead of u thinking shes some perfect snowflake...u sit down with her, and ask her to tell the truth...and yall make an agreement on what yall want

and nobody gets hurt, everybody is happy...

 

[Ashley Banks]

 

[SirReginald]

Nope and never will admit defeat, so I'd wife a whore. I'mma get me a Black Jewish girl :kobepls:

 

[DrX]

the contract makes sense, no see...the problem is male ego...STOP TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING!!!!! u cant...just detach your from these fukking ideas society put in your head about EVERYTHING!...and then u can start living

lose your ego...yes woman like sex...fine...accept it and compromise with her...so u can get what u need and she can get what she needs...and we all can be friends again

I dont want to go through life hating woman....so I decided to think of a creativity way to like woman again...

its simple

we create a deal and be honest...now were both happy...

u just have to get over the ego part, which is hard...no man want another man fukking his woman BUT thats why u become detached and realize...SHES NOT YOUR WOMAN!...shes a stranger that happens to hang with you...she can be in and out of life at any given moment

she dont love u, she needs u for something...ok fine bea...im not mad at u...do your thing, Ill do mine...and lets be friends and enjoy life now

why is this crazy, its perfectly logic...think about it

@PeridotPuss what do u think? seem like a topic u would have good insight

 

[DrX]

Nope and never will admit defeat, so I'd wife a whore. I'mma get me a Black Jewish girl :kobepls:

see this is the problem with both men and women....you're looking for something that dont exist...u have an ideal spouse...but the problem is ...theres no ideal anything in life

that goes for careers, relationships, life general...nothing will ever be perfect...u just live and whatever happens , happens


but ppl want to control their world, and get upset when they cant....

 

[SirReginald]

see this is the problem with both men and women....you're looking for something that dont exist...u have an ideal spouse...but the problem is ...theres no ideal anything in life

that goes for careers, relationships, life general...nothing will ever be perfect...u just live and whatever happens , happens


but ppl want to control their world, and get upset when they cant....

See, I get where you're coming from. However, I don't want to accept just anybody. I made a thread discussing dudes having buyers remorse because they took anyone.