Elle Driver
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Hit up the African store, get some sage, and burn that shyt in yo home.
Anybody been through a break up that changed them? (Edit - recirculating exes ugh)
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After my engagement I wanted to go all the way over to the dark side.
I slipped over a bit for awhile. I was angry and on some "women and love aint shyt stuff for a min" I remember the turning point for me was sitting outside the strip club drunk with a cigar waiting on a chick that wanted to come back to my place.... I asked myself "what am I doing" called up my boy who had just left and went home.
From that point on I told myself I'll never ever let someone have so much power over me to change me and what I stood for again.
I snapped back slowly....kept family and people that actually cared about my well being close.
It's a bunch of ups and down...but don't let it turn you
I slipped over a bit for awhile. I was angry and on some "women and love aint shyt stuff for a min" I remember the turning point for me was sitting outside the strip club drunk with a cigar waiting on a chick that wanted to come back to my place.... I asked myself "what am I doing" called up my boy who had just left and went home.
From that point on I told myself I'll never ever let someone have so much power over me to change me and what I stood for again.
I snapped back slowly....kept family and people that actually cared about my well being close.
It's a bunch of ups and down...but don't let it turn you
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Bless't
Living the dream
Women do as well. Without fail, my exes hit me up at a later date. Whether it be a couple months or a year.
People should take that as a compliment. You made a lasting impression on them and they're trying to make amends.
Hear them out, stay strong, wish them luck then keep trudging forward.
Elle Driver
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It's easier said than done not to turnAfter my engagement I wanted to go all the way over to the dark side.
I slipped over a bit for awhile. I was angry and on some "women and love aint shyt stuff for a min" I remember the turning point for me was sitting outside the strip club drunk with a cigar waiting on a chick that wanted to come back to my place.... I asked myself "what am I doing" called up my boy who had just left and went home.
From that point on I told myself I'll never ever let someone have so much power over me to change me and what I stood for again.
I snapped back slowly....kept family and people that actually cared about my well being close.
It's a bunch of ups and down...but don't like it turn you
especially when you feel really hurt about it. In my opinion, men have a unique ability of being able to come back into a woman's life once she's completely happy and forgotten about him. It's crazy.Women do as well. Without fail, my exes hit me up at a later date. Whether it be a couple months or a year.
People should take that as a compliment. You made a lasting impression on them and they're trying to make amends.
Hear them out, stay strong, wish them luck then keep trudging forward.
on some let's get married shyt too
You already know how to handle that.
Ima hit you later
I been staying prayed up because that relationship had me like
Now im like never again, that sage will def help
Elle Driver
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Just pretend you not single (even if you are single) tell him you a baby muva now. He will leave you alone.I been staying prayed up because that relationship had me like
Now im like never again, that sage will def help
It's easier said than done not to turn
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I agree, I just didn't like the ideal that someone that had already broke a nikka heart also had that kind of power of me to change how I handled my dad to day and out look on women and love.
That's really the only thing that saved me, well that and friends and family being there for a nikka
Elle Driver
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How long did it take for you to realize?I agree, I just didn't like the ideal that someone that had already broke a nikka heart also had that kind of power of me to change how I handled my dad to day and out look on women and love.
That's really the only thing that saved me, well that and friends and family being there for a nikka
BmoreGorilla
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I was with a chick off and on from 16-22. I did her wrong so many times even had other girlfriends. One of which i got pregnant before senior of high school. She always took me back and held me down thru getting kicked off the college football team to picking me up from jail a few times to being there thru deaths. Finally she had enough and moved on. I fought for her for a year but had to give up. I dId her wrong so many times. I love my wife to death but I still think about her sometimes. Heard she's a doctor now too smh. I had to reflect on shyt for a minute and decided I could no longer treat people like shyt that care for me
We all have...
when dealing with women.
BmoreGorilla
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Too tired to think of something witty to say...
This is so crazy and a coincidence. After my ex and I broke up my best friend told me to cleanse my place with salt and pray. She is a big believer in people's energy has the ability to attach to you.
