Anybody else enjoy being alone?

[PCHMalibu]

I like the freedom of doing shxt on my own offers. However, brotha be wanting affection at times and it gets boring after a while, but I've learned that everybody got an agenda and most ppl are shxty... I believe in reincarnation, though so maybe in my next life I'll have a more positive outlook.

 

[Neuromancer]

Most of the time yeah.

 

[Kairi Irving]

It's also why there are so many unoriginal copycats out here. Trapstars, thugs, thots, all people feeling more comfortablw blending into a sea of clones who're afraid of being individuals.

The main the problem with everything is this, and if you don't want blend in with said monotonous, unoriginal crowd, you're labeled the "lame or weird person " for being yourself lol

 

[Ol’Otis]

but now I like the presence of someone around.

i seen her first

 

[Princess Coco]

When I'm alone I always want someone around. Then when i have someone around i wanna be alone...lifes hard

 

[I Really Mean It]

Were I to have the money, I'd buy a spot in a remote location surrounded by nothing more than trees, mountains, water and animals. If I had a woman with a similar state of mind, all the better. fukk this society. It's a wrap in its present form. shyt is running on fumes. When that engine breaks down,

 

[The Mad Titan]

i seen her first

You can come to the wedding

 

[Fandroid]

Anyone saying no is lying.

Dudes with 18,000 posts under 2 years saying everyone else is a lame.

 

[*Angel*]

I appreciate being alone bc I have no drama. The only drama I ever have is projected on to me from the attitudes and opinions of others. It feels good to come home and not have to be bothered with anyone. It also makes me hate going to work sometimes bc its the only consistent environment where I'm forced to deal with people and their annoyances.

This sorta spills over into the relationship aspect but not really. I've dated some cool guys and for each stage of my life the guys I dated taught me something about men and myself. I'm just not in a rush to "find" someone. I can wait on the right one for my next chapter. Life has taught me that the right one comes in their time.

I don't even fuk with my girls heavy bc I'm always working on some hobby or project. I can say that I'm content with myself but I don't want to be alone forever. It gets boring and people can bring change and new experiences, and I'm always down for some growth experiences.

I'd say enjoy your solitude but don't get jaded by it. Everything happens when its suppose to and as long as your living, your bound to meet and clique with someone eventually.

 

[King Poetic]

i have always been a loner even if i had a woman. it was never u moved in or i moved in type of shyt....

as a black man with a college degree, job, own house that is paid for and can wake up tomorrow and go anywhere in the world without no trouble is a blessing

plus the cost of a child nowadays from diapers, to baby food, medication, doctor visits is very costly especially u have a piece of shyt partner who expect u to pay for everything like that one bytch in the other thread.. you'll be working 60 hours just to kill yourself

 

[Vandelay]

I need connection and I need to recharge and reflect...literally 50/50 or I will be irritable.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Been alone most of my life.
It's the only thing I understand now...
Yeah, people want to spend time with me now.
But I don't have the urge anymore.
fukk em...I no longer need em.
Family,....friends...strangers...coworkers....it's all the same bs I don't need anymore.

 

[Booker T Garvey]

Nothing wrong with some 'me time' but you need to read Law 18 of the 48 Laws of Power:

Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself – Isolation is Dangerous

The world is dangerous and enemies are everywhere— everyone has to protect themselves. A fortress seems the safest. But isolation exposes you to more dangers than it protects you from—it cuts you off from valuable information, it makes you conspicuous and an easy target. Better to circulate among people, find allies and mingle. You are shielded from your enemies by the crowd.

Isolating yourself too much on some "fukk the world" shyt (not saying you OP but speaking in general) is just cutting off your nose to spite your face, more or less.

Yes, this is being a recluse or a hermit. The old man who lives in the big scary house on the hill type of shyt.

Nah. A lot of the people that shape our culture are loners, not weirdos just loners - think Steve jobs (RIP) or bill gates, rarely spotted in public even out with family.

My girl is the opposite of this, she loves going out and being among people, socializing n shyt can’t stand being alone.

 

[FlyGuy]

I need alone time to live

 

[fkthisgaysite]

"I dont give a fukk, i dont give a fukk, i dont give a fukk" - Young Dolph