Anybody else hate their wife’s/girlfriends’s friends?
- Thread starter CreepyMcCreeperson
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Fact. I'm a full time homemaker, never had an adult job... 20 odd yrs, we got together v young. You would be shocked how women come at me, even here. I've been asked all kinda weird questions, like, what would you do if... he lost his job? cheated? ran off?
Why is you wishing bad on my situation? Like, who does that? Contingencies is in place, damn, bytch. Just concern trolling for no reason.
Women are way more competitive than men … I think. A man doesn’t usually care if another man eats if he eats. Women from my observation usually only want their immediate family to eat. And some only want them to eat - alone by themselves.
HarlemHottie
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No, this is true. I don't even think it's immediate family bc you hear about so many moms sabotaging daughters. I think it's a queen bee syndrome.
When I tell women how I live, even if I'm just sharing as point of fact, they think I'm making larger statement. About them, their man, his earning power, etc. Tbh, it's less when women have a man. When they're single, they almost... wanna compete with my man? Like, who has the bigger dikk or something? Ie, when KS laid out the requirements of his definition of a hvm, including but not limited to 6 figs, bw all over the country broke they neck to tell us how much they made. I saw this in macro and in micro. Weird flex for women that expect to be wined and dined. I was confused by the whole thing.
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bourgeoisie tall freak
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HarlemHottie
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coming from someone who admits to not having real friends, i can see your pov
It's giving lack of business for me, sis. Why would you feel entitled to butt in on somebody else's relationship?
Just bc she shared some likely fleeting emotions with somebody who's supposed to be her friend? Just be quiet, mind your (rhet.) business, and talk about it on the phone later. This is not hard.
bourgeoisie tall freak
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meh.... except like i said the first time. you never know what was said that might make the friend take up for them. and trust me, i'm a chill type. i never "butt" into it, it always comes to me. i guess that's what it's like being an actual real friend
HarlemHottie
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And like I said the first time, that's none of your business. If she needs to flee dv, you provide a place, you don't amp the shyt and then take your happy ass home. If it's cheating, you also can't help.
So, please, tell me what domestic matter is ameliorated by the opinion of a biased outsider?
The friend dont/like respect you, and your wife is p*ssyMy wife’s friend came over today, and stayed for dinner. I was sitting on the couch while they were in the kitchen. The friend kept telling her what to put in the spaghetti sauce, and my wife kept telling her I don’t like it like that. The friend kept saying, “So? Why you gotta do what he wants?”
bytch, this is MY house, and my wife makes the food the way I like it. That’s what a woman is supposed to do.
Maybe this is why my wife has a husband, and her friend doesn’t.
bourgeoisie tall freak
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like i said, i'm a chill type so i never do nothing drama queenish.... i happen to know a ton of lawyers though. the move is usually give them a referral and let them go from there
might let them spend the night at my house. go have a drink with them or something like that.but the thing for me is i'm usually friends with the whole couple so if i was to happen to decide to play mediator, nobody takes offense to it lol. again, being a good friend is seems to be key to alleviating the hate that is being expressed itt
OP..
I'm with you 100℅! Your wife's friend was way outta pocket with her comment! She need to mind her MF business!
I hope that you have a convo with your wife and tell her that she may wanna have a nice chat with her friend and remind her friend when she is in your house to respect the one who pays the bills up in that MFer! Smh..
I haven't met any of my lady's friends yet, but I wouldn't put up with ANY disrespect in MY house! Bump that iish!
I'm with you 100℅! Your wife's friend was way outta pocket with her comment! She need to mind her MF business!
I hope that you have a convo with your wife and tell her that she may wanna have a nice chat with her friend and remind her friend when she is in your house to respect the one who pays the bills up in that MFer! Smh..
I haven't met any of my lady's friends yet, but I wouldn't put up with ANY disrespect in MY house! Bump that iish!
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HarlemHottie
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like i said, i'm a chill type so i never do nothing drama queenish.... i happen to know a ton of lawyers though. the move is usually give them a referral and let them go from there
but the thing for me is i'm usually friends with the whole couple so if i was to happen to decide to play mediator, nobody takes offense to it lol. again, being a good friend is seems to be key to alleviating the hate that is being expressed itt
To your earlier edit, I specified that I cut off my SINGLE friends, and for just this reason. Ain't no 'if I was to happen" in my house. That's crazy. I mean, I would even look at a childhood friend crazy for that shyt. Are you talking about married ppl?
bourgeoisie tall freak
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hey you do you and i do me, if we was all making the same moves, we would all lose
and i didn't @ you lol
HarlemHottie
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No, you commented on a discussion board and we discussing. That was really the most minimal push back, I hope you don't feel some type of way.
bourgeoisie tall freak
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That was really the most minimal push back, I hope you don't feel some type of way.
im good
just not gonna explain myself to someone who advocates for minding their own business. my friends are my business lol, not everybody is going to get that. but i seen a lot of threads on here about people not having real friends so it makes sense.