Anybody else hate their wife’s/girlfriends’s friends?

[HarlemHottie]

im good

Excellent.

 

[HarlemHottie]

just not gonna explain myself to someone who advocates for minding their own business. my friends are my business lol, not everybody is going to get that. but i seen a lot of threads on here about people not having real friends so it makes sense.

You keep editing your posts... what exactly does this mean? Are you literally paraphrasing my earlier post about if this man is "worth destroying our family"? You feel like the inner workings of their relationships are your business?

Please explain this to me. I'm not being funny, I really don't get it.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

Single friends keep friends single

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

You keep editing your posts... what exactly does this mean? Are you literally paraphrasing my earlier post about if this man is "worth destroying our family"? You feel like the inner workings of their relationships are your business?

Please explain this to me. I'm not being funny, I really don't get it.

that's why i said i didn't quote you.... insinuating i wasn't thinking too hard about your post. but i never really treated a so called friend like they were a "some female i passed the time with" whether they were single or not. i don't see what someone's status has to do with the morals of how you treat people you call "friends" in general. maybe you meant acquaintence? frenemies perhaps?
then what i meant by last post is it wasn't really taken as "push back" but more so... im going to "mind my business" of how i foster relationships instead of going back and fort and asking a million questions about a position someone doesn't agree with while they are advocating for folks to mind their business lol
we just have different ways i guess

 

[HarlemHottie]

that's why i said i didn't quote you.... insinuating i wasn't thinking too hard about your post. but i never really treated a so called friend like they were a placeholder or whatever until someone/something else came along, whether they were single or not. i don't see what someone's status has to do with the morals of how you treat people in general.
then what i meant by last post is it wasn't really taken as "push back" but more so... im going to "mind my business" of how i foster relationships instead of going back and fort and asking a million questions about a position someone doesn't agree with.... while advocating for folks to mind their business lol
we just have different ways i guess

No offense to you but its so frustrating when ppl do this. I asked a pretty straightforward question in an attempt to understand your perspective, bc its so foreign to me. You spent more time telling me why you wasn't gon tell me than it would have taken to actually just tell me.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

No offense to you but its so frustrating when ppl do this. I asked a pretty straightforward question in an attempt to understand your perspective, bc its so foreign to me. You spent more time telling me why you wasn't gon tell me than it would have taken to actually just tell me.

i don't even really know what you are asking tbh. so i just went to clarifying my own prior post in hopes that you would get it lol. hey we actually have something in common lol!

 

[HarlemHottie]

i don't even really know what you are asking tbh. so i just went to clarifying my own prior post in hopes that you would get it lol. hey we actually have something in common lol!

I was asking why you felt it was your place to "mediate" the relationships of your friends, should you see fit. Being that the thread is about exactly that type of friend, it's worth picking your brain to see why/ how thats appropriate? The only times I ever felt it was necessary to jump in was dv.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

I wish someone would tell my gf to change up how i like my spaghetti that’s she’s been making the way I like it



dumb bish. and keep ppl out of your relationships! a minor vent will have your bored and single friends telling your business all over town

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I was asking why you felt it was your place to "mediate" the relationships of your friends, should you see fit. Being that the thread is about exactly that type of friend, it's worth picking your brain to see why/ how thats appropriate? The only times I ever felt it was necessary to jump in was dv.

because they are my friends. i think that is self explanatory except we don't seem to view friends in the same light so how i treat a friend and how they come to me in need (even if it doesn't amount to be beat down to the ground) could be mind blowing to you. in that case, why waste the time?

anyway, i'm bored with this. and gotta sleep too lol. gnight

 

[Braman]

She shouldn't be there until dinner is ready to be served.

She's a guest not a roommate.

Society created formalities for a reason.

Nah this is a bar

The older I get I definitely realize a ton of lil things the older generation did/said is for a real reason

Another one being….married coupes should only be friends with other married couples

 

[rabbid]

lol... this bougie chick is such a bullshyt artist. how you know a "ton" of lawyers nikka... you probably a criminal. she ruins every thread she's in with her cap ass statements and mentally ill diatribes

anyway, i try to limit my interactions with them but ive never had it get as bad as hatred. they're usually just mildly annoying at best. most of the time they're gonna talk shyt behind closed doors as well.

would be nice to have a friendly relationship where we can laugh and have decent convos tho. I will say sometimes they are a reflection or extension of how she feels about you. so you have to treat them as such. if they're cold to you randomly usually it means she was complaining about something and they forgot to hide it.

 

[Braman]

This lil back n forth between the ladies ——one married one not—-shows why you supposed to distance from single friends if you’re married

I couldn’t imagine having a @bourgeoisie tall freak around my wife.

And it’s gonna become more and more of a thing bc black women are convinced they don’t need a family of their own they can be the ‘rich auntie’ and meddle in everybody else’s relationship.

 

[Astroslik]

My wife’s friend came over today, and stayed for dinner. I was sitting on the couch while they were in the kitchen. The friend kept telling her what to put in the spaghetti sauce, and my wife kept telling her I don’t like it like that. The friend kept saying, “So? Why you gotta do what he wants?”



bytch, this is MY house, and my wife makes the food the way I like it. That’s what a woman is supposed to do.

Maybe this is why my wife has a husband, and her friend doesn’t.

Shouldve told her this. Also your wife shouldnt have single non-widowed friends

 

[Astroslik]

Nah. If the bytch say the shyt loud enough for me to hear, then the bytch will get embarrassed. And im not even talking about getting loud and disrespectful. I will cut that bytch with the truth.

Facts

 

[It's been real]

Bitter singles stay single

I'd ban that hoe from your house, all she'll do is whisper poison into your wife's ear. Tell your wife that bytch needs to be gone. She's tryna put turmoil into your marriage fam.