Anybody else hate their wife’s/girlfriends’s friends?

[BigMoneyGrip]

My wife’s friend came over today, and stayed for dinner. I was sitting on the couch while they were in the kitchen. The friend kept telling her what to put in the spaghetti sauce, and my wife kept telling her I don’t like it like that. The friend kept saying, “So? Why you gotta do what he wants?”



bytch, this is MY house, and my wife makes the food the way I like it. That’s what a woman is supposed to do.

Maybe this is why my wife has a husband, and her friend doesn’t.

 

[sayyestothis]

Never heard of this. I've never met a friend of my wife thst doesn't have a spouse that would be at the get together?

Sounds like ur wife need to elevate her circle. At some point after marriage and kids you have like minded friends for BOTH of u.

Have fun with that tho breh.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I wish a bytch would try and undermine me, IN MY HOUSE! Wtf? First mistake was letting outsiders inside your domain. Only my family are allowed inside my house. I rarely let friends inside mine, let alone my spouses’.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

She coming to your house trying to tell your woman what to do...she testing your manhood....next time u need to knock her out.

Breh, I was reading the OP so enraged by that shyt. I would’ve dragged that bytch by her extensions and tossed her out on the street. No exaggeration.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

You’re an ivy league educated woman trying to understand the reasoning of a poster who legit might be on the spectrum. This is futile.

Thank you for saving me time. @HarlemHottie you’re above going back and forth with a poster who I’m sure is autistic.

They have a history of making incoherent thoughts, and then throwing a tantrum when called out.

And remember, you’re the one who is married whilst the other one who sees it fit to get involved in people’s business isn’t.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

So, please, tell me what domestic matter is ameliorated by the opinion of a biased outsider?

you made me google this word. repped.

 

[MajesticLion]

the remaining friends she has are cool. I probably see her friends more than she does because I kick it with their husbands.

Interconnectivity encourages stability

Sounds like ur wife need to elevate her circle.

!!!

 

[ThrobbingHood]

you made me google this word. repped.

I only know that word because of The Simpsons.

"Nothing can ameliorate the ineptitude of Principal Skinner."

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@HarlemHottie is one of the most educated/smartest people on here.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

I could never been in a relationship with someone whose friends I can't stand. I don't have to necessarily LIKE them, but at least be tolerable.

To me, her friend group is always a reflection of who she really is and I'm not going to pretend to like them and play nice. I've been in that situation before and it never works. They pick up that you hate their guts when you always ghost any get-togethers, especially involving couples.

Also, they'll go out of their way to poison your relationship.

 

[Still Benefited]

bruh, my exes sister and her friend always tried to give "relationship advice" when me and her had small disagreements. both single 30+ and one live at home with their parents.

that's like me asking a bum for financial advice.

single bytches try their best to add to the single pack.

S.I.S


S-atisfy
I-solate
S-ubjegate


These need to be the steps when dealing with a woman within white supremacy




Your going to have to protect your investment. Too many hellhounds who make it their job to ruin a happy home. Not to mention men who act as Trojan Horses,who lack respect and seek to divide for their own pleasure,or due to their homosexual nature.

 

[Piff Perkins]

I don't hate them, they range from being cool to "meh whatever." The thing that does annoy me is that they're all emotional and my gf will invite them over at the most random times to vent or cry. I've had cases where I learn one is coming over, and then boom it's 11PM and I got a dime or overweight woman in my living room crying about some man.

Usually I'll chill in the man cave during those times. One of her friends is a single mom nurse who has a super cool son. I love when she brings him over because we can go outside and hoop or throw a football while his mom is inside crying on my gf's shoulder lmao.

 

[LadyJ2]

Lol this post is very timely. I have a girlfriend who is getting divorced and has already moved on with 2-3 dudes; my husband can’t stand her ass.

I got a few months before I have to drop her permanently but I know I I have to. She wants me in the streets with her. Single women need all their friends to be single. Having a married girlfriend is a reminder they don’t want.

 

[UpNext]

Man hell yeah. I let it be known to all parties involved I don't fukk with any of her single friends and they're not allowed in this house. Her married friends are cool tho.

 

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[Still Benefited]

as someone who has wife friends (and even a few husband friends tbh) that are always complaining about the spouse, you can't always blame and try to "check" the friend because you never know what she is hearing that might make her take up for her friend like that

#dontcheckmecheckyobish

#oop!

What about awareness though? You dont think certain questions can make you an agitator? The spirit in which things are done and said is what matters. Many people are aloof to the fact that other people are being agitators,rather than genuine.


So I agree,its your job to make sure your woman(or man), has awareness about the things she says to outsiders. And that she has the awareness to know a agitator/serpant when she sees one. And if she does, she wont want to be around people who lack awareness,and refuse to correct themselves.



You also have to acknowledge the fact some people honestly dont know what they are doing. So the first question is have you ever adressed these people about throwing salt in your relationship? If not,thats very questionable like you said.


Not everybody needs to be casually cut off,just those who cant correct themselves,after you humbly request it. And some questions are actually genuine,and asked in a spirit of concern. Valuable questions,a man shouldnt be threatened by his woman being asked. I see nothing valuable in "Why you gotta make the spaghetti how he likes"