Anybody else hate their wife’s/girlfriends’s friends?

[Astroslik]

Lol this post is very timely. I have a girlfriend who is getting divorced and has already moved on with 2-3 dudes; my husband can’t stand her ass.

I got a few months before I have to drop her permanently but I know I I have to. She wants me in the streets with her. Single women need all their friends to be single. Having a married girlfriend is a reminder they don’t want.

She has no respect for your husband

 

[Koapa]

Dawg my ex chick homegirl would chime in on our relationship. I overheard the convo a couple of times. Bytch fixed her rat traps to say Dang he want to be a 9-5 Nikka the rest of his life. Mind you, my ex didn't know how much I made and I really like what I do for a living. My ex hated her job processing accounting checks which is not a career. Her friend cheated on her bf and got pregnant by another dude who was a piece of shyt. Her bf was a solid good dude and she didn't have a career either.

I broke up with my ex then I heard through the grapevine that they fell out because she told my ex that she fukked up a good relationship with me.

Stupid bytch.

 

[Ty Daniels]

Still Relevant!

 

[The God Poster]

If you think she was purposely being disrespectful bring it up to your wife.

*puts on coli tin hat*

It sounds like she was just fukking with you tho. Flirting…tryna wear your pants while you in them

 

[Dameon Farrow]

You aren't supposed to like them. If youdid you'd try to smash.

So glad I matured over the years. Jesus be restraint.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I don't hate them, they range from being cool to "meh whatever." The thing that does annoy me is that they're all emotional and my gf will invite them over at the most random times to vent or cry. I've had cases where I learn one is coming over, and then boom it's 11PM and I got a dime or overweight woman in my living room crying about some man.

Usually I'll chill in the man cave during those times. One of her friends is a single mom nurse who has a super cool son. I love when she brings him over because we can go outside and hoop or throw a football while his mom is inside crying on my gf's shoulder lmao.

i used to do that as well

Let them come over and gossip about men (usually all they did) and whatever nonsense I didnt care about

 

[O.T.I.S.]

She told the friend she cooks the food the way I like it, and that deaded the conversation. We talked about it after she left, and she will not be returning.

This woman is 41, with 2 baby daddies, and in the 2 years I’ve been with my wife, this woman has never showed up to any events with a man, and is always male bashing. We’ve gotten into it before, as well as some of the other husbands. She was there when I got home. I wasn’t going to kick her out, but had my wife mentioned it before she came, I wouldn’t have allowed her to come.

My wife has always been very accommodating from the beginning, and I want to keep it that way. I am not controlling, and let her have her way a lot of times, but for the most part, she caters to me. (Still talks back, but any woman with a spine will do that, so it’s fine.)

I think people missed this post

You handled it right and your lady seems to be on the same page with her.

 

[Rice N Beans]

I do, cause they're negative and miserable.

I reaffirm they're single for a reason.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I see nothing valuable in "Why you gotta make the spaghetti how he likes"

well the spaghetti incident was OPs topic, not really mine. i was speaking more generally toward the attititude in the thread about people "hating" /clapping back at the friend which seems misplaced at times as you acknowledge.


As far as the specific mom's spaghetti incident....
for 1) if someone is cooking, i let them cook. i might ask them if they want help but i'm not going to question their recipe.
for 2) i already know my friends that are pushovers lol so i cant see myself seriously questioning why they are doing something that doesn't suit them. i been knowing most of my friends for like 15-20 years so i know the motives behind their perceived irregular actions.
i was with my friend the other day and he was driving me to a baseball game because i didn't feel like finding parking and all that. i notice he is hitting the breaks hard so i like might have let out a noise or something like that. he got all offensive like "why you acting scared, i got ths dont trip "... i was like "i didn't even say anything chill out lol" but then i realized that his girl be snappin on his ass all the time so the nikka got ptsd.... so i didn't even have to ask something goofy like "why are you on edge my friend "... i was just like "your ptsd head ass, ol girl be snappin on your driving on a daily basis ha" he was like "for sure lol " and we carry on as friends as usual.

 

[Braman]

Miserable mfers are always recruiting. You know the game breh.

And it aint just women either Gotta watch who you let pour poison in your ear.

The irony of irony. Low key….buddy is getting a whole lot of poison in this thread

‘Wouldn’t let that shyt happen to me…..I woulda kicked her hoe ass out…Says more about your wife’

Nggas a step away from tell him him to leave his wife

 

[The Pledge]

Not more than my wife seems to hate them

They’re always talking shyt to each other, I be like damn do y’all even like each other?

Women are so mean to one another.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

The irony of irony. Low key….buddy is getting a whole lot of poison in this thread

‘Wouldn’t let that shyt happen to me…..I woulda kicked her hoe ass out…Says more about your wife’

Nggas a step away from tell him him to leave his wife

Difference is, we're not friends in his inner circle and as a man, he will most likely pick and choose which advice suits him and which doesnt and come up with his own solution in which he already did

 

[Michael's Black Son]

My wife’s friend came over today, and stayed for dinner. I was sitting on the couch while they were in the kitchen. The friend kept telling her what to put in the spaghetti sauce, and my wife kept telling her I don’t like it like that. The friend kept saying, “So? Why you gotta do what he wants?”



bytch, this is MY house, and my wife makes the food the way I like it. That’s what a woman is supposed to do.

Maybe this is why my wife has a husband, and her friend doesn’t.

Couldn’t stand my ex’s friends.

In her little crew of 4 chicks only 1 was a legit baddie so being seen in public with the other 3 felt like a liability to my brand LOL. It’s a lot to ask a handsome gang breh to basically neutralize the looks of 3 wack chicks when y’all are out.

Meanwhile the friends were too loud and one of them was on some thot shyt to a point where she let a dude slide raw on a trip (the first night) and came back pregnant — the kid is like 3 years old



The fukkery associated with chicks had me thinking that I didn’t want these bytches in my future wedding photos but things didn’t ultimately work out with me and the chick anyway.

But there’s literally nothing outside of full facial plastic surgery, 2-5 years in the gym and a brain reprogramming that would improve her friends.

Ex felt some kinda way about how I felt about her friends and I was very about it and said I like what I like and what I don’t like I don’t like.

 

[BigMan]

More so than male friends, a lot of women friends feel entitled to be involved in their friends’ relationships

It’s funnier when they are single giving relationship advice

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

No, I would never marry my wife if i hated her friends because eventually i would hate her too. Plus, there no friend in my wife life that would come in my house disrespecting me. You may want to have conversation with your wife, usually friends response is based off whatever information she was told about you.

Nah, I wouldn't tell the wife, that's where miscommunication happens. Gotta tell her friend face to face in a child friendly matter.