Anybody else hate their wife’s/girlfriends’s friends?
- Thread starter CreepyMcCreeperson
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O.T.I.S.
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No i wouldntWould you say the same about a woman getting marriage advice on LSA?
But this is something I think that differentiates most men and women
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CreepyMcCreeperson
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Couldn’t stand my ex’s friends.
In her little crew of 4 chicks only 1 was a legit baddie so being seen in public with the other 3 felt like a liability to my brand LOL. It’s a lot to ask a handsome gang breh to basically neutralize the looks of 3 wack chicks when y’all are out.
Meanwhile the friends were too loud and one of them was on some thot shyt to a point where she let a dude slide raw on a trip (the first night) and came back pregnant — the kid is like 3 years old
The fukkery associated with chicks had me thinking that I didn’t want these bytches in my future wedding photosbut things didn’t ultimately work out with me and the chick anyway.
But there’s literally nothing outside of full facial plastic surgery, 2-5 years in the gym and a brain reprogramming that would improve her friends.
Ex felt some kinda way about how I felt about her friends and I was veryabout it and said I like what I like and what I don’t like I don’t like.
Her friends have an annual pool party, and 90% of the women were fat.
Even the thick ones had a ton of cellulite. I think it’s also them being a little older than us, so it’s a bunch of women in their 40s. Half are married, the rest are single moms, and ONE single childless one who is skinny and attractive.
well the spaghetti incident was OPs topic, not really mine. i was speaking more generally toward the attititude in the thread about people "hating" /clapping back at the friend which seems misplaced at times as you acknowledge.
As far as the specific mom's spaghetti incident....
for 1) if someone is cooking, i let them cook. i might ask them if they want help but i'm not going to question their recipe.
for 2) i already know my friends that are pushovers lol so i cant see myself seriously questioning why they are doing something that doesn't suit them. i been knowing most of my friends for like 15-20 years so i know the motives behind their perceived irregular actions.
i was with my friend the other day and he was driving me to a baseball game because i didn't feel like finding parking and all that. i notice he is hitting the breaks hard so i like might have let out a noise or something like that. he got all offensive like "why you acting scared, i got ths dont trip"... i was like "i didn't even say anything chill out lol" but then i realized that his girl be snappin on his ass all the time so the nikka got ptsd.... so i didn't even have to ask something goofy like "why are you on edge my friend
"... i was just like "your ptsd head ass, ol girl be snappin on your driving on a daily basis ha" he was like "for sure lol
" and we carry on as friends as usual.
Some people take our relationships very seriously. Some might even say too seriously. May not be the best thing for friendships. May not even be the best thing for relationships. But in my experience if you dont have the energy to defend your relationship. Or percieve the slightest slight as an affront? Good chance you might miss the signs that will slowly and mothodically damage your relationship. Vigilance is a major key in my opinion.
Soon as you called my righteous attachment "ol girl",I would have had to say "With all due respect,her name is Destiny
I do tend to disagree with most of the thread,that advice cant be given,from someone outside the relationship.And good advice is good advice whether someone is single or not. This notion only married people should be allowed to give married people advice isnt good. In general most people just dont give good,and better yet unbias advice. So I think thats where the sweeping statment comes from. People have just become so accustomed to bad advice from outsiders,because its the norm.
bourgeoisie tall freak
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Some people take our relationships very seriously. Some might even say too seriously. May not be the best thing for friendships. May not even be the best thing for relationships. But in my experience if you dont have the energy to defend your relationship. Or percieve the slightest slight as an affront? Good chance you might miss the signs that will slowly and mothodically damage your relationship. Vigilance is a major key in my opinion. Soon as you called my righteous attachment "ol girl",I would have had to say "With all due respect,her name is Destiny".
Agree with the being offended part but as i've repeated in the thread it seems like most posters on here don't have genuine friendships. friends crack on each other all the time. the friend might have been teasing her pushover friend. and it was in a whole different room so assuming if the OP has a decent sized house she may have not even been trying to offend him like that but just joking with her friend. i'm sure if it was men hanging out and the male said something like i gotta do it the way wifey wants, many men would have joked about him being whipped or something like that. which is nothing to take offense to if it's coming from a sincere friend who is joking around.
but yeah, i do be forgetting her name a lot... my friend has dated so many girls though so its not my fault lol
he knows who i mean 
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Texas2step
H-Town it's NOT our year
I'm good with all my wife's friends but its one that I have an issue with. She is married and her husband and I are cool. We been on vacations and outings together, they even had their engagement party at my house.
Now the issue is she created an onlyfans page last month and finds someone to fukk EVERYDAY. She lies to her husband using us as cover without our knowledge. I went off on her last week bc that's not cool involving us in her bullshyt. I told her if he calls me looking for you, I'm gonna tell him truth because what she doing is foul.
Now the issue is she created an onlyfans page last month and finds someone to fukk EVERYDAY. She lies to her husband using us as cover without our knowledge. I went off on her last week bc that's not cool involving us in her bullshyt. I told her if he calls me looking for you, I'm gonna tell him truth because what she doing is foul.
you told tell her husband. She could be bringing std’s and all types of shyt to him
K.O.N.Y
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Plz tell me you lying
My girl’s friends are surprisingly all pretty cool. Besides her best friend she grew up with who is a teacher, they’re mostly other women she met in pharmacy school so no broke hoes and all seem pretty level headed. A few of them stay on her about working out with them and shyt and it’s nice that I don’t have to like with some exes.
Humble (Not) Mike Tyson
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Your wife has a choice to make...
Texas2step
H-Town it's NOT our year
That's the issue. He hasn't had sex with her in over year despite her begging. So she decided to step out. They have one car and she in hotel till mid every night
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
This is who your wife still chooses to befriend????
Nah, you both need to cut your ties. Women won’t “tattle” on each other because of this unwritten girl code but that’s too far.
I’m actually glad most of my lady’s friends are gay men. They don’t involve her in their debauchery and keep it to themselves.
Women will go out of their way to corrupt others. I wouldn’t be surprised if she has encouraged your wife to get an onlyfans.
Texas2step
H-Town it's NOT our year
Nah my wife isn't ok with it and they have had their differences over it. Their group of friends has distanced themselves from her , so my wife feels some strange loyalty to her bc my wife is her only close friend now.This is who your wife still chooses to befriend????
Nah, you both need to cut your ties. Women won’t “tattle” on each other because of this unwritten girl code but that’s too far.
I’m actually glad most of my lady’s friends are gay men. They don’t involve her in their debauchery and keep it to themselves.
Women will go out of their way to corrupt others. I wouldn’t be surprised if she has encouraged your wife to get an onlyfans.
The Half-Blood FKA Prince
Avada Kedavbreh!
Put her disrespectful ass out and if ur wife has any issues let her know she can ho (edit: that hilariously ironic typo was supposed to be go)with her. If ur wife tries u be ready to see it through though. If u let even a little disrespect slide it will only escalate.