Anybody else have a dismissive-avoidant personality type?
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SeveroDrgnfli
Ain't nobody tryin to get indicted.
Attachment style is arguably one of the most important things someone should know about themselves and people around them. Of course TLR doesn't want to discuss it. BTW, I'm fearful-avoidant and secure in my relationships. Needless to say I don't play well with others and my relationships end because I shut down on bytches because I don't trust bytches.I forgot. Only post fukkery on here. Save the intellectual shyt for elsewhere
It may not be uncommon you just wouldn't know it without being in a relationship with a person like that. I honestly don't think you're built for that type of in depth analysis though so I'll let you stay stupid.
philmonroe
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Damn definitely hurt some cats feelings. I guess all the weirdo congregate online and don't talk about it off? You can't let me stay something I'm not regarding stupidity. You must be one of the cats I'm talking about and feel hurt. It's okay dude lol
I actually feel like this to an extent only thing making me toss the mindset aside is my avarice.
I'm not mad I just think it's stupid to make yourself look like an idiot, but then again as I already said it makes sense given who I'm talking to.philmonroe
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Nah your mad. Just because we don't agree don't make me stupid. I can't make myself look like an idiot. I mean you are because you can't in breath say I can't judge people that I don't know but you did at the first chance that you could. That's what's wrong with you internet weirdo types. Y'all nikkas ain't shyt irl and wish y'all could be like your cowardly asses are online but aren't so you come up with all these stupid ass terms to explain your lack of confidence. At the end of the day being idiot to you is okay because your just a name online that I wouldn't fukk with off because you're a coward so if you want me to be an idiot to make you feel good okay I'll be that.
So lately it just seems like nothing can lift me up from this mood I've been in. This isn't exactly a new feeling, but this time around I feel waaay too numb to it. It's like I'm still depressed only now I can't feel it anymore. I just feel completely empty. I couldn't even tap into emotions of sadness if I tried. It's like my brain has worked so hard to build a wall and block these feelings for so long that there's no way possible it can ever get to me again. I guess it's a good thing, but it just feels off.
So.... 2016 was probably the worst year of my life so far. Me and my ex broke up, who I dropped everything and moved for (Gainesville, FL from Fort Lauderdale) just to be with her and her son, almost ended up homeless and helpless. Luckily I bounced back and just had really good luck with making money at the time to get my own spot. After the break up I immediately fukked 3 different chicks to get over it, but it didn't help. Instead I felt more alone than I already was. I lived on my own for 6 months in this redneck town until I just said fukk it and moved back home to NY.
But the worst part of the year... My best friend had died of cancer. She was my go-to friend for everything happening in my life. She had cancer a few years ago but she fought it and I just figured she'd fight it again. That whole year I didn't even take it seriously. I would call and check up on her but I never dwelled on the fact that she could actually die. I would even go some days or weeks without really talking to her, cuz she'd be doing chemo and just not be up to talking on the phone. And to make it worse she would keep reassuring me that she was okay. At one point, even though I couldn't really afford to do it, I was gonna drive from Florida to NY just to visit her in the hospital but she would tell me to not worry and focus on my financial situation. I have so many regrets about not going to visit her, not checking up on her enough or spending a lot of the time I did have with her bytching about my ex.
So all the while she's in the hospital or at home resting not feeling up to it, another close friend of mine who i would confide in stopped talking to me. Long story short this bytch stopped talking to me because I didn't vote
But me and her were bound to stop talking prior to that anyways. She's one of those overly righteous feminist bytches and I'm #HOH, especially after my breakup. So we were constantly butting heads.
I lost my girlfriend, best friend and a close friend all in that same year. I know, I know... Not the worse thing that can happen to a person. But it definitely changed how I am with people now. I literally have no interest in making friends, being in relationships, or interacting with others at all. I literally only have two somewhat close friends left and even then I'm not as close with them like I once was. People just suck and there's no point in dealing with them. I was always an introvert, loner, asocial, distant, guarded person. But after 2016... I think this is who I'll be permanently.
I know I post a lot of fukkery and troll on here a lot, and for the most part it keeps me entertained and distracted from my own bullshyt. But I definitely think I should find something more healthier and rewarding to focus my energies on. Eventually...
So.... 2016 was probably the worst year of my life so far. Me and my ex broke up, who I dropped everything and moved for (Gainesville, FL from Fort Lauderdale) just to be with her and her son, almost ended up homeless and helpless. Luckily I bounced back and just had really good luck with making money at the time to get my own spot. After the break up I immediately fukked 3 different chicks to get over it, but it didn't help. Instead I felt more alone than I already was. I lived on my own for 6 months in this redneck town until I just said fukk it and moved back home to NY.
But the worst part of the year... My best friend had died of cancer. She was my go-to friend for everything happening in my life. She had cancer a few years ago but she fought it and I just figured she'd fight it again. That whole year I didn't even take it seriously. I would call and check up on her but I never dwelled on the fact that she could actually die. I would even go some days or weeks without really talking to her, cuz she'd be doing chemo and just not be up to talking on the phone. And to make it worse she would keep reassuring me that she was okay. At one point, even though I couldn't really afford to do it, I was gonna drive from Florida to NY just to visit her in the hospital but she would tell me to not worry and focus on my financial situation. I have so many regrets about not going to visit her, not checking up on her enough or spending a lot of the time I did have with her bytching about my ex.
So all the while she's in the hospital or at home resting not feeling up to it, another close friend of mine who i would confide in stopped talking to me. Long story short this bytch stopped talking to me because I didn't vote
But me and her were bound to stop talking prior to that anyways. She's one of those overly righteous feminist bytches and I'm #HOH, especially after my breakup. So we were constantly butting heads. I lost my girlfriend, best friend and a close friend all in that same year. I know, I know... Not the worse thing that can happen to a person. But it definitely changed how I am with people now. I literally have no interest in making friends, being in relationships, or interacting with others at all. I literally only have two somewhat close friends left and even then I'm not as close with them like I once was. People just suck and there's no point in dealing with them. I was always an introvert, loner, asocial, distant, guarded person. But after 2016... I think this is who I'll be permanently.
I know I post a lot of fukkery and troll on here a lot, and for the most part it keeps me entertained and distracted from my own bullshyt. But I definitely think I should find something more healthier and rewarding to focus my energies on. Eventually...
Nah I'm not sick,
"philmonroe
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Not at all. Maybe you fit into those I "shyt" on. Otherwise I lost like everybody else. Don't know why y'all dudes catching feelings over disagreements did I fukk up yalls internet safe space? Y'all want some more daps and friends? What? It's pretty simple I agree with some stuff and disagree with some stuff. People get offended when you disagree. When I agree with cats never has a cat been like agreeing with me is your gimmick nowadays. Funny how that works.
Seems like your gimmick is to just shyt on people online nowadays..
Nah you just seem negative as fukk...calling people cowardly,talking about brehs ain't shyt..like what is the point.
philmonroe
Superstar
Seems is the operative word. I'm not but if that's how you want to see it because you side with dudes that's cool. I mean my man you aren't anybody's parent on here but you got the questions for only me like cats didn't say shyt about me first. I don't really care but dont come with the bias stuff. My first post is agreeing with somebody and why then folks that were offended then chipping in. Ask them why why doing what they doing if you truly want to understand the point. Don't single me out because of some bias.
Like I said when you agree with people nobody has jack to say and you read toooooo much into saying folks ain't shyt/cowardly. People that do these threads are cowardly in they claim they don't do the normal social stuff but get right on here and function just like the real world just online. That's what I mean saying that and aint shyt part that's just shyt talking. Maybe you ain't from here and they don't talk shyt where you from.