Anybody ever let "The One" go?

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I think this is true but everyone is different. I know people who got serious in the 20s and there 15+ years deep now.

But for me, I think that's why I've been so nonchalant about trying to plan our wedding. I even told her I was a little skeptical few months back. I feel like I didn't want to get married right now because infidelity in a marriage is huge and I don't want that to happen. I don't regret our time together at all what you're saying is true for me I'm thinking.

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He bout to crush this chick. It ain't on the same level but my one and only love put it on me bad. I'm out here disrespectful
and never trust chicks, and it takes a mountain of effort to go against my instincts and let them in now.

He bout to fukk around and have her jaded. EVERYTHING he enjoys about her will be gone overnight, and the next dude
will catch hell. This shyt bout to have me heated.:smh:
 

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He bout to crush this chick. It ain't on the same level but my one and only love put it on me bad. I'm out here disrespectful
and never trust chicks, and it takes a mountain of effort to go against my instincts and let them in now.

He bout to fukk around and have her jaded. EVERYTHING he enjoys about her will be gone overnight, and the next dude
will catch hell. This shyt bout to have me heated.:smh:

None of that matters though...

He is fulfilling his quest ... to... Uhm....I guess be wishy washy and noncommittal

I guess it's a fair trade off for him...

So long as he is happy at the end of the day then It's all worth it....
 

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None of that matters though...

He is fulfilling his quest ... to... Uhm....I guess be wishy washy and noncommittal

I guess it's a fair trade off for him...

So long as he is happy at the end of the day then It's all worth it....
ABSOLUTELY! No reason to let her know his feelings so she can have a choice before he acts up. Nope, gotta hold it all in
and do erratic shyt that is going to push her away.
 

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ABSOLUTELY! No reason to let her know his feelings so she can have a choice before he acts up. Nope, gotta hold it all in
and do erratic shyt that is going to push her away.

:mjcry:

Get ready girls.... A new cat lady club member is about to get initiated :wow:
 
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that's how life is man........
she's gonna move on,carry that hurt,
still love you but forever have a distaste for you.
she's gonna get pregnant by another man asap
and thats gonna cripple you inside.
youre at that fork in the road.....
either youre gonna plant roots and be a happy
family man or live a life of empty sex,
material bullshyt to keep your attention
and children by women youre gonna wish
were her.
you still have a window......but time is running out.

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Was gonna type something long and drawn out, but fuuuuuuuuuck you @PimpHandStrong love her or leave her. Don't damage this chick for the next guy who played it straight. Mothafukkas always ruining people.:camby:
:whoa:

That's not my intention at all. She was actually the first one to bring this subject up to me a while ago but I dismissed the notion because I thought I knew what I wanted. Hell the other day she told me I wasn't being honest with myself.
 

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That's not my intention at all. She was actually the first one to bring this subject up to me a while ago but I dismissed the notion because I thought I knew what I wanted. Hell the other day she told me I wasn't being honest with myself.
Then sort that shyt out. Know how many brothas out here whining about not being able to find a good girl? If you don't love that chick, the choice is easy. If you do,
Ask her if she has any reservations. If she does, start of a conversation. If she says she doesn't explain your worry. Last thing you need are "serial slipups" and break that
chicks heart.
 
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